(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]
PW[Me]PB[Other guy]RE[W+3.50]
;B[pd]
;W[dp]
;B[qp]
;W[dc]
;B[oq]
;W[qj]
;B[de]
;W[fd]
;B[cc]
;W[cb]
;B[cd]
(;W[bb]
;B[ci]
;W[ic]C[Is this extension joseki?

If you don't play something in this area, black attacks severely because of the e18 weakness you left behind.]
;B[qg]
;W[qm]
;B[oc]
;W[ck]C[Not sure this actually works. I know it's sente if w plays the more solid e18 instead of b18

e18 is not sente, and now it's really slow for white since he already played j17 extension.]
;B[ei]
;W[jq]
;B[cq]
(;W[cp]C[Wrong direction. White is already limited on that side. More potential on the other side.]
;B[dq]
;W[eq]
;B[er]
;W[fr]
;B[fq]
;W[ep]
;B[gr]
;W[dr]
;B[fs]
;W[cr]
;B[lq]C[This isn't a good result for white at all :(]
;W[ek]C[too greedy perhaps.]
;B[go]
;W[fn]
;B[gn]
;W[fm]C[So right now I'm convinced I have lost because he can just m5 (or l4?) and I feel stupid trying to save k3.]
;B[bk]
;W[bj]
;B[cj]
;W[bl]
;B[dk]
;W[cl]
;B[dl]
;W[dm]
;B[el]
;W[fp]C[instead he let me have most of my territory in sente so I get to move out from k3.]
;B[gp]
;W[hq]
;B[gq]
;W[lr]
;B[kr]C[not sure, gives me too many forcing moves?]
;W[kq]
;B[mr]
;W[lp]
;B[mq]
;W[jr]
;B[ls]
;W[jn]
;B[hl]
;W[jl]
;B[lo]
(;W[ko]
;B[mp]
;W[ln]
;B[kp]
;W[jp]
;B[mn]
;W[lm]
;B[io]
;W[lp]
;B[em]
;W[en]
;B[kp]
;W[jo]
;B[fl]
;W[mm]
;B[gm]
;W[bq]
;B[lc]C[Again I feel far behind.]
;W[nn]
;B[mo]
;W[oi]
;B[mi]C[I don't see a good way to deal with this. Pretty sure the way I dealt with it was horrible. Maybe I should attempt to cut it off, so I can destroy o15 area easily while still getting most of p9 area? (hopefully)As mentioned, I was a bit scared of this guy.]
;W[bi]C[important sente]
;B[bh]
(;W[mj]C[This is definitely wrong.]
;B[lj]
;W[mk]
;B[ni]
;W[oj]
;B[oh]
;W[le]C[overplay? probably

You have to overplay. You're far behind. Especially after the timid contact play earlier ^^ 
But maybe this is not the move.

Don't be afraid of anyone. Fight, even with a 9d. It doesn't matter ^^]
;B[jd]
;W[jc]C[bad move from me. He should just l16. I thought I'd just get killed very badly if I try l13 or l12 right now. At least like this my territory gets solidified in sente, but I think I give him too much in the process.]
;B[kc]
;W[id]
;B[je]
;W[kh]C[He made such an awkard shape I felt I can try something here]
;B[ki]
;W[nh]
;B[ph]
;W[ji]
;B[jj]
;W[lh]
;B[li]
;W[ij]
;B[jh]
;W[ii]
;B[mh]
;W[jg]
;B[lg]
;W[kg]
;B[lf]
;W[ie]
;B[if]
;W[ig]
;B[jf]
;W[kf]
;B[ke]
;W[hf]
;B[kd]
;W[ae]
;B[be]
;W[ad]
;B[af]
(;W[ac]C[I was sure he'd ignore, but I can't see any good sente for me.]
;B[hg]
;W[ih]
;B[gf]
;W[he]
;B[fe]
;W[ed]
;B[gh]
;W[fg]
;B[gg]
;W[jk]
;B[gj]
;W[ee]
;B[ef]
;W[cf]
;B[ge]
;W[bf]
;B[gd]
;W[gc]
;B[hc]
;W[gb]
;B[hb]
;W[df]
;B[dg]
;W[cg]
;B[eb]
;W[ha]C[silly misread]
;B[fc]
;W[db]
;B[fb]
;W[ch]
;B[dh]
;W[ah]C[gote. Again I'm sure I lost the game.]
;B[qi]
;W[rj]
;B[nj]
;W[nk]C[He's getting rid of his liberties, I can't say I'm entirely unhappy about these exchanges..]
;B[pj]
;W[pk]
;B[pi]
;W[ok]
;B[on]
;W[kj]C[aji keshi. But I felt like resigning anyway. Actually I felt rude to continue playing.]
;B[ng]
;W[ro]
;B[qo]
;W[rp]
;B[rq]
;W[rn]
;B[pm]
;W[rh]
;B[ri]
;W[si]
;B[ql]
;W[pl]
;B[rm]
;W[qn]
;B[rl]
;W[qk]
;B[pn]C[blunder by him.]
;W[qq]
;B[qr]
;W[po]
;B[pp]
;W[oo]
;B[sp]
;W[om]
;B[lk]C[Complete and utter gote..]
;W[rf]
;B[rg]
;W[sg]
;B[qh]C[unnecessary ko..]
;W[rd]
;B[sh]
;W[op]
;B[pq]
;W[rh]
;B[ak]
;W[cm]
;B[sh]
;W[ga]
;B[ia]
;W[rh]
;B[qe]
;W[qc]
;B[sh]
;W[pb]
;B[sj]
;W[sk]C[This might be me being greedy. Can black kill with s18? He hasn't blocked on either side, but it looks very dangerous..]
;B[re]
;W[rb]
;B[ob]
;W[oa]
;B[na]
;W[pa]
;B[fa]C[again a blunder, he should just connect.]
;W[dj]C[timesuji]
;B[di]
;W[nb]
;B[mb]
;W[ma]
;B[nc]
;W[lb]
;B[na]
;W[mf]
;B[mg]
;W[nb]
;B[ec]
;W[dd]
;B[na]
;W[gl]
;B[gk]
;W[nb]
;B[ai]
;W[bg]
;B[na]
;W[fk]
;B[ej]
;W[nb]
;B[aj]C[This threat is big, but gote, so I chose to ignore.]
;W[mc]
;B[md]
;W[mb]
;B[bh]
;W[kb]
;B[ld]
;W[nd]
;B[me]
;W[od]
;B[oe]
;W[pc]
;B[jb]
;W[ne]C[wasting a ko threat, why not..]
;B[nf]
;W[si]
;B[ag]
;W[ah]
;B[ag]
;W[rh]
;B[al]
;W[am]
;B[sh]
;W[se]
;B[sf]
;W[of]
;B[pe]
;W[sg]
;B[an]
;W[bm]
;B[sf]
;W[ib]
;B[hd]
;W[sg]
;B[dn]
;W[cn]
;B[sf]
;W[eg]C[I wasn't even sure he'd respond here. Anyway, I have not many threats left, so ko is hard to win for me.]
;B[ff]
;W[sg]
;B[ah]
;W[af]
;B[sf]
;W[bi]
;B[bj]
;W[sg]
;B[oc]
;W[nc]
;B[sf]
;W[sd]
;B[qf]
;W[hi]C[Just small endgame from here. No more comments from me.]
;B[im]
;W[gi]
;B[fi]
;W[in]
;B[jm]
;W[km]
;B[kk]
;W[il]
;B[hm]
;W[kl]
;B[ip]
;W[hr]
;B[iq]
;W[ir]
;B[fo]
;W[eo]
;B[da]
;W[js]
;B[hs]
;W[ks]
;B[lr]
;W[np]
;B[ds]
;W[cs]
;B[es]
;W[nq]
;B[nr]
;W[so]
;B[sq]
;W[ca]
;B[ll]
;W[ml]
;B[ka]
;W[jj]
;B[sj]
;W[ea]
;B[si]
;W[da]
;B[lp]
;W[hp]
;B[ho]
;W[kn]
;B[]
;W[]
;B[]TW[aa][ba][na][qa][ra][sa][ab][ob][qb][sb][bc][cc][oc][rc][sc][bd][cd][be][ce][de][jh][rk][nl][ol][ql][rl][sl][nm][pm][rm][sm][an][bn][dn][on][pn][sn][ao][bo][co][do][ap][bp][aq][cq][dq][ar][br][as][bs]TB[ga][ha][gb][ib][gc][ic][jc][id][he][ie][le][hf][mf][of][pf][rf][eg][fg][og][pg][sg][eh][fh][nh][rh][bi][dj][fj][ek][fk][gl][qq][fr][or][pr][rr][sr][ms][ns][os][ps][qs][rs][ss])
(;W[bc]C[Better. End of comments.]))
(;W[og]C[something like this is better for sure.]
(;B[mg]
;W[qf])
(;B[pf]
;W[mg])))
(;W[kp]))
(;W[dq]
;B[cp]
;W[cn]
;B[bn]
;W[mq]
;B[oo]C[Much better than the variation imo.]))
(;W[eb]
;B[ci]C[Now white has sente.]))