Thanks for the comments on spacing and approching, as you mentioned I should learn not to simply react I did feel that my opponent controlled the game and I simply responded and perhaps not did enough to reduce territory.
Well this is my first game on kgs, I clearly made terrible mistakes, even as a beginner missing atari etc I do believe I lost if you count he just had to go.
I have just recently discovered and starting playing go though mainly on Many Faces Of Go v12 against the bot, haven't got round to playing on KGS or any other server yet.
Just been using a couple of go books to teach myself the basics so far.