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Video A: 2 monkeys

Video B: wrestling

Suppose Mary's true level is about 5 kyu, and Joe's true level is about 3 dan.
If Mary wants to play a pro, it's her choice.
She knows ahead of time someone is pro, and it is she who chooses to pay for the lesson.
If she wants to play someone around her own level, it's her choice.
I have some accounts a lot weaker than my peak strength.
Say Joe has a 5-kyu account, for whatever reasons.
If Mary is paired up with Joe, she sees his 5-kyu account; she does not know his true level is 3 dan.
But Joe does: he knows on this day, his level is still 3 dan, and he can also see her 5-kyu rating.
He now has a choice: to disclose this information, or not.
He can ask her, "I'm really about 3 dan. This 5-kyu rating is not my true level. Would you still like to play me ?"
And let her choose.
If he does not tell her, he is hiding this information and mis-representing himself, to her.
He is not letting her choose. He is choosing for her. In Go, he's forcing himself on her.

If there were no ratings in this world -- like in an Open division --
then everyone knows their opponent's level is like a box of chocolates; and that's fine.

But we do have ratings. And there are people like Joe who repeatedly mis-represent themselves.
Bottom line - you meet a sandbagger, try to learn from him/her.
If you don't feel like learning, resign and move on, why waste time. What's the big deal?
This is like saying a physiologically normal person jumps into disability wrestling matches --
repeatedly, over and over again, mis-representing himself as disabled and crushing his opponents --
and you tell the disabled wrestlers,
"Hey, just learn something from that guy, or move on. What's the big deal ? "

Yes, we could just watch people jump in line, watch people bully others,
keep our mouth shut, and "move on". What's the big deal ?
Others in this thread have said, what's wrong with sandbagging ?
It's not illegal. Morals, schmorals. A 3 dan hiding behind a 5-kyu rating and crushing his opponents, repeatedly.
Hey, it's just a game, Joe is having fun, what's wrong with that ?

If you don't understand Videos A and B,
if you really don't see the difference between Mary choosing to pay a pro,
versus her getting sandbagged by Joe, well, enjoy your life.

And, why would I want to learn from people like Joe.
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Post by tentano »

I really feel Ed has a point here. A lot of sandbaggers aren't demonstrating awesome superior play. They will deliberately kick you in the insecurity with moves which would never work against someone their own level.

You only really learn what it's like to be taken in by trick moves from such players.

MAYBE you will eventually learn how to punish those tricks, but it will do very little to seriously raise your rank.
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I'm serious about my previous comment. I'm not saying that deliberate, intentionally deceptive sandbagging don't exist. To the extent that it does it is unsportsmanlike, but I do think the numbers are exaggerated by players looking in the wrong places to explain their own losses. I've had, by now, hundreds of games reviewed by strong amateurs and pros and not once have I been told, "well, it's okay that you lost this because your opponent is obviously a sandbagger" or something to that effect. Not once. And I'm sure those teachers knew or suspected something was fishy in some cases. But that's not the point. The point is there is always something I could have done better. If you get into your head that your opponent might be a sandbagger then you'll be chasing ghosts for the rest of your life.
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EdLee wrote:Suppose Mary's true level is about 5 kyu, and Joe's true level is about 3 dan.
If Mary wants to play a pro, it's her choice.
She knows ahead of time someone is pro, and it is she who chooses to pay for the lesson.
If she wants to play someone around her own level, it's her choice.
Then why does she keep playing? Resign, and move on - play somebody else, around her level.

What you say is all true.

My point is that people who get sandbagged waste time twofold:
1. First they keep continuing the game even long after they realized they've been had... why?
2. And then they keep wasting time and energy getting angry about it, complaining about it, writing posts about it, and whatnot... instead of finding back their balance and having a good game with somebody else. Its not productive, and makes almost as little sense as sandbagging.

But whatever rocks your boat, mate.

PS>
You will not eradicate all evil in the world. Jerks are out there, and so are sandbaggers. Keep playing, keep whining, keep complaining - is playing into their hands. This thread started as a challenge to create a psychological profile of a sandbagger. I feel they are people who not only get a kick out of easy win, but also enjoy seeing you squirm. By making big issue out of it, you are playing right into their hands. I can see how they see back and enjoy making you so angry and causing you to waste hours on whining and complaining. But what can you really do.

You can keep complaining and letting it ruin your day - and this is an interesting psychological study by itself as well.

Bottom line is - sandbaggers happen. It is very unfortunate, but such is life. All in all, its one of the extremely minor nuisances, hardly worth fussing over, imho.

The only real solution, if you are serious about finding one, is found not inside a sandbagger, but inside yourself. Don't let it bother you, and you have already won. Or get upset and you are handing the sandbagger what he wants on a silver platter. That's all there is to it.

I have said similar things about escapers in the past, and I firmly believe it is true for both.
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Bantari wrote:Sandbaggers ... [are an] extremely minor [nuisance], hardly worth fussing over, imho.
(a) Sandbaggers are a waste of time. (paraphrased)
Bantari wrote:People who...[write] posts about it [are]...wasting time
(b) People who write about sandbaggers are wasting time. (paraphrased)

(c) So, you promptly wrote almost 500 words (posts 35 & 44).
And that, magically, is neither a waste of time nor hypocritical.


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EdLee wrote:If he does not tell her, he is hiding this information and mis-representing himself, to her.
He is not letting her choose. He is choosing for her. In Go, he's forcing himself on her.
So sandbagging is rape now, Ed?

Next in this series: Should professionals be prosecuted for playing anonymously online?
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tapir wrote:So sandbagging is rape now, Ed?
Straw man, ignored.
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Vast majority of reported sandbaggings is either

1) "optimistic 3 kyu" vs. "actual 3 kyu"
2) actual 3 kyu wins by a large margin
3) optimistic 3 kyu gets all unstable and cries foul

or bad reading exposed by brawling accounts (especially on CJK-server). This hardly would be a problem if not for all the people confusing rank - a tool for match-making - with a self-worth-meter.
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Edlee, what a great analogy with the example of wrestling. All the post explained clearly the point about sandbaggers. Thanks.
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foe wrote:I've been told that I'm sandbagging, as I very easily win against some equally ranked players, but then I lose devastatingly to other players at the same rank.
I think it's just the level we are at - some of us are good at thing A and terrible at B, but depending on who we play, that becomes one sided one way or another sometimes. 12k, 8k... maybe even all kyu grades. Those can cover a wide spectrum of personal ability at the many facets of the game - over a hundred or two hundred games we reach the same rating, but that doesn't mean our skills are an even match.

I am relatively terrible at close-quarters shape and fighting, so games that get fighty go badly quickly for me against people (for example, Bonobo, who utterly thumped me when we were theoretically three stones different in rank) who are much much better at those things. I can see how someone who'd got to 10k without thinking too hard about that, could accuse him of being a sandbagger after foolishly leaving a weak structure for him to exploit and getting creamed.

Or they could go do some tsumego :lol:
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I don’t understand why people want to get into a fight … just like In Real Life.
  1. Sandbaggers do exist, and, aside from the annoyance they are to many people, they are destructive to a ranking system (as are heliumbaggers, Abyssinica ;-) )
  2. The temptation to believe that a person who is the same rank as me or even weaker and who beats me MUST be a sandbagger does exist as well. I think we then need to learn to cope with the pain of losing a game.
It seems that ego problems are universal :-D


I recommend this:
  1. Just don’t sandbag. It’s bad style. And this isn’t addressed towards those whose rank is fleeting (mine for example has been oscillating between 13 and 11k for about a year now), but rather towards those who do it knowingly. Be nice :-)
  2. If you encounter somebody you believe to be a sandbagger, contact a moderator/admin on the server you’re playing on and let them find out. Insulting them or complaining publicly about it won’t help your cause, much less if you mention the names of the people you suspect to be sandbaggers. And be prepared to realize that they perhaps just played better.
    It is not unusual that somebody beats a stronger player every once in a while. Happens to me, just like it happens that people 2-3 ranks weaker beat me.
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Bonobo wrote: If you encounter somebody you believe to be a sandbagger, contact a moderator/admin on the server you’re playing on and let them find out. Insulting them or complaining publicly about it won’t help your cause, much less if you mention the names of the people you suspect to be sandbaggers. And be prepared to realize that they perhaps just played better.
It is not unusual that somebody beats a stronger player every once in a while. Happens to me, just like it happens that people 2-3 ranks weaker beat me.
Most people I've seen complain about sandbaggers are just people who had a bad game. I always find it a bit sad. Best thing to do with sandbaggers is let the ratings system deal with it and move on.
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Did you then read any of what you did NOT quote from that my comment?
oren wrote:Most people I've seen complain about sandbaggers are just people who had a bad game. I always find it a bit sad.
Bonobo wrote:2. The temptation to believe that a person who is the same rank as me or even weaker and who beats me MUST be a sandbagger does exist [..] I think we then need to learn to cope with the pain of losing a game.
oren wrote:Best thing to do with sandbaggers is let the ratings system deal with it and move on.
Bonobo wrote:1. Sandbaggers [..] are destructive to a ranking system [..]
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It seems we've reached a consensus:

The players gonna play, play, play
And the haters gonna hate, hate, hate
Baby I'm just gonna shake, shake, shake
Shake it off
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Post by daal »

S2W wrote:It seems we've reached a consensus:

The players gonna play, play, play
And the haters gonna hate, hate, hate
Baby I'm just gonna shake, shake, shake
Shake it off
Don't forget: writers gonna write, write, write
Patience, grasshopper.
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