I fail to understand the "age discrimination" referred to.
John Fairbairn wrote:
There is a widespread rule that you play a move with the right hand and press the clock with your left
Surely you mean playing the move and pressing the clock with the same hand? Playing with one hand and pressing the clock with the other is so ridiculously unfair to the player that doesn't have the timepiece to his weaker side that it should warrant forfeiting the remaining games in the tournament when repeated.
At any rate, there are so many possible irregularities when it comes to making a move that attempting to regulate all of them is futile. In the end we really just need to be able to request that each player makes their moves like everyone else. In that regard this obsession with declaring "illegal moves" to be a loss appears to be counterproductive. You mention that KBA has a practice of allowing a move to be finished before the captures are removed, then while the captures are being removed the opponents clock is running but any move at this stage is illegal -- what? Is this really an accurate description? In that case the move is finished in name only.
The European Go Federation has a very good "General Tournament Rules" that handle most such cases sensibly (if a referee is anywhere to be found):
1. illegal moves are taken back if noticed within 3 moves
2. errors are in general corrected if possible
3. penalties are a last resort and do not default to loss by forfeit
There are probably other strong points, but I always find it amusing that "sportsmanship" is relegated in importance and I have wondered if that is due to poor use of the English language -- something being lost in translation.