So, the experience of playing the joseki ("how did I get in this river?") plus the pain of misplaying ("Damn, that was a sharp rock on the bottom!"), plus the education ("this is how you elementary back stroke") combine to help me remember.
I don't think this is quite what Ed is implying. Because he is referring to taiji and because he put "understanding" in quotes, I suspect he means there is no goal of understanding. By following the correct path you just end up "doing" something (but because this is oriental, mystic, hippy, enlightened or however you want to describe it, you achieve that by wuwei - "not doing"). It seems to follow that if you define an explicit goal ("remembering") you are already on the wrong path.
An example I like is from my student days. A fellow student, doing a PhD and so obviously bright, had a great and, I thought, irrational grudge against society because he was born a year or two earlier than the rest of us. He therefore missed out on a welfare innovation introduced for toddlers just after the war. This was orange juice in a bottle. He blamed missing this for the fact he was very short.
Now I have no idea whether free orange juice makes you grow, but I am quite prepared to accept that it does you some good, and that it definitely can be very handy to have it in a bottle, especially in post-war conditions. There was an explicit goal (health) and this was a rational way of achieving it. I consider this an RJ approach.
Yet, despite the rationality, I and, I'm sure, nearly all of my generation gave up drinking orange juice from bottles and even as children went through the tedious, difficult, messy operation of learning to peel an orange. We didn't even get much practice, since an orange was usually only an annual treat in the bottom of the Christmas stocking. I can still remember the awe we children felt at the way some adults (the 9-dans) could peel an orange so that the peel came away as a single strip.
But we persevered, and the situation now is that we can unthinkingly (the real meaning of wuwei, I think) peel an orange and suck out the juice and - this is an important point - unthinkingly enjoy it and unthinkingly imbibe its health benefits.
Nowadays, of course, you can get your orange juice from a carton, and even get a choice of "with bits" and "without bits". But think of all the unintended benefits we got from learning to peel an orange that you miss with a carton: dexterity, biological insights, learning to peel other fruit, the sheer joy of making a mess we weren't punished for... And instead of orange DDKs we unthinkingly became orange pros.
I tend to rail against the contrasting RJ approach to go not because it fails but because it sets explicit sub-goals and makes achieving them the sole criterion. It's the go equivalent of putting orange juice in a bottle in grim post-war conditions - works (though only in the sense of achieving a sub-goal) but is no fun.
Peeling the orange of go is messy at first, but is fun. Managing eventually to do it is a more satisfying kind of fun. Being able to do it unthinkingly while focusing on something else is unthinkingly fun - the most sublime kind. Too much go teaching cuts out this fun element, except perhaps the kiddywinkle kind. In any case, the burden of expectations placed on western go teaching is far too high because too many people want go in cartons now.
In any case, learning to peel an orange is something you can properly only do by yourself.