AVAVT wrote:Bantari wrote:And Moderation: no single interest should overshadow everything else. This is where sometimes boundries need to be enforced.
Why Bantari? We might have different point of view here, but I think if you try to keep your kid moderate in everything he might grow up to be a boring person with no actual hobby.
By the same token you might argue that grade school should teach only one subject. Or, more to the point, that the child can pick one subject and stop learning anything else. You will end up with another Fisher. Interesting? Certainly. But not sure that this is what you want your kid to grow into.
What I mean by my original post is that moderation does not necessary mean that you do everything with equal dedication or interest. Only that you should not allow one subject or interest to completely dominate your child's development.
And when you think about that, it will become obvious to you as well how bad this would be. Say your kid develops a great love for Go. He is 7, with some 15k rating, but all he wants to do is play Go. Would you make him also go to school, or would you allow him to do what he feels like? I personally don't know any parent who would allow that.
Philosophically, one of the most important role of a parent is to prepare the kid for the ret of his life. The lesson that you cannot always only do what you feel like, that sometimes it is necessary to do other stuff as well - it is an important lesson.
Just my opinion. Not trying to tell you how to raise your kid, just explaining my own opinion.