Thanks for the comments, as always, very enlightening.
So, my blitz games are going well, but today I got some time at university any played two slower games. Both went pretty horribly.
The first one I won't post, I tried to be clever and ended up being moronic, the second one is this:
http://www.lifein19x19.com/forum/download/file.php?id=5408
Luckily he let me kill a big group of his, but I should have lost big time.
Some of my own comments:

No idea what to do, looking at it now I would probably just tenuki. In the game I considered R15, but did not know what happens after black makes an empty triangle and cuts. In the end I chose the chicken move and ended up in a terrible situation.

One day I will stop playing this idiotic move, should have just pincered.

Now I get to attack, but not nearly as strongly as I would have hoped, maybe M15....

Snap move. Might not be too bad, but I should have considered the avalance at least.

Yeah, again this situation, for some reason I never have any clue what to do.

At this point I'm already kinda on tilt, because of the game before and how this one is looking. I have no clue how to best attack the black group on the right.

This again is a terrible result, guess that happens when your joseki knowledge only covers the other cut...

Here I try to kill the group(even in the game I realized it probably wasn't going to happen, so I was kinda playing in wishing mode anyways), bad idea. We both solidify our positions, but since black is ahead, I really should not want that.
:w126: Christmas came a few days early and I was a good boy, so I get to kill this group and get back in the game.
:w152: Not needed...
Enough comments, some more terrible sequences follow and I win a game that I should never had a chance in after the first few moves
Any correction on my comments appreciated. Also better variations always make me happy =)