Few 1-kyu-ish comments on your last game: Overall you played much too timid in my opinion and followed Black with almost every move. I think that is not good in handicap games because you have to catch up. You also should consider playing Tenuki to get to bigger points much more often. To do this I would try to play more resilient shapes or Tenuki if you can find a good move locally. My feeling is your play in the upper right made it close to impossible for White to win. You invested stone after stone but still your shape was full of holes and after Black poked everywhere you ended up very clumsy and overconcentrated but with almost no points.
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]HA[2]KM[0.50]TM[1500]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
PW[unusedname]PB[DawnKute]WR[4k]BR[6k]DT[2013-03-14]PC[The KGS Go Server at
http://www.gokgs.com/]AB[pd][dp]RE[W+Forfeit]
;W[pp]WL[1497.028]
;B[de]BL[1496.792]
;W[nc]WL[1492.53]C[My feeling is you are in for a tough game when Black pincers, because his stone in the top left corner helps the pincer stone.]
;B[ob]BL[1494.467]C[Greedy.]
;W[qf]WL[1483.817]C[Active.]
;B[re]BL[1492.974]C[White can Tenuki and treat the two stones as Kikashi.
Later you can decide from which side is more important to play on.]
;W[oe]WL[1473.304]C[Hm, I don't think this move is good here. Black is already alive in the corner so he can cut you worryfree. I would have played Tenuki.]
;B[rf]BL[1491.66]C[Very small.]
;W[qg]WL[1470.896]LB[dc:B][qh:A]C[Jump to A looks better locally. Globally I would again Tenuki and play B.]
;B[nb]BL[1489.603]
;W[mc]WL[1469.217]C[Same thing here. These moves are just slow right now.]
;B[od]BL[1488.023]
;W[me]WL[1453.108]
;B[nd]BL[1483.815]
;W[md]WL[1445.919]LB[lf:A]C[A is better shape to cover the cutting points.]
;B[ne]BL[1481.073]
;W[nf]WL[1445.117]
;B[mf]BL[1477.892]
;W[ng]WL[1432.271]
;B[pe]BL[1473.634]
;W[gd]WL[1405.249]LB[lb:C][id:A][jd:B][lg:D]C[A bit thin this extension. Black can invade at A or B and threaten to connect to C.
I would play B, this also threatens to play D and capture the cutting stone.]
;B[mb]BL[1470.253]
;W[kc]WL[1401.253]LB[dc:A]C[Slow again. You are playing from behind and have enough room to fight for this group.
I'd play A. Get the initiative! Right now White is following Black all over the board, in a handicap game this should be reversed =D]
;B[dc]BL[1466.761]C[Big.]
;W[qm]WL[1367.402]LB[lg:B][fq:A]C[Slow again. You can capture the cutting stone with B anytime, so your right side group is not in immediate danger.
I'd play A. ]
;B[rg]BL[1464.107]C[Tenuki.]
;W[qh]WL[1365.554]TR[qh][qm]C[: (
Look at the marked stones. At least one of them is now superfluous, I think.]
;B[oh]BL[1460.958]
;W[mh]WL[1353.419]LB[lg:A]C[Just A.]
;B[of]BL[1453.716]
;W[og]WL[1330.678]
;B[lf]BL[1450.633]LB[gg:B][fq:A]C[It may sound crazy but I would not want to answer locally. These are just two stones. You are strong enough at top and on the right. Try to capture on a large scale. Maybe A or B.]
;W[jf]WL[1322.899]
;B[lc]BL[1442.18]
;W[kd]WL[1291.243]LB[ld:A]C[Why not Atari?]
;B[kb]BL[1437.549]
;W[ic]WL[1272.005]C[Pretty shape but awefully overconcentrated. Just Tenuki.]
;B[gb]BL[1434.45]
;W[pj]WL[1223.613]C[Talk about overconcentrated.]
;B[lh]BL[1325.27]
;W[mi]WL[1219.384]
;B[kg]BL[1321.743]
;W[ih]WL[1208.228]
;B[kj]BL[1318.593]
;W[kl]WL[1192.339]LB[fq:A]C[Maybe first at A to see how Black reacts and then play this move to make a framework?]
;B[jg]BL[1315.577]
;W[ig]WL[1190.551]
;B[if]BL[1313.207]
;W[hf]WL[1174.39]
;B[ie]BL[1311.129]
;W[je]WL[1173.405]
;B[ld]BL[1302.015]
;W[le]WL[1117.522]
;B[ke]BL[1297.856]
;W[kf]WL[1116.18]
;B[jd]BL[1289.2]
;W[ke]WL[1110.938]
;B[lb]BL[1261.358]
;W[id]WL[1088.79]
;B[mj]BL[1258.156]
;W[nj]WL[1040.576]
;B[mk]BL[1254.681]
;W[nk]WL[968.597]LB[mm:A]TR[kl]C[A to stay consistent. This move looks too small.
END OF COMMENTS.]
;B[ml]BL[1250.721]
;W[ik]WL[963.135]
;B[ii]BL[1246.14]
;W[hi]WL[939.575]
;B[hj]BL[1243.868]
;W[ij]WL[935.244]
;B[ji]BL[1242.854]
;W[gi]WL[922.356]
;B[gk]BL[1237.044]
;W[im]WL[912.611]
;B[ln]BL[1234.473]
;W[gm]WL[909.115]
;B[hl]BL[1232.005]
;W[il]WL[882.889]
;B[nq]BL[1226.386]
;W[mp]WL[816.302]
;B[np]BL[1214.521]
;W[mo]WL[814.147]
;B[pr]BL[1212.921]
;W[no]WL[811.659]
;B[kp]BL[1209.352]
;W[lo]WL[789.108]
;B[ko]BL[1207.169]
;W[kn]WL[778.444]
;B[km]BL[1205.072]
;W[jn]WL[777.014]
;B[mm]BL[1201.581]
;W[om]WL[757.753]
;B[qq]BL[1197.798]
;W[fk]WL[748.974]
;B[oo]BL[1195.566]
;W[on]WL[729.31]
;B[po]BL[1191.886]
;W[qo]WL[725.303]
;B[op]BL[1187.49]
;W[pn]WL[720.208]
;B[nn]BL[1185.576]
;W[mn]WL[718.495]
;B[mq]BL[1178.881]
;W[lm]WL[711.207]
;B[lp]BL[1175.053]
;W[nm]WL[708.997]
;B[hp]BL[1172.795]
;W[cg]WL[694.062]
;B[bf]BL[1170.677]
;W[cn]WL[691.676]
;B[bo]BL[1168.469]
;W[cf]WL[679.825]
;B[bg]BL[1137.253]
;W[ce]WL[674.934]
;B[cd]BL[1135.587]
;W[be]WL[672.775]
;B[ch]BL[1134.145]
;W[dh]WL[663.751]
;B[ci]BL[1132.316]
;W[ef]WL[660.257]
;B[df]BL[1128.993]
;W[dg]WL[658.884]
;B[ge]BL[1127.988]
;W[fe]WL[649.082]
;B[ee]BL[1123.642]
;W[ed]WL[633.829]
;B[dd]BL[1119.937]
;W[fg]WL[621.336]
;B[gf]BL[1115.27]
;W[gg]WL[604.461]
;B[he]BL[1109.498]
;W[hd]WL[602.652]
;B[hg]BL[1106.429]
;W[ff]WL[595.965]
;B[jh]BL[1102.773]
;W[hf]WL[594.021]
;B[li]BL[1100.894]
;W[kk]WL[583.04]
;B[ll]BL[1098.547]
;W[ln]WL[572.72]
;B[nl]BL[1094.444]
;W[ol]WL[570.197])