Dragon Pie, Edlee, thanks for your comments. To be honest, I took time to respond simply because the questions you raise in your comments have gotten me scratching my head and I had no clue to answer them really. Now I hope I can think of them a bit more clearly.
@Dragon Pie:

I mean that I consider the pincer as an attacking move, and we are early in the game, plus as the handicap holder, I should probably wait for white to be the more agressive, instead of playing like that - but maybe this is a misconception (and maybe I was in a bad mood

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I like your variation. I don't know what happened in the game. I think I was mesmerized by the ko, and just did not think right.

wow, very enlightening variation. Such moves just do not come to my mind at the moment.

is also new to me - miai for building a moyo.

I think I see how it is bigger than defending the cut (which does not require defending)
@EdLee:

Yes this seems obvious to me now. I think that, during the game, I just felt that my corner was secure, just because I had to 1-point jumps defending it...but one-point jumps can be cut if I let them be

should have triggered an immediate response as you suggest, I think I understand that now, and I hope I would see it in a game.
For

, I was thinking this is better than the actual game, but maybe there is still a better local sequence?