I've been playing go for 15 years, and have been stuck bouncing between KGS 6k and 7k for years. I think once I got promoted to 5k for about half a dozen games three or four years ago; a couple of times I've been demoted to 8k but the last time was almost two years ago.
It seems as though nothing I try works: my moyos get invaded; any attempts to deal with my opponents' moyos end in disaster. My opponents pincer me and I end up with a weak group; I pincer my opponents and I end up with a weak group if not two. I constantly fall behind early. And so on.
I go over my games, but that clearly doesn't help because it's like the blind leading the blind. I do problems, but the problems I do don't look like the positions that show up in my games. I've also been going through
Attack and Defense, but that obviously isn't helping much, either. There are a few certain situations I've discovered I've been making mistakes (in the three-space jump where one stone is on the third line and the other on the fourth, I'd been playing the wrong way, for example), but following up from the first move is where things start to go wrong.
What on earth am I supposed to do differently?
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]TM[1200]OT[5x60 byo-yomi]
PW[Carregan]PB[Fedya]WR[7k]BR[7k]DT[2016-07-17]PC[The KGS Go Server at
http://www.gokgs.com/]RE[W+Resign]
;B[pd]BL[1194.714]
;W[dp]WL[1196.873]
;B[pq]BL[1185.924]
;W[cd]WL[1193.473]
;B[qk]BL[1176.61]
;W[qo]WL[1180.457]
;B[qp]BL[1163.527]
;W[oo]WL[1176.851]C[I don't think I've seen this move before, and when confronted with a joseki move I haven't seen before, I tend to struggle figuring out how to respond.]
;B[po]BL[1146.268]C[The next two moves went as I expected...]
;W[pn]WL[1174.419]
;B[pp]BL[1142.356]LB[on:B][qn:A]C[A and B are miai; White gets to choose which stone to save.]
;W[ro]WL[1169.374]C[Hmmm, I didn't expect this at all.]
;B[rp]BL[1127.005]
;W[qn]WL[1156.959]
;B[on]BL[1113.179]C[So far I felt as though I had gotten a good result.]
;W[om]WL[1154.611]
;B[nn]BL[1111.232]
;W[pl]WL[1152.993]
;B[np]BL[1103.467]C[I have a feeling this is slow.]
;W[mo]WL[1143.473]
;B[no]BL[1100.801]
;W[jp]WL[1142.189]LB[ec:A][cn:B]C[Now I've got sente and have to figure out what to do with it. A and B seem like the best candidates.]
;B[ec]BL[1074.773]
;W[gc]WL[1137.211]
;B[ee]BL[1069.98]
;W[df]WL[1135.051]
;B[hd]BL[1058.101]
;W[hc]WL[1131.586]
;B[id]BL[1052.318]C[How far am I supposed to keep running?]
;W[ic]WL[1128.195]
;B[jd]BL[1043.535]
;W[jc]WL[1126.038]
;B[gd]BL[1040.152]
;W[kd]WL[1123.592]
;B[hg]BL[1031.924]
;W[ci]WL[1119.427]LB[mc:D][cn:A][cq:B][fq:C]C[I think I've got sente again. Either I should play in the lower left corner, or I should play in the upper right, I think.]
;B[cq]BL[1018.546]C[This, I think, doesn't turn out as well as I'd hoped.]
;W[dq]WL[1114.147]
;B[cp]BL[1012.388]
;W[co]WL[1111.6]
;B[bo]BL[1002.694]
;W[cn]WL[1110.088]
;B[bn]BL[1000.345]
;W[cm]WL[1107.905]
;B[cr]BL[994.427]
;W[er]WL[1106.744]C[Can White figure out what to do with the thickness? This I think is one of those cases where it looks easy to figure out what to do: just jump to K6, and White has a big moyo that Black will have to invade. This is why I think the 3-3 invasion was a mistake. The choice was between C6 and letting White get most of the bottom, or F3 and letting White get most of the left side, neither of which seems like a good alternative, either.]
(;B[rm]BL[966.953]C[I guess this was the losing move. I thought White's group was weak, and decided not to play passively and let it make life easily. Instead, I'm the one who wound up with a bunch of weak groups. I should have just played a passive move like R12 instead.
]
;W[qi]WL[1060.292]
;B[pj]BL[954.681]
;W[qf]WL[1055.343]
(;B[mc]BL[951.574]
;W[oc]WL[1048.135]C[I had no clue that I had a weakness here. I have no idea how to respond to it.]
(;B[od]BL[940.35]
;W[nc]WL[1045.657]
;B[nd]BL[938.224]
;W[mb]WL[1043.403]
;B[md]BL[931.3]
;W[lb]WL[1037.921]
;B[pc]BL[924.452]
;W[rd]WL[1030.907]
;B[rb]BL[917.696]
;W[qb]WL[1021.069]
;B[pb]BL[905.795]
;W[qc]WL[1018.108]
(;B[qd]BL[891.958]C[This is a mistake; I think I should have played S17 instead.]
;W[rc]WL[1013.939]
;B[qa]BL[889.071]
;W[re]WL[1002.328]
;B[oh]BL[870.477]C[This, I think, is too far.]
;W[of]WL[998.981]
;B[ng]BL[846.923]
;W[nf]WL[996.048]
;B[mf]BL[845.137]
;W[mg]WL[993.88]
;B[me]BL[838.983]
;W[lg]WL[991.22]C[I didn't see until too late that the top right group was going to get cut off from everything else.]
;B[nb]BL[832.144]
;W[na]WL[964.259]
;B[ob]BL[829.987]
;W[kf]WL[958.601]
;B[sb]BL[796.542]
;W[ra]WL[947.762]C[No way any more to get two eyes here, I think.]
;B[ke]BL[789.68]
;W[le]WL[942.589]
;B[je]BL[774.198]
;W[ld]WL[940.086]
;B[lf]BL[772.613]
;W[kh]WL[935.04]
;B[pf]BL[713.033]
;W[pg]WL[931.82]
;B[pe]BL[695.372]
;W[og]WL[928.855]
;B[qg]BL[693.025]
;W[rg]WL[924.763]C[White actually seemed surprised that I resigned. But even if the top coupd be saved, I've now got a hugh weakness on the right side.])
(;B[rc]
;W[qd]
;B[qa]
;W[sc]
;B[ra]
;W[sb]
;B[ng]C[Now Black has to hope he can get two eyes.]))
(;B[pc]
;W[od]
;B[pe]
;W[oe]
;B[rc]
;W[pb]
;B[qb]
;W[ob]
;B[re]
;W[qe]
;B[qd]
;W[ok]
;B[oi]))
(;B[qd]
;W[nc]
;B[pb]
;W[ok]
;B[oi]
;W[ph]))
(;B[qh]
;W[nc]))