Hi,
what I noticed is that you have a tendency to exchange forcing moves from the inside of your opponents territory, that help him towards the outside and dont help you at all, because the inside stones are dead. I saw this in your 9x9 game, but I want to point to the situation in the 19x19 game against Timur at move 73. Here, you want to hane from the outside at o15, which you did at

, and which is good instinct. But exchanging

for

took away a lot of power of this hane. If you played it for 73, it would have threatened a double atari at o17. Hence, he cannot block at p15 as in the game and has to either retreat at p16 or even connect at o17 anyway. Now it should be ovious after he connected at o17, that you would much prefer your stone at o15 over having one at n18 that doesnt help you. Tis way, you get to have sente without him blocking you off at p15 and can still potentially cut the p14 stone off.
In general: why was this atari for 73 bad? because you had 2 choices where to atari (o17 or n18) and you shouldnt pick one unless you are certain you wont need the other or you are afraid your opponent will prevent them both by spending a move. In this case o17 was the better choice of atari, since it has impact on the outside(making o15 an atari), but you dont really need to play it now, because even the threat of the o17 adds the same power to the o15 move.
By choosing n18, you gave that up. Always consider your options before you play an atari or forcing move, especially if there are other foring move you can choose from. Keep in mind, you might not want to choose at all for now, keeping all options and have your opponent worry about all of them. Of course, this is different if the defect is so big that giving up a move to defend it would be good for your opponent, in that case you should not give him that chance and strike immediately.
Of course, you messed up the life and death on top right in that game big time, you probably saw that he could have killed you with 108, since you fixed it with 109. Any of the moves starting with 101 to 107 could have prevented this(103 was good though). 101 is bad, you dont need to connect now. Just descent s14 gives more eyespace.
With 105 you can just go down to t15. In the "rectangular 8 in the corner", white can make a seki(in gote) after all outside libs are filled, so you would want to put in another stone once he fills the last outside lib, but even if you dont, you shouldnt die. Whats more, he needs to protect his two stones in gote after you descend!
With 107 you need to block at t16(again, enlarge the potenial eyespace), instead of making a bulky five, and again, your group is fine! Also, again this block would even be sente thanks to the cut at s13!