Life In 19x19

Hi - I am trying to send a PM to another member and am not sure it went - It shows as being stuck in my Outbox folder rather than my Sent Messages folder, but when I look at the message itself, that suggests it has been sent. Has it been sent or not? I haven't received any of the expected replies from anybody. Thanks for your help, jackmanw

It probably means the person you sent it to hasn't read it yet. Therefore it is still being sent.
I also have a message which will remain stuck in my Outbox forever because the person whom I addressed it to had been banned from the forum for breaking the rules multiple times.