So nice to see the one asking for review put so much own thought for their game.
I added some comments and variations. The main points are invasion vs. reduction difference and keeping distance to the group you're attacking.
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]HA[2]KM[0.50]TM[900]OT[5x10 byo-yomi]
PW[Corso]PB[Goceman86]WR[11k]BR[13k]DT[2010-11-09]PC[The KGS Go Server at
http://www.gokgs.com/]AB[pd][dp]C[thanks for all comments in advanced]RE[W+16.50]
;W[dd]WL[896.9]
;B[pp]BL[898.382]
;W[cn]WL[894.646]
;B[fp]BL[893.711]
;W[bp]WL[892.156]
;B[cq]BL[891.933]
;W[ck]WL[889.275]
;B[jq]BL[887.368]
;W[qn]WL[881.17]
(;B[nq]BL[881.194]LB[pl:B][np:A]C[once i played this i started thinking that A would have been better
Toge: It's better than this one. There's also point B which has some nice continuations for moyo strategy.]
;W[rp]WL[877.565]
;B[qq]BL[879.32]
;W[qk]WL[876.887]
;B[jc]BL[874.768]
;W[gc]WL[872.085]
;B[mc]BL[871.119]
;W[qf]WL[867.352]
;B[pf]BL[863.566]
;W[qe]WL[863.967]
;B[qd]BL[862.486]
;W[pe]WL[862.664]
;B[oe]BL[860.364]
;W[pg]WL[860.368]
;B[of]BL[858.741]
;W[og]WL[859.6]
;B[ng]BL[855.404]TR[qg]SQ[ja][jb][jd][je][jf][kg][lg][mg]C[wasnt sure if this move was needed but i did it to create some moyo up top around
Toge: Now black can capture some stones by cutting. It can wait for now.]
;W[oj]WL[856.454]
;B[em]BL[843.374]
;W[ek]WL[853.737]
;B[gl]BL[840.584]
;W[cc]WL[850.207]C[once he played this i was hurt cause i was planing the invasion around c14 then a jump in at c17 see the variation]
(;B[cg]BL[831.081]C[i know this is very deep but i feel like i cant let him have this corner
Toge: This is what the moyo-builder wants. Now black is going all-in on white's turf with invasion that doesn't have enough space to make two eyes at the edge. Correct strategy here is to reduce.]
;W[ci]WL[846.582]
;B[eg]BL[826.368]
;W[gg]WL[844.515]
;B[fi]BL[823.483]
;W[gj]WL[841.7]C[i know i was trapped but needed to try]
;B[gi]BL[812.935]
;W[hi]WL[839.945]
;B[fj]BL[811.834]
;W[fk]WL[836.879]
;B[gk]BL[802.742]C[after the game i realized this is wrong DOP (Direction of Play) see variation]
(;W[hj]WL[834.381]
;B[di]BL[800.099]
;W[ch]WL[829.732]
;B[dh]BL[798.975]
;W[df]WL[827.087]C[now i knew i was dead]
;B[cf]BL[795.235]
;W[ce]WL[819.792]
;B[ef]BL[779.729]
;W[ge]WL[810.953]
;B[jf]BL[771.479]
;W[jh]WL[793.493]
;B[jl]BL[767.685]
;W[jj]WL[790.731]
;B[nm]BL[761.965]
;W[no]WL[772.188]SQ[jl][em][nm]C[was thinking he went to deep so i should try to cut and trap him
Toge: Good plan. Also black's earlier moves complement this decision.]
;B[on]BL[757.135]
;W[oo]WL[770.524]
;B[po]BL[754.613]
;W[pn]WL[768.906]
;B[lm]BL[746.797]C[now he cant connect]
;W[nn]WL[765.903]
;B[om]BL[745.615]
;W[lo]WL[758.998]
;B[ko]BL[743.287]
;W[lq]WL[754.229]
;B[mp]BL[740.134]C[kill some eyes and cut off the stones]
(;W[mo]WL[751.035]
;B[lp]BL[739.112]
;W[kp]WL[747.338]C[cut]
;B[jp]BL[725.512]
;W[kn]WL[745.985]
;B[kq]BL[722.177]C[after i felt the capture was a little slow
Toge: Keeping own stones strong is utmost importance here. Capturing that single stone was the best way to secure bottom group, but top group might need some help.]
;W[ln]WL[744.743]
;B[km]BL[720.507]LB[lk:A][kl:B]SQ[jf][ng]C[Toge: I can't really criticize this connection, but it's also possible to add second dimension by jumping to A. That way stones are still connected and possibility of connecting to top group isn't totally out of the question. By the way, the best way to attack is to keep your distance to the target you're attacking. This move is squeezing out the toothpaste. Compare black B for essentially same function with extra space for manouvering.]
;W[jn]WL[742.905]
;B[hn]BL[717.081]
;W[im]WL[741.605]
;B[il]BL[715.784]
;W[hm]WL[739.165]
;B[hl]BL[714.91]
;W[gm]WL[737.534]
;B[fm]BL[712.455]
;W[gn]WL[734.87]
;B[ho]BL[709.702]
;W[go]WL[733.609]C[no eye space so i was feeling confident now]
;B[hp]BL[704.235]LB[gp:A]C[Toge: Block for sure (A)]
;W[gp]WL[732.31]
;B[gq]BL[703.765]TR[fq][hq]C[Toge: Two cutting points are dangerous! Another reason to keep distance in the first place. If enemy approaches you can just defend in good shape.]
;W[fq]WL[730.049]
;B[gr]BL[695.73]
;W[ep]WL[721.227]
;B[fo]BL[693.791]LB[fn:A]C[his group is now cut off and dead
so i decided to give him the c3 and d4 stones and just start taking liberties
Toge: How would you respond white A?]
(;W[eo]WL[718.718]
;B[fn]BL[691.779]
;W[eq]WL[714.37]
;B[in]BL[667.254]C[filling liberties]
;W[jm]WL[712.366]
;B[jo]BL[665.578]
;W[dm]WL[707.008]
;B[op]BL[658.498]
;W[en]WL[703.993]
;B[np]BL[654.131]
;W[el]WL[695.022]
;B[fl]BL[647.973]
;W[lg]WL[670.33]
;B[lf]BL[645.357]
;W[mg]WL[668.769]
;B[mf]BL[644.403]
;W[nh]WL[667.296]
;B[nf]BL[641.558]
;W[ib]WL[648.566]
;B[jb]BL[638.815]
;W[ic]WL[647.612]
;B[mk]BL[627.447]C[was thinking i could go a little deeper.]
;W[mj]WL[645.593]C[was thinking about how to kill some of his points cause im beind now i think]
;B[lj]BL[623.85]
;W[lk]WL[641.56]C[was happy with this i was reading something else :
see variation]
(;B[kk]BL[622.569]
;W[li]WL[635.161]
;B[kj]BL[616.018]
;W[ki]WL[633.695]
;B[nj]BL[612.108]
;W[mi]WL[631.373]
;B[nk]BL[610.661]
;W[ni]WL[629.561]
;B[ds]BL[600.849]LB[id:B][qg:A][rq:C]C[i realized after i played this that there were probably other big points i was thinking
was woundering if A works? i know if i play it right away it wont but with some aji....
see the variations
]
(;W[dr]WL[614.181]
;B[fs]BL[583.3]
;W[cs]WL[611.308]
;B[es]BL[582.315]
;W[cr]WL[609.887]
;B[er]BL[577.992]
;W[dq]WL[607.396]
;B[hf]BL[568.284]
;W[gf]WL[605.055]
;B[id]BL[564.616]
;W[hd]WL[602.343]
;B[ie]BL[563.815]
;W[ig]WL[600.063]
;B[if]BL[552.751]
;W[hg]WL[598.961]
;B[kg]BL[550.074]
;W[kh]WL[593.848]
;B[re]BL[545.771]
;W[rf]WL[591.25]
;B[rd]BL[545.122]
;W[rq]WL[584.81]
;B[rr]BL[543.636]
;W[qp]WL[576.112]
;B[pr]BL[541.404]
;W[sr]WL[574.406]
;B[rs]BL[540.187]
;W[qo]WL[571.118]
;B[pk]BL[534.372]
;W[pj]WL[569.526]
;B[ql]BL[522.852]
;W[pl]WL[567.213]
;B[pm]BL[522.058]
;W[rl]WL[550.381]
;B[qm]BL[516.868]
;W[rm]WL[549.238]
;B[ok]BL[512.001]
;W[qj]WL[542.171]
;B[sf]BL[502.386]
;W[rg]WL[537.874]
;B[sg]BL[500.062]
;W[sh]WL[537.011]
;B[se]BL[498.802]
;W[qh]WL[536.135]
;B[ia]BL[489.613]
;W[hb]WL[526.939]
;B[ha]BL[488.265]
(;W[ga]WL[525.225]
;B[ja]BL[487.328]
;W[jg]WL[521.977]
;B[kf]BL[485.534]
;W[od]WL[516.608]
;B[oc]BL[473.965]
;W[nd]WL[514.986]
;B[nc]BL[472.745]
;W[pc]WL[507.38]
;B[pb]BL[466.162]
;W[qc]WL[506.352]
;B[rc]BL[464.913]
;W[qb]WL[504.306]
;B[qa]BL[463.669]
;W[fr]WL[489.163]
;B[gs]BL[459.284]
;W[hq]WL[481.947]
;B[hr]BL[451.94]
;W[jk]WL[458.784]
;B[ll]BL[433.854]
;W[ik]WL[451.825]
;B[he]BL[388.926]
;W[]WL[431.977]C[white passed but i know i was behind at least that what i felt so i was trying something in the top left.
is there anything i could have done?]
;B[fb]BL[348.911]
;W[gb]WL[426.875]
;B[fd]BL[347.567]
;W[gd]WL[419.777]
;B[]BL[301.018]
;W[]WL[404.496]TW[aa][ba][ca][da][ea][fa][ab][bb][cb][db][eb][fb][ac][bc][dc][ec][fc][hc][ad][bd][cd][ed][fd][ae][be][de][ee][fe][af][bf][cf][ef][ff][ag][bg][cg][dg][eg][fg][qg][ah][bh][dh][eh][fh][gh][hh][ih][lh][mh][oh][ph][rh][ai][bi][di][ei][fi][gi][ii][ji][oi][pi][qi][ri][si][aj][bj][cj][dj][ej][fj][ij][rj][sj][ak][bk][dk][rk][sk][al][bl][cl][dl][sl][am][bm][cm][sm][an][bn][dn][rn][sn][ao][bo][co][do][ro][so][ap][cp][dp][sp][aq][bq][cq][ar][br][as][bs]TB[ka][la][ma][na][oa][pa][ra][sa][kb][lb][mb][nb][ob][qb][rb][sb][kc][lc][pc][qc][sc][jd][kd][ld][md][nd][od][sd][je][ke][le][me][ne][lk][kl][ml][nl][ol][pl][gm][hm][im][jm][mm][gn][jn][kn][ln][mn][nn][go][io][lo][mo][no][oo][gp][ip][kp][hq][iq][lq][mq][oq][pq][ir][jr][kr][lr][mr][nr][or][qr][hs][is][js][ks][ls][ms][ns][os][ps][qs])
(;W[gb]WL[526.103]
;B[ga]BL[486.576]C[Corso [11k]: misclick
Goceman86 [13k]: ok
Corso [11k]: honestly
Goceman86 [13k]: ok
Goceman86 [13k]: i thought so
Goceman86 [13k]: lol
]))
(;W[]
;B[qg]
;W[rg])
(;AB[oh]
;W[ph]
;B[qg]C[not sure if this works]
;W[rg]
;B[qh]
;W[oi]
(;B[rf])
(;B[re]
;W[rf]
;B[rh]
;W[rd])))
(;AE[lk]AW[li]
;B[nj]
;W[mi]
(;B[kj]
;W[ki]
;B[ll]
;W[nk]
;B[nl]
;W[ok]
;B[pl]
;W[pk]
;B[ql]
;W[rl]
;B[qm]
;W[rm]
;B[qo]
;W[rn]
;B[pm])
(;B[lk]
;W[nk]
;B[nl]
;W[ni]
;B[kj]
;W[ki]
;B[pl]
;W[ql]
;B[pk]
;W[pj]
;B[pm]
;W[qm]
;B[ok]
;W[nj]
;B[jk]
;W[ij])
(;B[nk]
;W[lk]
;B[ll]
;W[kj]
;B[ni]
;W[oi]
;B[ok]
;W[pk]
;B[pl]
;W[ql]
;B[pm]
;W[qm])))
(;W[fn]SQ[fo][fp]C[Toge: Hanging onto these stones will let white connect.]
(;B[eo]
;W[en]
;B[dn]
;W[do]
;B[co]
;W[dm])
(;B[do]
;W[dn]
;B[en]
;W[eo]TR[fl]C[Toge: White gets one eye in sente, because black has to now connect. Furthermore black's lower left corner is all but dead.])))
(;W[lp]
;B[mo]
;W[mn]
;B[ln]))
(;AE[gk]AB[hj]
;W[gk]
;B[hh]
;W[ii]
;B[hg]C[now im free]))
(;AE[cc]
;B[cf]
(;W[ch]
;B[cc]
;W[cd]
;B[dc]
;W[ec]
;B[bd]
;W[be]
;B[bc]
;W[ce]
;B[eb]
;W[fb]
;B[ea]
;W[fa]
;B[cb]
;W[ad]
;B[ac]
;W[ae])
(;W[bd]
;B[ci]
;W[bf]
(;B[bg]
;W[be]
;B[bj]
;W[ag])
(;AE[bf])))
(;B[hd]C[Toge: I would try something like this. Takes away white's potential territory while at the same time extending black's.]
;W[gd]C[Toge: White's position starts to look cramped.]
;B[he]
;W[ge])
(;B[fh]LB[dh:B][hh:A]C[Toge: It should be possible to reduce like this too, but it doesn't look effective. Anyway, correct distance from strength can be visualized if you imagine white capping at A. Could black get away? It's not very effective move since white probably responds at B and stands to get 4th line territory.]))
(;B[pl]LB[on:A][qq:B]C[Toge: White generally jumps away. Taking corner is also an option]
(;W[on]
;B[np]
;W[rp]
;B[qq]
;W[rl]
;B[mn])
(;W[qq]C[Toge: Black should just play cool and build a wall]
;B[pq]
;W[qp]
;B[po]
;W[qo]
;B[pn]
;W[qm]
;B[pm])))