I tried my best to be helpful.
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]TM[1800]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
PW[whitelotu5]PB[TTT]WR[10k]BR[11k]DT[2011-03-08]PC[The KGS Go Server at
http://www.gokgs.com/]RE[W+Resign]
;B[qd]BL[1787.096]
;W[dp]WL[1797.995]
;B[pp]BL[1783.236]
;W[dc]WL[1775.395]
;B[ld]BL[1777.378]
;W[ci]WL[1770.732]TR[dc][ci][dp]C[The three marked sones make up the chinese opening, whitelotus.

The basic idea is that D17 and C11 are useful to make a large framework in the upper left corner, forcing black to, at some point invade. So a move like what black does is pretty much ideal.]
;B[de]BL[1772.681]C[In fact, when black plays D15, he is pretty much playing into your hands. In my experienced, the idea is to attack the black stone at D15, NOT TO KILL. While he is running away, you make territory else. Like so:
(see var)]
(;W[cf]WL[1732.212]
;B[fd]BL[1727.034]C[I'm not sure if this is a very good move on black's part. But I don't know what would be a good move. Maybe C16 or F15?]
;W[nq]WL[1712.49]C[Ouch. I really don't think you should abandon the upper left side so soon.
Here is a tip: A lot of player's I play that are in the 10kyuish range have a nasty habit of thinking that they have to develop all over the board quickly. As a result, they tend to leave unfinished sequences in the corner. You should make it a good habit to exploit that weakness by always finishing sequences in the corner, and punishing abandoned corners.
Black can take advantage of this situation:
(see var)]
(;B[lp]BL[1717.676]
;W[no]WL[1709.087]C[Good.]
;B[mp]BL[1710.19]LB[oq:A]C[I'd play at P3. See Var.]
(;W[np]WL[1697.572]
;B[oq]BL[1680.369]LB[pn:B][lr:A]C[I think I might play at either A or B. However, O4 was not a very good move. It made you're group heavy.]
;W[iq]WL[1688.832]
;B[cn]BL[1668.405]TR[cn]SQ[lp][mp]C[Look very closely at the board.
The triangled stone is between two strong groups. And the N4 stone is weak.
You can crush him. RIGHT HERE. RIGHT NOW.
First, attack C6 with E6. This put's pressure. I am going to show you the attack, but I don't want you to pay attention to C6. I want you to pay special attention to the feeling of N4 group. Ok? Here I go.
(SEE VAR.)]
(;W[co]WL[1672.787]
;B[dn]BL[1666.802]
;W[ck]WL[1663.796]
;B[gp]BL[1660.832]
;W[fq]WL[1661.59]
;B[hq]BL[1656.263]
;W[gq]WL[1654.552]
;B[ip]BL[1654.3]
;W[hr]WL[1652.786]
;B[hp]BL[1652.97]
;W[ir]WL[1639.116]
;B[cd]BL[1645.111]
;W[cc]WL[1636.38]
;B[pm]BL[1610.717]
;W[qi]WL[1625.363]
;B[qj]BL[1593.99]
;W[qf]WL[1610.372]
;B[oe]BL[1589.421]
;W[oi]WL[1607.259]
;B[og]BL[1568.142]
;W[ph]WL[1599.225]
;B[ml]BL[1558.237]
;W[fj]WL[1591]
;B[lr]BL[1539.151]
;W[kq]WL[1578.285]
;B[kr]BL[1523.698]
;W[kp]WL[1563.706]
;B[ln]BL[1517.485]
;W[lo]WL[1550.597]
;B[mo]BL[1515.521]
;W[ko]WL[1549.512]
;B[kn]BL[1508.245]
;W[lq]WL[1532.242]
;B[mq]BL[1483.033]
;W[mr]WL[1524.131]
;B[mn]BL[1479.525]
;W[nr]WL[1522.03]
;B[jq]BL[1466.467]
;W[jr]WL[1483.51]
;B[jo]BL[1458.004]
;W[ks]WL[1479.19]
;B[jp]BL[1455.34]
;W[ls]WL[1477.693]
;B[rf]BL[1437.66]
;W[rg]WL[1472.242]
;B[re]BL[1431.789]
;W[mi]WL[1450.816]C[whitelotu5 [10k]: I think I'm pretty far behind here
]
;B[ei]BL[1403.63]
;W[ej]WL[1448.102]
;B[dg]BL[1387.088]
;W[cg]WL[1444.804]C[TTT [11k]: It doesnt look too good for white. I agree
]
;B[bl]BL[1349.474]C[TTT [11k]: and i should have played b7
]
;W[bd]WL[1390.782]
;B[bj]BL[1325.335]
;W[bk]WL[1387.999]
;B[ak]BL[1323.916]
;W[bi]WL[1384.498]
;B[ep]BL[1311.522]
;W[eq]WL[1377.636]
;B[cp]BL[1308.943]
;W[bo]WL[1367.469]C[TTT [11k]: I prolly shouldnt, but im going for it
]
;B[dq]BL[1281.693]
;W[do]WL[1363.156]
;B[cr]BL[1269.908]
;W[bq]WL[1350.42]
;B[cq]BL[1266.747]
;W[br]WL[1339.116]C[whitelotu5 [10k]: seems kind of greedy when you're already ahead!
TTT [11k]: Im ahead so i am going to try it just to see if i can
]
;B[bs]BL[1200.515]
;W[bp]WL[1324.41]
;B[eo]BL[1195.516]
;W[dr]WL[1314.063]
;B[pg]BL[1181.486]
;W[qg]WL[1311.914]
;B[rh]BL[1169.673]
;W[ri]WL[1220.613]
;B[sg]BL[1141.917]
;W[en]WL[1176.179]
;B[em]BL[1129.623]
;W[fn]WL[1174.512]
;B[fm]BL[1122.249]
;W[fp]WL[1167.702]
;B[dl]BL[1120.634]
;W[cl]WL[1162.197]
;B[gn]BL[1090.204]
;W[bm]WL[1103.322]
;B[di]BL[1070.558]
;W[dj]WL[1081.871]
;B[fo]BL[1060.857]
;W[ic]WL[1056.12]
;B[hc]BL[1055.495]
;W[hd]WL[1045.641]
;B[nh]BL[1027.044]
;W[ni]WL[1023.001]
;B[he]BL[1019.179]
;W[gd]WL[1005.608]
;B[ge]BL[1013.691]
;W[gc]WL[999.629]
;B[jd]BL[1006.356]
;W[fc]WL[991.333]
;B[ed]BL[997.532]
;W[ce]WL[970.093]
;B[dd]BL[994.379]
;W[df]WL[967.227]
;B[eg]BL[987.542]
;W[ef]WL[963.512]
;B[ff]BL[953.896]
;W[fg]WL[911.58]
;B[fh]BL[942.644]
;W[gg]WL[909.815]
;B[gh]BL[939.039]
;W[hg]WL[890.452]
;B[gj]BL[926.739]
;W[fe]WL[884.862]
;B[jh]BL[893.721]
;W[ie]WL[880.167]
;B[rj]BL[873.463]
;W[qe]WL[876.2]
;B[pd]BL[850.382]
;W[qh]WL[856.478]
;B[sh]BL[845.408]
;W[si]WL[854.911]C[TTT [11k]: nice
]
;B[rd]BL[825.183]
;W[sf]WL[852.883]
;B[se]BL[816.642]C[whitelotu5 [10k]: group still doesn't have two eyes though!
TTT [11k]: I know. You almost got me. I noticed right before i clicked
]
;W[kj]WL[773.072]
;B[lj]BL[793.605]
;W[li]WL[768.301]
;B[ki]BL[787.279]
;W[lk]WL[766.354]
;B[mj]BL[780.994]
;W[mk]WL[765.143]
;B[nj]BL[775.246]
;W[nk]WL[763.153]
;B[oj]BL[765.004]
;W[ok]WL[733.978]
;B[pj]BL[761.331]
;W[qk]WL[711.796]C[whitelotu5 [10k]: I think I should have done a one space jump sooner
]
;B[rl]BL[726.969]
;W[rk]WL[704.132]
;B[sk]BL[723.872]
;W[sj]WL[701.941]
;B[pk]BL[697.512]
;W[ql]WL[691.235]C[TTT [11k]: We can review. I wont have a lot of time for it though.
]
;B[pl]BL[675.185]C[whitelotu5 [10k]: Neither will I
whitelotu5 [10k]: I can post it for review later
TTT [11k]: ^_^
]
;W[qm]WL[659.999]
;B[rm]BL[610.02]C[whitelotu5 [10k]: Do you ever go on the life in 19x19 site?
]
;W[qn]WL[655.66]C[TTT [11k]: never heard of it
]
;B[rn]BL[594.431]
;W[ro]WL[647.926]
;B[qo]BL[591.564]
;W[pn]WL[644.193]
;B[on]BL[589.689]
;W[sl]WL[639.811]
;B[po]BL[584.686]
;W[sk]WL[636.613]
;B[rp]BL[580.258]C[TTT [11k]: what is the URL?
whitelotu5 [10k]: one second
whitelotu5 [10k]:
http://www.lifein19x19.com/forum/index.phpwhitelotu5 [10k]: That's the forum index anyways
]
;W[om]WL[549.045]
;B[pr]BL[550.826]C[TTT [11k]: I will take a look at that later. You may have to give that to me again though. I am not at my computer
whitelotu5 [10k]: Ok, sure
whitelotu5 [10k]: It's a pretty friendly forum, I like it there
whitelotu5 [10k]: And I'm not sure why you played that move really
]
;W[ol]WL[498.747]C[whitelotu5 [10k]: But it lets me live, so I guess I can't complain
TTT [11k]: I think i can make it a close game still, but i have to go. A game some other day?
whitelotu5 [10k]: Sure, thanks for the game
TTT [11k]: thanks
whitelotu5 [9k]: I'll add you to my buddy list I guess then
whitelotu5 [9k]: Since I'm on yours for whatever reason!
TTT [11k]: Yep^^
])
(;W[en]
;B[cp]
;W[do]
;B[dq]
;W[eq]
;B[dr]
;W[er]
;B[co]
;W[ln]TR[fn][gn][hn][in][jn][kn][mn][nr][ns]SQ[an][bn][cs]C[What just happened?
Black gained a little over 12 points, plus whatever he can make by extending along the left side, which isn't much.
N4 is basically, to put it bluntly, screwed. So we'll count it as dead. Though if you mess up, it might make life. White has made basically, 45 points, almost 4 times what black just made. In adddition, if black tries the fool hardy tactic of trying to make more territory along the side:]
;B[ck]
;W[ek]C[Now white has a lot of options: She can do something like this:
(see variations)]
;B[pm]
;W[po]
;B[qo]
;W[qp]
;B[qn]
;W[pq]
;B[op]
;W[oo]
;B[or]
;W[qq]TR[cf][ci][ek][en]SQ[lj][qk]C[And now she has the whole bottom side. AND black's group is weak. But that's now what I want to show you.
I want to show you one thing in particular. Not only has white's territory increased but look at the marked stones:
there's a bit of ajii at D10, but we'll discuss that later.
For now, the point is: What happen's if there is a white stones around M10?
Or what happen's if White plays around R9?
You don't get territory, rather, you get INFLUENCE. And with this influence, you can attack weak groups like R6 or M4, or even P4, and while black is busy living, or making puny territory along the side, you are speeding ahead, forcing him to make yet another abortive invasion.
It's a powerful way to play.
But how do you do this?
The key lies in The marked stones.
You PUSH the weak groups toward's the marked stones, which are strong. Which brings me back to the ajii at D10.
What happen's at D10, if black plays there?]
;B[dj]C[Now white is split up into a strong group below, and a weak group on top. The whole tables are turned.
You see, the key to having good influence is to have strong shapes. And to have strong shapes, you need to keep them connected, and you need to keep them facing each other. When Black plays D10, he cut's C11 group off from the bottom, so their not onnected. Furthermore, his botom group is connected to the bottom. AND, his D10 stone is facing the D16 stone!
It get's really complicated.
So I would reccomment you practice. You're bound to lose a few games while learning these strategies and absorbing this information, but It's probably worth it.
Also, strong player's, please correct me on the points that I got wrong, because I know I'm not that strong either.]))
(;W[oq]
;B[np]
;W[op]
;B[oo]
;W[po]
;B[on]
;W[nn]
;B[pn]
;W[pq]
;B[qo]
(;W[rq]
;B[nm]
;W[mn]C[Not great shape, but N4 has a lot to think about. and P3 is settled simple. Alternatively, you can play S3 at M6, before black has a chance to play at O7. See var.])
(;W[ln]
;B[qq]
;W[lr]C[Oh, yeah! Burn baby burn!])))
(;B[cd]C[Granted, the black stones are not well placed, but now white has to black at C17.]
;W[cc]
;B[ck]C[And now black can attack White's weak group.
While she is on the run, black can extend downward's and approach D4.]
;W[ei]
;B[cn]C[Hmm...Probably not the best result. I'm not very good. So stronger player's please correct me. This is just an inkling of an idea.]))
(;W[fd]
;B[dh]
;W[dj]
;B[fg]
;W[cd]
;B[fe]
;W[hc]
;B[ed]
;W[ec]SQ[ha][hb][fc][gc][ad][bd][ai][bi][dl][dn][dr]C[This is probably stupid and wrong. But It's an Exaggeration to prove my point. Black wants to make a living shape. So The moves were exaggerated to make black live. White get's territory along the X's.
Also, there is the chance of getting some extra profit in the lower side: So white is happy.
A strong player would probably not concentrate his black stones so much. But you get the idea. It's an exaggeration to prove a point.]))