Here's my comments, for what they're worth (I think I was pretty lucky with the game to be honest!):
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]HA[3]KM[0.50]
GN[3h # 4 | 2-1 to topazg]PW[topazg]PB[Chew]WR[1d]BR[2k]DT[2011-07-20,2011-07-21]CP[Creative Commons: Attribution-NonCommercial 3.0 Unported]AB[dd][pd][pp]RE[W+Resign]PL[W]
;W[eq]
;B[cp]
;W[cn]
;B[ep]
;W[fp]
;B[eo]
;W[dq]
;B[co]
;W[dm]
;B[fo]C[topazg: Joseki is normally bC3 followed by wF7, but this felt like something I could respond to comfortably by extending.
]
;W[gp]
;B[fl]
;W[dk]C[topazg: Maybe C9 or C10 is better? C11 was annoying

]
;B[ci]
;W[di]
;B[dh]
;W[ch]C[topazg: The honest move is E11, and in hindsight I think it's rather better. I hadn't expected C10 from Black - problem is, if I play wE11, then bC10, wC19 and bC13 is sente.
]
;B[cj]C[topazg: Severe.
]
;W[dj]
;B[cg]
;W[bh]C[topazg: Atari? Extend.
]
;B[bg]
;W[eh]
;B[dg]
;W[ck]
;B[bi]
;W[cq]C[topazg: Again, the honest move is F11, and I'm pretty certain I should have played it, but it just felt too slow. I wanted you to have to look after this group first, and wanted to tenuki to keep the momentum going.
]
;B[hn]
;W[nq]C[topazg: Your group isn't completely settled yet, so I assumed if you played something like J3 I can keep the ball rolling with J4. bJ4 isn't severe enough to respond to, so I'm likely to double approach in this corner.
]
;B[pn]
;W[jp]
(;B[gh]C[topazg: Interesting idea, but possibly loose. I think bF11 wE11 bF10 creates an interesting attack, and completely settles any risk to your group in the obvious future?
]
;W[ql]C[topazg: Overplay, but, you know, 3 stones

]
;B[mo]C[topazg: Good response.
]
;W[lq]
;B[qj]
;W[nc]C[topazg: R8 is hard to handle, but the top still feels bigger. White's running on hot air at the moment.
]
;B[pf]
;W[jd]
;B[pk]C[topazg: Hard to handle for White, Black keeps the pressure up.
]
;W[rp]C[topazg: Probe. If you R3, I'll play to live on the edge - it's not comfortable, but it does help keep Black's points down. if you R5, I'll treat this as kikashi as I can live with R3 later.
]
;B[qo]
;W[qh]C[topazg: There's a connect underneath threat hidden away due to R8 poking at the shape point of Q9 and R10.
]
;B[ph]C[topazg: Another strong response, White's struggling now.
]
;W[pi]C[topazg: I wondered about wedging, but it all looked kinda horrible. I figured this forces either an exchange, or allows me to use the aji of R8.
]
;B[qi]C[topazg: Black gives no quarter.
]
;W[pg]C[topazg: It's ugly, and Black's profit is potentially significant, but I can't let Black play R13 for nothing.
]
;B[oh]C[topazg: R13 is probably better here I think. White has to capture, Black plays S12 and the best White can do is ko. That said, this is still very hard for White to get anything.
]
;W[og]
;B[qg]
;W[rh]
(;B[rg]C[topazg: I think pushing at P14 first may be better, as it prevents me from cutting at R14 due to the loose ladder.
]
;W[nh]
;B[oi]
;W[ni]
;B[oj]
;W[qc]C[topazg: Loose ladder breaker, preparing for the R14 cut. (see cont if bR3)]
(;B[ng]
;W[of]
;B[pe]
;W[ne]
;B[pc]
;W[pb]
;B[qd]
;W[rb]
;B[rc]
;W[qb]
;B[mg]
;W[le]C[topazg: Preventing the O16 wedge.
]
;B[kg]C[topazg: Maybe N10 is better?
]
;W[pm]C[topazg: Because the two stones at O12 have vague aji, this was designed to set up a ko or escape into the middle. White's clutching at complicated straws.
]
(;B[om]C[topazg: I'm wondering if S5 just works instead of this.]
;W[qq]
;B[pq]
;W[pr]
;B[or]
;W[qr]
;B[oq]
;W[ro]
;B[rn]
;W[rm]
;B[sn]
;W[qn]C[topazg: The ko begins.
]
;B[qm]
;W[lh]
;B[lg]
;W[qn]
;B[bk]
;W[qm]C[topazg: Due to the threat of P6 and the ability to break into the middle, this is much more than immediate profit (let alone the fact that, if Black wins the ko, Black can reduce the corner further in sente - I'm not even sure if it's unconditionally alive).
]
;B[bm]
;W[on]C[topazg: Happy to trade groups.
]
;B[np]
;W[nn]C[topazg: Miai of Q5 and P8 (the ladder works).
]
;B[ln]
(;W[gj]C[topazg: As the middle has suddenly become wide open (M13 isn't immensely strong, and K6 has access too), I figured I'd at least force Black to capture.
]
(;B[gk]C[topazg: F11 probably better - make the group heavy enough to attack, and gain thickness to build territory in the top left.
]
;W[gi]C[topazg: Trying to get out and harrass Black's central stones if I get the chance to.
]
(;B[eg]C[topazg: I wondered about H12 here, but things are a bit thin.
]
;W[hh]C[topazg: Black can't cut off the left stones, so my big danger now is the H11 cut.
]
(;B[fh]
;W[ig]C[topazg: Now F10 is a ko for the stones on the left, but this fixes the H11 cut and aims at the four stones in the middle.
topazg: Many thanks for the game

]
;C[Result: W+R
]N[RESULT])
(;B[hi]
;W[hj]
;B[ii]
;W[ij]C[This seems to be White's only resistance.]))
(;B[hh]
;W[ij]
(;B[eg]C[Black doesn't have time for this.]
;W[hk]
;B[hl]
;W[il]
;B[hm]C[Looks fine for White.])
(;B[hk]
;W[fh]C[Again, looks hard for White. Very complicated either way.])))
(;B[fi]
;W[fj]
;B[ei]
;W[gl]C[topazg: Black now can't cut.]
(;B[ej]
;W[ek]
;B[fk]
;W[fm])
(;B[gm]
;W[fm]
;B[hl]
;W[gk]
;B[em]C[Hard for White now.])))
(;W[ol]C[topazg: ladder..]
;B[nm]
;W[mm]
;B[nl]
;W[nk]
;B[ml]
;W[ll]
;B[mk]
;W[mj]
;B[lk]
;W[kk]
;B[lj]
;W[kj]
;B[li]
;W[ki]))
(;B[ro]
;W[nm]C[topazg: Hard for White, as White is now dead in the corner.]))
(;B[of]
;W[ng]
;B[qq]
;W[qf]
;B[rf]
;W[qe]
;B[re]
;W[qd]))
(;B[of]
;W[ng]
;B[rg]
;W[qf]
;B[rf]
;W[qe]
;B[re]
;W[qd]
;B[qc]C[topazg: Loose ladder ..]))
(;B[fi]
;W[ei]
;B[fj]C[topazg: White needs to be careful with his shape now...]))