Shenoute wrote:...I'd like to make sure I'm getting the idea more or less right and applying it correctly.
This may be the first problem with your thinking. You seem to be thinking in binary terms:
either "you are getting the idea more or less right" or not.
Go is not like this. Understanding is (often) not like this (in some cases, yes).
Understanding is (often) not binary: not a case of either "you understand it" or not.
Rather, it's a continuum, with infinite levels.
For example, about this idea of "playing in the largest area in the opening," --
~20k people have ~20k understanding of this idea;
~10k people have ~10k understanding of this idea;
~5k people have ~5k understanding of this idea;
~1d people have ~1d understanding of this idea;
~4d people have ~4d understanding of this idea;
~pro level people have ~pro level understanding of this idea.
At this time, you have your current level of understanding of this.
Later, if you get 5 stones better, you may have another level of understanding of this.
Shenoute wrote:(forgetting for the moment that another move might be the best choice)
Often in Go, we need to look at the big picture. For this board, R3 (the lower right 3-3) looks pretty big to me.
Shenoute wrote:Before I would have played b without much thinking, after all black is approaching so I must stop him and put pressure on the J3 stone, no ?
Not at all. You play a move only if you think it's the best move currently on the board.
If you think blocking B's approach happens to be the best move, then OK, play it;
otherwise, "blocking B's approach and putting pressure on J3" doesn't mean anything in isolation by itself.
For example --
if the board is different -- and right after you "block B's approach and put pressure on J3,"
B plays a move elsewhere and kills your 100-point W group, and B wins, then your "block" is meaningless.
For this board, I don't know whether (a) or (b) is bigger -- to me, they could be miai;
(c) still looks pretty big to me. Also, the shape of the three

stones looks a bit strange --
they feel a bit over-concentrated. On the upper right corner, B's shape also looks a bit odd,
it seems B has some inefficiency there, too.
Moreover, W has to make sure the (d) area does not become too big.
So if I play W, I'd be looking at (c) and (d) areas, and not (a) or (b).
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