You are on and off about large scale separation of groups. At several occasions you do make this your top priority: 29, 35, 47
A minor aspect is that local analyses and decisions are sometimes off: 37, 83, 123
At the upside, you win fights, like you say: the 77-79 combo and especially spotting the throw-in tactics at 147 !!! These are things that win games.
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[0.50]TM[60]
PB[BlindGroup]WR[8k]BR[9k]DT[2017-08-23]CP[
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]EV[Internet Go Server ]PC[IGS: igs.joyjoy.net 6969]US[Brought to you by IGS PANDANET]C[I was happy with this game. I think I accomplished two things:
1. While in retrospect I missed some big opportunities at moves 35, 37, and 47, I think I did a slightly better job than usual using my strength to harass my opoonents.
2. Bigger news, though, is that I got into several fights with only one of them lost. That's very unusual for me. This includes winning an ill-advised fight that I picked at move 121. It's not that I didn't think I had a good shot at winning, but rather that I was sufficiently far ahead that I should have simplified rather than take the risk of such a large fight.
]RE[B+Resign]LT[]NB[20]NW[21]RR[Normal]
;B[pd]BL[43]
;W[eq]WL[60]
;B[pp]BL[37]
;W[ec]WL[60]
;B[gc]BL[594]LB[cc:A][cd:B]C[BG: I rarely see the 5-3 opening, and so, I haven't spent much time on it. This seemed to be a non-joseki move, but any move by white other than A or B does note secure the corner. And if white plays either, I get C. I'd be down in the exchange, but it seems like a managable loss. I decided to take what seemed to be a managable loss rather than lose even more by misplaying a joseki.]
;W[ce]WL[56]
;B[jd]BL[590]
;W[co]WL[54]
;B[jp]BL[582]LB[qm:B][qn:A]C[BG: I'm not at all familiar with the shape on the left, but this seems like a move that both takes away what would be a nice extension from white's enclosure and sets me up to later play A or B.]
;W[cj]WL[51]
;B[pj]BL[568]LB[nc:C][qf:A][qn:B][nq:D]C[BG: Looks like we are racing to build the biggest framework. I considered A or B, but this move felt bigger. It gives me a position on the right and the flexibility to play C or D with the "ideal" extension in place.
KW: surely you have the bigger framework

]
;W[hp]WL[47]
;B[mq]BL[557]TR[jp]C[BG: This seemed to both provide a base for my marked stone and serve as the start to a corner enclosure.]
;W[gj]WL[42]
;B[mc]BL[554]LB[qf:A][qg:B][qm:C]C[BG: We still seem to be in a race to build our frameworks. I also considered A, but this move serves two purposes like N3. I it starts a corner framework and works well with the stones on the top left. I didn't consider it in the game, but B is also an option. However, the matching side positions feel more balanced. As happened, I can build territory on the top or bottom by harassing white invasions in the areas of A and C.]
;W[qf]WL[37]C[KW: it seems like White realized too you have the bigger framework]
;B[qe]BL[544]TR[pj]C[BG: I think this is textbook given the marked stone. White can't get a base and I get to build a central wall while harassing the group.]
;W[pf]WL[33]
(;B[ne]BL[526]LB[od:B][qh:A]C[BG: I think this move was a mistake. I should have played A. i considered A in the game, but even with the extension white does not have a base. I was also concerned about white B if I played A. But given the variation, I think A yeilds a better result.
KW: A would have been better indeed]
;W[ng]WL[29]
(;B[qh]BL[522]LB[of:C][pg:D][oh:B][ni:A]C[BG: I get to play here anyway, and it threatens the push and cut at C and D. A is also an option, but B seems to lead to a messy fight which seems a mistake given that I can just keep pressuring this group.]
;W[nf]WL[14]
(;B[qo]BL[509]LB[ni:A][ql:B]C[BG: I don't think I need to respond to the attachment. I debated this move and A. In retrospect, I think A is stronger because it continues the pressure on the top group (although white may not have to respond yet, white would defenitely have to respond to the follow-up move) and protects the area around B.]
(;W[pl]WL[11]
;B[ql]BL[467]LB[ni:B][nj:A]TR[gj]C[BG: I wasn't sure about this move at the time. Attaching to the white stone obviously strengthens it. But getting a base for this group would help tremendously in being able to threaten these two groups by seperating them. And as I run up, I'm also facing down the marked stone. At the time, I reasoned that getting a base was worth the attachment, but I now think this was a mistake since white A now seems quite big.
KW: yes, separating at A is better]
;W[qm]WL[6]
;B[rl]BL[456]
;W[om]WL[585]
;B[nj]BL[440]LB[ni:A]C[BG: I played this rather than A because it created balanced pressure on the two white groups.]
;W[rm]WL[580]
(;B[pk]BL[428]LB[rk:A]C[BG: This seems necessary to prevent the attachment at A.
KW: the fact that you mention A as the threat is suspicious
See variation]
;W[nl]WL[575]
;B[pn]BL[404]LB[lg:B][ll:A]C[BG: This is a freebie, but too early. White should have sacrificed and played A or B.
KW: it would have been a big sacrifice, because Black gets all connected this way. And then what is the purpose of A if these stones don't cut anything?]
;W[pm]WL[572]
(;B[lj]BL[393]LB[mh:B][ll:A]C[BG: Keeping up the pressure. Right idea, wrong move. White responds with A and I can't clearly cut off the other group with one move. However, I now see that I could use a leaning attack on the upper group starting with B to set up black A.
KW: good enough]
;W[ll]WL[559]
(;B[oe]BL[389]LB[me:C][of:A][lg:D][pg:B]C[BG: I felt the need to strengthen the marked stone, and i figured that this was sente because of the push and cut at A and B. But I did not anticipate white leaning on my group. I now think that C was the better move since it threatened D. I considered playing D here during the game, but it seemed risky. After looking at the variation, it seems like a good move, but it's sufficiently complicated that I could have made a mistake.
KW: agree that C is the better move]
;W[ph]WL[553]
;B[qg]BL[350]LB[qi:A]C[BG: Considered A, but realized that White can't play A. See variation.]
(;W[rg]WL[543]
;B[rh]BL[348]
;W[re]WL[541]
;B[rd]BL[346]
;W[pg]WL[526]
;B[rj]BL[327]LB[lg:C][qi:A][qk:B]C[BG: I think this settles the group, and it is urgent because if white plays here the cuts at A and B are miai. After this move, black C is then a serious threat.]
;W[kg]WL[522]
(;B[jj]BL[291]LB[ji:A][jl:B]C[BG: Another missed opportunity for a leaning attack with A then B.
KW:seems good enough]
;W[le]WL[502]
;B[kd]BL[264]
;W[jl]WL[496]
;B[ik]BL[230]
;W[il]WL[491]
(;B[dd]BL[77]LB[ig:A]C[BG: Too early. Should have played A. White can make shape by rattling his cage, but I get a nice little wall to face down whites position on the left. Given that i was going to invade, however, this seemed like a reasonable place to start. The white left is weaker at the top than the bottom, and this splits the two white stones. I figure I'll either capture one group or settle or run to safety while trying.
KW: for me and probably any dan player out there another move inuitively stands out. See 2nd var]
;W[ed]WL[482]
;B[de]BL[595]
;W[ee]WL[478]
;B[df]BL[591]C[KW: This is good.]
;W[cf]WL[472]
;B[ef]BL[581]
;W[mj]WL[463]
(;B[ge]BL[518]LB[ih:A]TR[jj][lj][ik]C[BG: I decided that my threat here is more valuable than saving the stones in the middle for the time being. Plus, I can play A with a good shot at saving them, particularly if I live on the top left.
KW: saving the stones is not the issue. The issue is separating the White stones. See var]
;W[dc]WL[453]
;B[cd]BL[503]
;W[cc]WL[451]
(;B[be]BL[470]LB[bc:A][bd:B]C[BG: I considered A directly, but I can't prevent white from making a base because of the cut at B. See variation. So, this move gives white a choice between his two sets of stones. ]
;W[cg]WL[446]C[BG: this seems like the wrong choice.]
;B[bc]BL[469]
;W[bb]WL[441]
;B[ab]BL[468]
;W[gb]WL[435]
;B[hb]BL[464]
;W[fb]WL[433]
(;B[cb]BL[437]C[Locally sharp, globally risky]
;W[gf]WL[347]
;B[fe]BL[428]
;W[hc]WL[337]C[BG: I think white just decided to make a mess here in the hopes that something went in his favor.]
;B[hd]BL[403]
;W[ic]WL[598]
;B[ib]BL[398]
;W[jc]WL[595]
;B[jb]BL[386]
;W[kc]WL[589]
(;B[kb]BL[339]C[See var]
;W[qc]WL[548]
;B[qd]BL[331]
;W[rc]WL[546]
;B[se]BL[316]
;W[rf]WL[541]
;B[pc]BL[304]
;W[mb]WL[531]
;B[lc]BL[296]
;W[pb]WL[503]
(;B[ob]BL[294]C[BG: This is a mistake. I should have played A. I didn't see the ko.
]
;W[qa]WL[495]
;B[rb]BL[273]
;W[sb]WL[489]
;B[ra]BL[236]
;W[sd]WL[486]
;B[dp]BL[88]LB[mk:B][in:A][gq:C]C[BG: White seems to have many more ko threats than I have. So, I can't fight the ko in the upper right now. I considered A followed by B with the hope of cutting white. I also considered C, but this seems the most promising.
KW: you can take the ko once]
;W[eo]WL[479]
;B[ep]BL[82]
;W[fp]WL[478]
;B[dq]BL[81]
;W[er]WL[475]
;B[do]BL[598]
;W[dn]WL[474]
;B[cp]BL[582]
;W[cn]WL[470]
;B[bo]BL[529]
;W[bn]WL[455]
;B[bq]BL[525]
;W[ao]WL[453]
;B[cr]BL[506]
;W[bp]WL[444]
;B[dr]BL[503]
;W[fq]WL[439]
;B[in]BL[455]C[BG: I expected this to elicit A, but white tenukis.]
;W[sf]WL[434]
(;B[mk]BL[427]C[BG: The idea is to see if white let's me cut at A. However, while black has the upper hand in the fight, it is now clearly an unnecessary risk. Playing safely black wins by 20. See variation.]
;W[mi]WL[431]
;B[ml]BL[426]C[BG: White took the bait. So, I get to cut. Should not have taken this risk...]
;W[mm]WL[427]
;B[lm]BL[425]
(;W[lk]WL[418]C[KW: but what if White makes the other atari?]
;B[nk]BL[418]
;W[ln]WL[412]
;B[km]BL[416]
;W[nn]WL[597]
;B[mo]BL[409]
;W[mn]WL[590]
;B[kn]BL[394]
;W[lo]WL[586]
;B[mp]BL[374]
;W[ko]WL[576]
;B[jo]BL[372]
;W[kp]WL[575]
;B[kq]BL[355]LB[jq:A]C[BG: After determining that white can't cut at A, I decide that keeping the stones connected is the best strategy.]
;W[jq]WL[573]
;B[iq]BL[349]
;W[jr]WL[571]
;B[ir]BL[348]
;W[kr]WL[568]
;B[lq]BL[347]
;W[lr]WL[567]
;B[mr]BL[346]
;W[ip]WL[564]
(;B[js]BL[343]LB[jn:A]C[BG: This is tricky. It doesn't look like it, but with a throw in at A, the marked stones only have three liberties. See variation.
KW: very well spotted!]
;W[hn]WL[552]
;B[ls]BL[293]
;W[qi]WL[547]C[BG: White is just playing in the hope of a black mistake here.]
;B[ri]BL[286]
;W[pi]WL[540]
(;B[sk]BL[263]C[BG: Fairly sure this is necessary. See variation.]
;W[qj]WL[537]
;B[qk]BL[598]
;W[sm]WL[534]C[BG: Could the play above have been to set up this move? Maybe, but only results in one eye.]
;B[sl]BL[597]
;W[ro]WL[497]
;B[rp]BL[565]
;W[qn]WL[493]
;B[qp]BL[509]LB[qq:A]C[BG: I was afraid of white peeping at A to get a position in the corner. That could be a problem.]
;W[so]WL[487]C[BG: White got one eye. So, I need to falsify this one.]
;B[on]BL[506]
;W[op]WL[481]
;B[oq]BL[491]
;W[pq]WL[469]
;B[qq]BL[482]
;W[pr]WL[463]
(;B[qr]BL[347]C[BG: This was tight. Decending at A doesn't work, but this does.]
;W[oo]WL[457]
;B[po]BL[339]
;W[kl]WL[419]
;B[ks]BL[326]
;W[eh]WL[377]C[BG: A is stronger, but I don't think white saw that black A connects white's stones.]
;B[ig]BL[205]C[BG: At this point, the game is comfortably over I think. [End BG comments.\]
KW: correct]
;W[ie]WL[368]
;B[id]BL[198]
;W[fg]WL[596]
;B[hf]BL[191]
;W[hg]WL[579]
;B[if]BL[186]
;W[je]WL[576]
;B[ke]BL[177]
;W[jf]WL[574]
;B[jg]BL[167]
;W[kf]WL[572]
;B[he]BL[166]
;W[hh]WL[561]
;B[ih]BL[119]
;W[ii]WL[558]
;B[ji]BL[115]
;W[im]WL[557]
;B[jn]BL[107]
;W[hk]WL[548]
;B[oa]BL[69]
;W[qb]WL[543]
;B[dg]BL[44]
;W[dh]WL[539]
;B[ah]BL[28]
;W[db]WL[533]
;B[ba]BL[25]
;W[ea]WL[531]
;B[ga]BL[23]
;W[ca]WL[529]
;B[bb]BL[595]
;W[ag]WL[520]
;B[bg]BL[594]
;W[bh]WL[518]
;B[bf]BL[585]
;W[ai]WL[516]
;B[ch]BL[583]
;W[ci]WL[514]
;B[gr]BL[553]
;OS[])
(;B[or]
;W[qr]
;B[rr]
;W[oo]
;B[po]))
(;B[oo]
;W[sk]
;B[sl]
;W[qj]
;B[qk]
;W[sh]
;B[si]C[BG: Black is dead.]))
(;B[oo]
;W[hn]
;B[js]
;W[jn]
;B[jm]
;W[io]
;B[jn]
;W[im]))
(;W[nk]
;B[lk]
;W[kl]))
(;B[mm]
;W[ml]
;B[nn]
;W[lm]
;B[ln]
;W[kn]
;B[ko]
;W[jn]
;B[lo]
;W[io]
;B[iq]
;W[hq]
;B[ir]
;W[hr]
;B[eh]
;W[ej]
;B[ah]
;W[ag]
;B[bg]
;W[bf]
;B[af]
;W[bh]
;B[ag]
;W[ai]
;B[ae]
;W[bi]
;B[ig]
;W[hf]
;B[jf]
;W[gh]
;B[fi]
;W[gi]
;B[fj]
;W[fk]
;B[ro]
;W[ni]))
(;B[rb]
(;W[qb]
;B[sc]
;W[oc]
;B[nc]
;W[nb]C[BG: White is dead.])
(;W[sb]
;B[qb]
;W[sc]
;B[sd])))
(;B[lc]C[A loose ladder]
;W[kb]
;B[lb]C[White cannot escape]))
(;B[hc]
;W[ba]C[White lives, but barely and losing the initiative]
;B[mi]C[Black takes it to set the same sequence in motion as shown before]
;W[mk]
;B[ni]))
(;B[bc]
;W[bb]
;B[ab]
;W[bd]))
(;B[mi]
;W[mk]
;B[ni]LB[li:A]TR[le][nf][kg][ng]SQ[mj][mk][il][jl][ll]C[Even if the black stones are not strongly connected, White's triangled and squared stones are separated on a large scale
See what happens if White cuts at A]
;W[li]
;B[lh]
;W[ki]
;B[kh]
;W[ji]
;B[jh]
;W[ii]
;B[jg]TR[jj][lj][ik]C[Black sacrifices the marked stones, in order to kill off the White group.]))
(;B[ig]C[This is a good attack, but]
(;W[jf]
;B[if]
;W[je]
;B[ie]
;W[mi]
;B[mj])
(;W[mi]
;B[mj]
;W[ki]
;B[kj]
;W[oi]
;B[oj]
;W[of]C[White can probably live locally]
;B[if]C[and if Black wastes another move]
;W[hk]C[White connects, creating a big moyo corner]))
(;B[hk]TR[gj][il]C[The marked gap is screaming to be pushed through. The difference between Black separating here or White connecting is enormous.
Now see your var]))
(;B[ji]
;W[ig]
;B[jl]))
(;W[qi]
;B[pi]
;W[pg]
(;B[ri]LB[rf:A]C[BG: This settles the group. A seems worth considering, but it leaves some cutting points.])
(;B[rf]
;W[rg]
;B[rh]
;W[re]
;B[sg]
;W[rd]
;B[qc]
;W[ri]
;B[rj]
;W[se])))
(;B[lg]C[This is a good move!]
;W[mf]
;B[lf]
(;W[me]
;B[nd]C[BG: No where for white to go...])
(;W[oe]
;B[nd]
;W[od]
;B[oc]C[BG: This also doesn't look to good for white.])))
(;B[mh]
;W[lf]
;B[kh]LB[jf:A]C[BG: This is sente because black A would probably kill the group.]
;W[jf]
;B[ll]C[BG: Now that I have strength in the middle and bottom, I can just cap white and I've got a good shot at killing the group.]))
(;B[lj]C[suppose you play here]
(;W[rk]C[You mentioned this attachment]
;B[qk]C[But Black simply plays on top ...]
;W[sl]C[White connecting this stone is not valuable at this point]
;B[rj]C[Black gets shape making forcing moves]
;W[sk]
;B[sj]
;W[sm]C[What's the value for White?
Essentially, the move you feared was an endgame like move
Now see the other variation])
(;W[qk]C[The move you may really fear is this one]
(;B[pk]
;W[rj]
;B[qj]
;W[rk]
;B[ri])
(;B[rk]
;W[qj]
;B[rj]
;W[qi]
;B[ri]
;W[pi]C[not good for Black])
(;B[qj]
;W[rk]))))
(;W[me]TR[ne]C[KW: this may look like a small move but White is
1) making good shape for his group that has been without a base
2) building influence towards the centre
3) reducing the function of the marked stone, which we now can ask ourselves what it has been played for
In short, the situation intuitively asked to be continued from both sides.]))
(;B[me]C[The "basic instinct" is to extend when the opponent headbutts your stone.
See variation on the next white move]))
(;B[oh]
;W[qi]
;B[qj]
;W[pi]
;B[oi]
;W[oj]
;B[og]
;W[of]
;B[nf])
(;B[ni]
;W[qi]
;B[qj]
;W[pi]
;B[oi]
;W[oh]))
(;B[qh]
;W[od]
;B[oc]
;W[nd]
;B[nc]
;W[nf]
;B[nh]
;W[le]
;B[lg]))