SoDesuNe wrote:As long as neither of you played Tengen, he/you cannot capture a group without letting you/him also capturing one. That's mirror Go ; ) If Black has already a stone on Tengen then attaching is the simplest to break the mirroring.
But yeah, I also think mirroring is cheap.
my emphasis.
I'm going to disagree with you SoDesuNe. I enjoy playing mirror go as white and have played against it a few times as black, and it is a tough game for both sides.
Black needs to play good moves that don't give white a chance to deviate with a profit, and work towards some way to break the mirror and avoid losing by komi, i.e. double ladders, moves around tengen. With a single slow or bad move white will deviate.
And White isn't just blindly copying. Every move he needs to decide if it is best to continue the mirror or if breaking it is more profitable. This is done by evaluating blacks play in regards to the whole board. White also needs to be on the lookout for potential mirror breaks. I find I use more time thinking as the copier than the copyee.
I've never had experience with black mirroring but it seems like it would work the same way.
I think mirror go makes the game temperature very high and leads to a tense game. Especially because for as long as the mirrorer is sticking to his strategy, sente doesn't exist. Mirroring is a tenuki based strategy after all.
And this is why people don't like playing mirror go I think.
But back to the OPs question.
Regardless of the mirrorers strength you should keep playing the best move. Ideally they are looking for a chance to break and take advantage of your mistake. However your question sounds like they are mirroring you regardless. In that case the easiest method is to steer the game towards the center so that tengen(or a nearby point) becomes a good move/mirror break. It is important not to do this to early because in effect tengen can end up being the bad move that white was waiting for.