Martin1974 wrote:[..] my measured IQ is in fact sub average. [..]
Please
forget about all this IQ bullshit immediately.
ALL the instruments designed to “measure” “intelligence” (yes, quotation marks around both) are … inadequate for assessing
what really is. They can only measure
how fast an individual can solve so-and-so stupid tasks
under stress, and both the tasks as well as the evaluation are designed by
humans who are limited in their thinking just as well as you and me. The people who design so-called “IQ Tests” are NOT Nobel Prize winners, nor are those who evaluate them. All they can think of is … verbal “intelligence”, mathematical “intelligence”, technical “intelligence”, logical “intelligence”. So-called social intelligence or emotional intelligence are usually way outside of their areas of imagination.
We must not let ourselves be judged—and limited!—by technocrat assholes. (Please forgive me this use of language, but I tend to get angry when it get to this topic

)
I have worked with young people who actually
believed they were dumb, i.e. they had been told they were dumb all their lives, everybody around them believed they were dumb (and I can only guess how many of the people who judged thusly were dumb themselves). Some of them had visited “special schools”, and with bad results. And what I found was that most of them seemed “more intelligent” as soon as the person communicating with them assumed them to be smarter than people before had assumed. What a satisfaction for me, what a joy, to find that I could push some of them towards new borders, new schools, new goals. One of the greatest experiences in my life was when one of them later came across the yard of the adult education institution where I taught, hand stretched out, face grinning, and telling me, “I just graduated from high school, thanks for expecting more from me than others did.”
“In the province of the mind, what one believes to be true is true or becomes true within certain limits to be found experientially and experimentally. These limits are further beliefs to be transcended. In the mind there are no limits.”
—John C. Lilly, M.D, in “Programming and Metaprogramming in the Human Biocomputer: Theory and Experiments”
“If I call an idiot “idiot”, and the idiot is two metres tall and one-and-a-half metre broad and stands at arm’s length from me, who’s really the idiot? All I achieve by this is to hurt the other person and perhaps
provoke idiotic
behaviour.”
—Thomas Rohde (that’s me)
<edit>Actually, my wording “push some of them towards new borders [..]” is wrong, I never pushed, I never HAD to push, it was rather that I tried to remind them that the only real obstacles are in our own minds. So I perhaps just scratched a bit on the dam that blocked the flow, so that the flow could move on.
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