A few comments.
(;CA[UTF-8]FF[4]SZ[19]AP[GOWrite:2.2.21]ST[2]GM[1]HA[2]PC[The KGS Go Server at http\://www.gokgs.com/]KM[0.5]FG[259:]DT[2013-09-26]AB[dp][pd]PW[Boidhre]TM[1500.0]WR[3k]GN[ ]RU[Japanese]C[Boidhre \[3k?\]\: hello, enjoy
resttime3 \[5k\]\: hello
Boidhre \[3k?\]\: should be an easy win for you \:)]PB[resttime3]BR[5k]PM[2]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
;W[pq]WL[1487.289]
;B[dd]BL[1493.105]
;W[qf]WL[1481.508]
;B[md]BL[1490.0]
;W[ql]WL[1464.379]
;B[np]BL[1486.045]
;C[This felt too passive for a handicap game. ]W[po]WL[1458.326]
;B[nn]BL[1481.466]
;C[I was very unsure about this move. ]W[fq]WL[1441.005]
;B[qk]C[Felt like a trick play, I felt Q8 was possibly better than my ingame response locally but I didn't like it globally. ]BL[1462.401]
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;C[*** See variation.]W[pk]WL[1421.773]
;B[pl]BL[1454.573]
;W[qm]WL[1417.414]
;B[ol]BL[1440.421]
;W[pj]WL[1403.087]
;B[pi]BL[1428.351]
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;C[Overplay?
*** Dunno. See variation.]W[qi]WL[1386.468]
;B[oj]BL[1422.524]
;C[Maybe Q12 first?
*** I would avoid Q-12. Why strengthen Black?]W[qj]WL[1383.308]
;B[ok]C[*** The Black wall is a concern.]BL[1414.06]
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;C[Unnecessary I think now.
*** See variation.]W[ph]WL[1380.651]
;B[iq]BL[1397.848]
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;C[*** See variation.]W[cn]WL[1366.893]
;B[eq]BL[1387.953]
;C[I felt a double kakari here was bigger than F4.
*** I think that F-04 is worth playing, to create some aji. White is busy in the bottom and center.]W[cf]WL[1343.995]
;B[fp]BL[1378.31]
;W[fc]WL[1334.284]
;B[ee]BL[1374.688]
;W[cc]WL[1332.467]
;B[cd]BL[1364.76]
;W[dc]WL[1329.824]
;B[dh]BL[1351.094]
;C[I wanted a stable group here, otherwise the centre could become too big for him as it was already potentially very large. ]W[ck]WL[1309.715]
;B[ec]BL[1335.349]
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;C[*** See variation.]W[bd]WL[1286.649]
;B[be]BL[1331.756]
;W[bc]WL[1283.333]
;B[ce]BL[1315.711]
;W[eb]WL[1281.017]
;B[ci]BL[1296.438]
;W[kc]WL[1249.237]
;B[mc]BL[1280.279]
;C[*** A bit slow, perhaps. Reducing the Black framework is urgent.]W[id]WL[1228.873]
;B[kd]BL[1261.979]
;W[jd]WL[1224.145]
;B[kb]BL[1259.283]
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;C[*** See variation.]W[jb]WL[1222.303]
;B[lc]BL[1254.948]
;W[jc]WL[1220.242]
;B[lb]BL[1252.251]
;C[*** Still, a good exchange for White.]W[ke]WL[1218.581]
;B[fd]BL[1248.83]
;W[gc]WL[1216.414]
;B[ja]BL[1245.947]
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;C[I didn't expect to live on the bottom or for this stone to live, I expected him to block on the right and me to play a stone in the centre where I would have wanted to reduce from anyone and gain a tempo allowing me an easier escape with the stone doing the reducing. Of course, I screwed up the bottom right, so things weren't so happy.
*** See variation.]W[lq]WL[1179.864]
;B[oq]C[*** Now preventing the slide threatens your invasion.]BL[1231.688]
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;C[*** Weakens the invading stone. See variation.]W[or]WL[1171.861]
;B[nr]BL[1224.646]
;C[Yeah, I misread the bottom right. Also, I maybe be incorrect to throw away M3 so easily. ]W[jn]WL[1144.697]
;B[pr]BL[1221.099]
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;C[Misread.
*** See variation.]W[qr]WL[1141.96]
;B[pp]BL[1214.619]
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;C[*** See variation.]W[qp]WL[1133.318]
;B[qq]BL[1212.128]
;W[rq]WL[1131.781]
;B[pq]BL[1181.028]
;W[rp]WL[1126.621]
;B[kp]C[*** Ouch! End of comments.]BL[1162.719]
;W[fn]WL[1102.134]
;B[dn]BL[1142.811]
;C[Overplay? Probably. ]W[do]WL[1089.993]
;B[eo]BL[1137.588]
;W[co]WL[1088.717]
;B[en]BL[1130.609]
;W[gp]WL[1074.138]
;B[gq]BL[1110.579]
;W[fo]WL[1066.871]
;B[fr]BL[1106.108]
;W[hn]WL[1060.632]
;B[fm]BL[1099.646]
;W[gm]WL[1044.804]
;B[go]BL[1060.166]
;W[gn]WL[1041.383]
;B[ho]BL[1053.219]
;W[io]WL[1038.155]
;B[hp]BL[1051.313]
;W[fl]WL[1035.624]
;B[em]BL[1049.003]
;C[I felt secure enough with my centre group, it could be attacked but I didn't think it could be killed right now. The left hand group I was more worried about. Looking now, maybe trying to connect the two groups would have been better that this move, where I was trying to combine life with reduction. I don't know. ]W[bq]WL[1008.974]
;B[bp]BL[998.056]
;W[cp]WL[1001.347]
;B[cq]BL[994.23]
;C[I thought I was ok because of the ko. ]W[cr]WL[990.36]
;B[cm]BL[988.607]
;C[The game ended here. If he atari'd I was going to take C3 and offer him the choice of the ko or giving me life on the side. With the amount of local threats for me I felt ok about the ko. ]W[bm]WL[967.371]
)
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;W[qq]
;B[qp]
;W[rp]
;B[ro]C[*** If Black tries this, . . . ]
;W[qo]
;B[op]
;W[rq]
)
)
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;C[*** Now White has OK shape.]W[jp]
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;C[*** Maybe here.]W[jp]
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)
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;C[*** FWIW, my feeling is here. Black does not have territory where he has an open skirt. No need to invade what he does not have. ]W[jo]
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;W[ke]
;B[ld]C[*** Bad shape.]
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;C[*** Normal response. It is too early to weaken the C-14 stone.]W[eb]
)
)
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;W[fo]
;B[dn]
;W[io]
)
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;C[*** Partly neutralizes the Black thickness.]W[iq]
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)
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;C[*** My preference is to keep it simple, to give Black less play.]W[qj]
)
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;C[*** Aiming to attack either way. Prevents the crosscut.]W[pl]
)
)
resttime3 \[5k\]\: hello
Boidhre \[3k?\]\: should be an easy win for you \:)]PB[resttime3]BR[5k]PM[2]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
;W[pq]WL[1487.289]
;B[dd]BL[1493.105]
;W[qf]WL[1481.508]
;B[md]BL[1490.0]
;W[ql]WL[1464.379]
;B[np]BL[1486.045]
;C[This felt too passive for a handicap game. ]W[po]WL[1458.326]
;B[nn]BL[1481.466]
;C[I was very unsure about this move. ]W[fq]WL[1441.005]
;B[qk]C[Felt like a trick play, I felt Q8 was possibly better than my ingame response locally but I didn't like it globally. ]BL[1462.401]
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;C[*** See variation.]W[pk]WL[1421.773]
;B[pl]BL[1454.573]
;W[qm]WL[1417.414]
;B[ol]BL[1440.421]
;W[pj]WL[1403.087]
;B[pi]BL[1428.351]
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;C[Overplay?
*** Dunno. See variation.]W[qi]WL[1386.468]
;B[oj]BL[1422.524]
;C[Maybe Q12 first?
*** I would avoid Q-12. Why strengthen Black?]W[qj]WL[1383.308]
;B[ok]C[*** The Black wall is a concern.]BL[1414.06]
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;C[Unnecessary I think now.
*** See variation.]W[ph]WL[1380.651]
;B[iq]BL[1397.848]
(
;C[*** See variation.]W[cn]WL[1366.893]
;B[eq]BL[1387.953]
;C[I felt a double kakari here was bigger than F4.
*** I think that F-04 is worth playing, to create some aji. White is busy in the bottom and center.]W[cf]WL[1343.995]
;B[fp]BL[1378.31]
;W[fc]WL[1334.284]
;B[ee]BL[1374.688]
;W[cc]WL[1332.467]
;B[cd]BL[1364.76]
;W[dc]WL[1329.824]
;B[dh]BL[1351.094]
;C[I wanted a stable group here, otherwise the centre could become too big for him as it was already potentially very large. ]W[ck]WL[1309.715]
;B[ec]BL[1335.349]
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;C[*** See variation.]W[bd]WL[1286.649]
;B[be]BL[1331.756]
;W[bc]WL[1283.333]
;B[ce]BL[1315.711]
;W[eb]WL[1281.017]
;B[ci]BL[1296.438]
;W[kc]WL[1249.237]
;B[mc]BL[1280.279]
;C[*** A bit slow, perhaps. Reducing the Black framework is urgent.]W[id]WL[1228.873]
;B[kd]BL[1261.979]
;W[jd]WL[1224.145]
;B[kb]BL[1259.283]
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;C[*** See variation.]W[jb]WL[1222.303]
;B[lc]BL[1254.948]
;W[jc]WL[1220.242]
;B[lb]BL[1252.251]
;C[*** Still, a good exchange for White.]W[ke]WL[1218.581]
;B[fd]BL[1248.83]
;W[gc]WL[1216.414]
;B[ja]BL[1245.947]
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;C[I didn't expect to live on the bottom or for this stone to live, I expected him to block on the right and me to play a stone in the centre where I would have wanted to reduce from anyone and gain a tempo allowing me an easier escape with the stone doing the reducing. Of course, I screwed up the bottom right, so things weren't so happy.
*** See variation.]W[lq]WL[1179.864]
;B[oq]C[*** Now preventing the slide threatens your invasion.]BL[1231.688]
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;C[*** Weakens the invading stone. See variation.]W[or]WL[1171.861]
;B[nr]BL[1224.646]
;C[Yeah, I misread the bottom right. Also, I maybe be incorrect to throw away M3 so easily. ]W[jn]WL[1144.697]
;B[pr]BL[1221.099]
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;C[Misread.
*** See variation.]W[qr]WL[1141.96]
;B[pp]BL[1214.619]
(
;C[*** See variation.]W[qp]WL[1133.318]
;B[qq]BL[1212.128]
;W[rq]WL[1131.781]
;B[pq]BL[1181.028]
;W[rp]WL[1126.621]
;B[kp]C[*** Ouch! End of comments.]BL[1162.719]
;W[fn]WL[1102.134]
;B[dn]BL[1142.811]
;C[Overplay? Probably. ]W[do]WL[1089.993]
;B[eo]BL[1137.588]
;W[co]WL[1088.717]
;B[en]BL[1130.609]
;W[gp]WL[1074.138]
;B[gq]BL[1110.579]
;W[fo]WL[1066.871]
;B[fr]BL[1106.108]
;W[hn]WL[1060.632]
;B[fm]BL[1099.646]
;W[gm]WL[1044.804]
;B[go]BL[1060.166]
;W[gn]WL[1041.383]
;B[ho]BL[1053.219]
;W[io]WL[1038.155]
;B[hp]BL[1051.313]
;W[fl]WL[1035.624]
;B[em]BL[1049.003]
;C[I felt secure enough with my centre group, it could be attacked but I didn't think it could be killed right now. The left hand group I was more worried about. Looking now, maybe trying to connect the two groups would have been better that this move, where I was trying to combine life with reduction. I don't know. ]W[bq]WL[1008.974]
;B[bp]BL[998.056]
;W[cp]WL[1001.347]
;B[cq]BL[994.23]
;C[I thought I was ok because of the ko. ]W[cr]WL[990.36]
;B[cm]BL[988.607]
;C[The game ended here. If he atari'd I was going to take C3 and offer him the choice of the ko or giving me life on the side. With the amount of local threats for me I felt ok about the ko. ]W[bm]WL[967.371]
)
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;W[qq]
;B[qp]
;W[rp]
;B[ro]C[*** If Black tries this, . . . ]
;W[qo]
;B[op]
;W[rq]
)
)
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;C[*** Now White has OK shape.]W[jp]
)
)
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;C[*** Maybe here.]W[jp]
)
)
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;C[*** FWIW, my feeling is here. Black does not have territory where he has an open skirt. No need to invade what he does not have. ]W[jo]
)
)
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;W[ke]
;B[ld]C[*** Bad shape.]
)
)
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;C[*** Normal response. It is too early to weaken the C-14 stone.]W[eb]
)
)
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;W[fo]
;B[dn]
;W[io]
)
)
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;C[*** Partly neutralizes the Black thickness.]W[iq]
)
)
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;C[*** My preference is to keep it simple, to give Black less play.]W[qj]
)
)
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;C[*** Aiming to attack either way. Prevents the crosscut.]W[pl]
)
)
Main focus: Avoid strengthening your opponent's stones or weakening your own.
has traditionally been considered the wrong direction, approaching from the narrow side. When I was a kyu player, I would have been strongly criticized for a move like this. In response, a pincer is tempting, but I think I would happily extend toward the more open side around R14 and let W make a narrow base on top.
through
is a fantastic result for B, strongly punishing the W overplay. Now W is split into two weak groups, neither of which has room to make a base. B just has to run out to the center with his weak middle group and keep W split to take control of the game.
was a clever move. If W was already planning the L15-M15-M14 continuation, he is quite strong. In the result up through move 37, W got out of trouble, but B got a very strong ponnuki in compensation. B still has a commanding position.
should block at R9. Yes, the books all say to use thickness to attack, but at some point you really are allowed to make territory. Actually, blocking would make territory while attacking. Compare that result to the result where W extends to R9 or S10, making W territory inside the B moyo while living. The territory difference is enormous. Also, blocking this side will force W to move in the other direction, which hurts the O3 stone. B would get a perfect splitting attack.
is another slack move. It looks nice, but it allows the W group to the right to live easily by sliding into the corner. B should still be aiming for a splitting attack, starting by preventing W from making a base. Make territory while attacking; prevent your opponent from making territory while living.
is terribly slack. You cannot win a handicap game this way. Blocking at R9 is the only move. This position makes a good full board problem -- spot the vital point.