tchan001 wrote:What is wrong is posting something which was meant to be a private conversation in public especially after the other party of the conversation explicitly told you not to.
tchan, I think that is the proper and respectful way to behave. I agree with that as a general rule. However, there must be exceptions to the rule. If someone is abusing his power against you and essentially admits to it in private conversation, should you be expected to keep it private? I think not. This is especially true when this person tries to insinuate to the public that whatever you did was bad enough without specifying exactly what it was. Think about the power situation here, if you take away the right to share private communications under all circumstances, xDragon (or any other user) must essentially submit to admin abuse without a way to convince the public that they're not whining just trolls. After all, BigDoug could just go on claiming that he's given a reason for a punishment in private, it is not to be shared, and that this secret reason was good enough to justify the punishment. Most of us would just believe BigDoug because we tend to believe people in authority and god knows there are millions of terrible trolls online. I certainly would have dismissed whatever xDragon had to say without him sharing all this stuff.