Joelnelsonb wrote:Uberdude wrote: ...you could come across as being rather rude, some cultural sensitivity is required.
This actually appears to be a serious issue. Among the more serious Go playing communities, there seems to be a lot of unspoken rules such accepting a handicap or passing instead of making a desperate invasion.
Well, you should not have to be told that playing 100 or more moves in an even game against a much weaker opponent can be boring.
OTOH, anybody who objects to a player who is behind making a desperate invasion is himself being rude.
So tell me this, If I'm playing white against someone with a four stone handicap, what should my opening goal be?
Four stones is on the edge between playing a pure teaching game and letting Black generate his own unforced errors, and playing to win. Unfortunately, pros do not give handicaps to pros anymore, so we do not have those high level handicap games. Here are some four stone games by three of the top players in history, presumably playing to win. I have added some comments on the openings.
(;GM[1]FF[4]SZ[19]ST[2]AP[GOWrite:2.3.46]CA[ISO8859-1]US[GoGoD95]OH[4]HA[4]AB[dd][dp][pp][pd]RE[W+4]PB[Imataki Tarobee]FG[259:]GN[ ]DT[1678-03-04 (Enpo 6 I 12)]PW[Honinbo Dosaku]PC[Residence of the Shokan Tani]PM[0]
;W[nc]
;B[gc]
;W[nq]
;B[qm]
;W[qf]
;B[oe]
;C[*** It would be usual for White to take the top right corner, but that would cede the initiative to Black.]W[ql]
;B[pl]
;C[*** Instead, Dosaku mixes things up.]W[qp]
;B[qk]
;W[po]
;B[op]
;W[qq]
;B[oo]
;W[or]
;C[*** Black secures this corner and attacks both White stones.]B[qc]
;C[*** White cannot play defensively.]W[rl]
;B[rk]
;W[rm]
;B[qn]
;W[rn]
;B[qo]
;W[ro]
;B[pk]
;W[pm]
;B[om]
;W[pn]
;C[*** So far, things seem to be going well for Black.]B[gq]
;C[*** Not a purely defensive play]W[qi]
;B[pg]
;C[*** White cannot afford to try to live, but must go on the attack.]W[oi]
;B[qh]
;W[ph]
;B[qg]
;W[ri]
;C[*** Black combines attack and defense.]B[nl]
;W[og]
;B[pf]
;C[*** A splitting play on the left side would be normal, but it would be less than dynamic.]W[iq]
;C[*** Black goes on the attack.
End of comments.]B[nh]
;W[ni]
;B[mj]
;W[mh]
;B[md]
;W[lc]
;B[jc]
;W[ld]
;B[le]
;W[ke]
;B[kf]
;W[me]
;B[lf]
;W[mf]
;B[nd]
;W[nk]
;B[pj]
;W[pi]
;B[lm]
;W[jd]
;B[kc]
;W[kd]
;B[lh]
;W[li]
;B[mi]
;W[mg]
;B[ki]
;W[mk]
;B[lj]
;W[ok]
;B[lb]
;W[id]
;B[if]
;W[ic]
;B[mc]
;W[gd]
;B[fc]
;W[mb]
;B[kb]
;W[la]
;B[nb]
;W[na]
;B[ma]
;W[kl]
;B[km]
;W[mb]
;B[ib]
;W[ka]
;B[ma]
;W[jl]
;B[jm]
;W[mb]
;B[jb]
;W[hb]
;B[ma]
;W[im]
;B[in]
;W[mb]
;B[ol]
;W[ll]
;B[ml]
;W[lk]
;B[il]
;W[hm]
;B[ik]
;W[jj]
;B[hn]
;W[gm]
;B[gk]
;W[jh]
;B[kh]
;W[gn]
;B[ho]
;W[go]
;B[hp]
;W[fq]
;B[fr]
;W[eq]
;B[ii]
;W[ji]
;B[hg]
;W[hi]
;B[ij]
;W[ih]
;B[hh]
;W[gi]
;B[gj]
;W[fi]
;B[ek]
;W[gf]
;B[fh]
;W[gh]
;B[jf]
;W[jk]
;B[gg]
;W[fg]
;B[eh]
;W[ei]
;B[ff]
;W[eg]
;B[dh]
;W[di]
;B[dg]
;W[ef]
;B[fe]
;W[ci]
;B[df]
;W[fl]
;B[fk]
;W[dl]
;B[el]
;W[dm]
;B[em]
;W[en]
;B[dn]
;W[cn]
;B[dk]
;W[bk]
;B[fn]
;W[do]
;B[eo]
;W[gp]
;B[dn]
;W[co]
;B[hq]
;W[ep]
;B[cp]
;W[bp]
;B[bh]
;W[bi]
;B[ma]
;W[jo]
;B[ko]
;W[mb]
;B[bo]
;W[bm]
;B[ma]
;W[kp]
;B[lp]
;W[lo]
;B[kn]
;W[mp]
;B[jp]
;W[kq]
;B[jq]
;W[jr]
;B[ip]
;W[mn]
;B[mm]
;W[er]
;B[mb]
;W[kr]
;B[on]
;W[bg]
;B[bf]
;W[rh]
;B[rg]
;W[sg]
;B[ck]
;W[cl]
;B[kj]
;W[rf]
;B[qe]
;W[se]
;B[rd]
;W[ir]
;B[nn]
;W[ch]
;B[cg]
;W[ah]
;B[hr]
;W[af]
;B[be]
;W[ae]
;B[ad]
;W[ag]
;B[bd]
;W[fs]
;B[gs]
;W[gr]
;B[bn]
;W[cm]
;B[fr]
;W[es]
;B[bq]
;W[cq]
;B[ap]
;W[dq]
;B[hk]
;W[sh]
;B[sj]
;W[np]
;B[re]
;W[cj]
;B[of]
;W[ng]
;B[oq]
;W[pr]
;B[sd]
;W[sf]
;B[ig]
;W[en]
;B[lg]
;W[fm]
;B[jg]
;W[ej]
;B[sl]
;W[sm]
;B[is]
;W[js]
;B[hs]
;W[sk]
;B[rj]
;W[dj]
;B[gr]
;W[sl]
)
(;GM[1]FF[4]SZ[19]ST[2]AP[GOWrite:2.3.46]CA[ISO8859-1]US[GoGoD95]OH[4]HA[4]AB[dd][dp][pp][pd]RE[Left unfinished]PB[Akai Gorosaku]FG[259:]GN[ ]DT[1847-01-08 {Koka 3 XI 22}]PW[Honinbo Jowa]PM[0]
;W[qf]
;B[mc]
;C[*** A move you do not see much these days, but it is quite good, especially in a four stone game.]W[ql]
;B[qn]
;W[nq]
;B[oq]
;W[np]
;C[*** A nice dual attack by Black.]B[on]
;C[*** White cannot afford to play defensively.]W[fq]
;B[cm]
;C[*** White builds thickness.]W[nn]
;B[om]
;W[nm]
;B[pk]
;W[qj]
;B[dq]
;C[*** White builds a large but thin framework on the bottom side. Black can invade, but would that be wise when taking four stones?]W[hp]
;C[*** Black combines attack and defense.]B[qd]
;C[*** A lot of amateurs would not dream of this play. After all, there is no territory in the center.]W[nk]
;B[qm]
;C[*** White aims to build up thickness.]W[dm]
;B[cn]
;W[dk]
;C[*** Black counters the building of a huge framework.]B[fp]
;W[gp]
;B[fo]
;C[*** A normal approach.]W[cg]
;B[fr]
;W[gc]
;B[fd]
;W[eb]
;B[gd]
;W[hc]
;B[hd]
;W[ic]
;C[*** Black is a point grubber.]B[nr]
;W[mr]
;B[or]
;C[*** So White builds a framework while attacking.]W[fg]
;B[hg]
;W[cl]
;B[gr]
;W[dn]
;B[do]
;C[*** White destabilizes the Black group.
End of comments.]W[cc]
;B[cd]
;W[bc]
;B[cf]
;W[dg]
;B[qk]
;W[rk]
;B[pj]
;W[qi]
;B[rl]
;W[sl]
;B[rm]
;W[ig]
;B[gg]
;W[ff]
;B[if]
;W[ie]
;B[he]
;W[jf]
;B[id]
;W[hf]
;B[gf]
;W[nc]
;B[oc]
;W[ih]
;B[if]
;W[je]
;B[jd]
;W[lc]
;B[gi]
;W[md]
;B[gk]
;W[re]
;B[rd]
;W[ob]
;B[pb]
;W[od]
;B[pc]
;W[hm]
;B[ij]
;W[ik]
;B[ii]
;W[jk]
;B[hh]
;W[fj]
;B[jh]
;W[jg]
;B[kh]
;W[lf]
;B[kj]
;W[gj]
;B[fh]
;W[hj]
;B[hi]
;W[gn]
;B[jj]
;W[jq]
;B[kk]
;W[km]
;B[bl]
;W[bk]
;B[bm]
)
(;GM[1]FF[4]SZ[19]ST[2]AP[GOWrite:2.3.46]CA[ISO8859-1]US[GoGoD95]HA[4]OH[4]AB[dd][dp][pp][pd]RE[W+1 (No further moves known)]WR[6d]PB[Soya Seijuro]BR[Ungraded]FG[259:]GN[ ]DT[1851-08-22 (Kaei 4-VII-26)]PW[Honinbo Shusaku]PC[Kitanoya, Matsushiro]PM[0]
;W[qf]
;B[mc]
;W[qm]
;B[qo]
;W[np]
;B[pm]
;W[pl]
;B[om]
;W[ql]
;B[oo]
;W[jq]
;B[gq]
;W[fc]
;B[cg]
;W[kc]
;B[qd]
;C[*** Everything has been normal so far. This play looks a little thin, but it has aims on the Black corner.]W[of]
;B[dc]
;W[re]
;B[rd]
;W[oc]
;B[od]
;W[nc]
;B[nd]
;W[mb]
;B[md]
;W[ob]
;B[pb]
;W[pc]
;B[qb]
;C[*** White extends his framework while attacking.]W[mf]
;B[kd]
;W[jd]
;B[lf]
;W[lg]
;B[kf]
;W[lc]
;B[ld]
;C[*** White extends his framework, while attacking. The attack may not be so obvious.]W[ol]
;C[*** Black invades while he can.]B[hc]
;W[ic]
;B[gc]
;W[je]
;B[fd]
;W[pn]
;B[on]
;W[qn]
;B[op]
;W[qq]
;B[nq]
;W[qp]
;B[lq]
;W[jo]
;C[*** Black attacks.]B[jf]
;C[*** White cannot afford to play defensively.
End of comments.]W[mn]
;B[mp]
;W[er]
;B[fq]
;W[cq]
;B[cp]
;W[bp]
;B[dq]
;W[bq]
;B[dr]
;W[cn]
;B[cl]
;W[if]
;B[ig]
;W[hg]
;B[hf]
;W[ie]
;B[jh]
;W[gd]
;B[gf]
;W[fe]
;B[ed]
;W[hd]
;B[fb]
;W[dg]
;B[hh]
;W[cf]
;B[ch]
;W[ef]
;B[fg]
;W[dh]
;B[di]
;W[ge]
;B[cm]
;W[co]
;B[en]
;W[cr]
;B[kn]
;W[jn]
;B[km]
;W[jm]
;B[kl]
;W[gn]
;B[dn]
;W[gl]
;B[ip]
;W[jp]
;B[hm]
;W[hn]
;B[gm]
;W[fm]
;B[hl]
;W[fn]
;B[fl]
;W[dm]
;B[em]
;W[el]
;B[gk]
;W[do]
;B[eo]
;W[ep]
;B[fo]
;W[fp]
;B[go]
;W[gp]
;B[ho]
;W[hp]
;B[in]
;W[eq]
;B[nh]
;W[oh]
;B[oi]
;W[ni]
;B[nj]
;W[mi]
;B[ph]
;W[og]
;B[oj]
;W[mj]
;B[nk]
;W[nl]
;B[mk]
;W[rh]
)
Note that all three game started out with fairly normal play. This continued the longest in the Shusaku game. Note also that none of the White players played defensively. IMO, that is the most important lesson for White in a handicap game. You may not start off playing thinly, but you have to accept thinness and hope that Black cannot capitalize on it. (A good bet, IMX.

) Note also how both Jowa and Shusaku built frameworks. That is a pattern that I have seen in pro play when giving handicaps, from Dosaku to Yoda Norimoto, but I do not see so often when amateurs give handicaps. It can be surprisingly effective in turning thinness into territory.
