On the newest game:

is asking for trouble. The two stones are weak, but both the stone you just played and your O3 stones are also weak.
What do you do after

@ N5? (I don't think I know the right answer -- it's just something you might want to look at.)
From

to

, K5 was the biggest move on the board. White left too many cuts behind. (Black can also consider L6, but I think that's worse.)
I think both

and

should be P11. Did you have an answer for that if your opponent played it for

?
If you want to live in the top left S15 for

102 seems necessary. (I'm not completely sure that it lives but I think it does.) As the game went,

107 @ S14 kills (as far as I can see), and after that you're behind by a lot considering that K17 etc. aren't alive yet.
Generally I feel neither of you paid enough attention to the weak white groups that appeared through the game.
Finally, one specific variation starting with

, to explain why I said K5 was bigger than playing in the top left:
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In this diagram, I'd much rather be black. In the game, I'd much rather be white, but that's your opponent's fault. (My
might be better than the game move -- lighter -- but I can't give a variation to say why I prefer it. Black can play

after white a, too.)