Yep I meant M13. In the game black first cemented your area by useless exchanges (PlaySlow wrote:If all white groups i'd play at E15, if you mean right side groups i'd play at M13.
,
,
(and would appreciate corrections if I missed anything!). Note that this also latently threats the L16 stones. Of course N10 at
is not the only possible answer, and I have not analyzed all possible variations. Therefore it is not necessary for b to do that right away, he should continue elsewhere (thereby paying attention not to strengthen the area under question!) and wait for a good moment for exploiting that aji. Go to move 49:
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]TM[1500]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
PW[wretched]PB[haruto123]WR[9k]BR[9k]DT[2016-01-16]PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]C[wretched [9k\]: Gl hf
haruto123 [9k\]: よろしく
]RE[B+Resign]
;B[pc]BL[1479.187]
;W[dp]WL[1366.584]C[Should have played at Q4 or R4 here imo.]
;B[pp]BL[1474.638]
;W[dc]WL[1362.677]
;B[qi]BL[1461.927]
;W[md]WL[1357.909]
;B[cj]BL[1446.944]LB[jd:D][ce:A][de:B][jp:C]C[what should i do here if he tenukis?]
;W[ce]WL[1342.921]
;B[cn]BL[1428.082]
;W[fq]WL[1337.846]
;B[gc]BL[1419.638]
;W[ic]WL[1274.45]
;B[kc]BL[1407.984]
;W[ie]WL[1237.37]
;B[id]BL[1391.689]C[Did i play the sequence right here? I wanted to take ponnuki and let him connect.]
;W[hd]WL[1232.358]
;B[ib]BL[1389.179]
;W[jd]WL[1208.58]
;B[jb]BL[1384.649]
;W[kd]WL[1175.498]
;B[lc]BL[1370.741]
;W[ld]WL[1168.985]
;B[mc]BL[1368.606]
;W[od]WL[1140.849]
;B[oc]BL[1355.011]
;W[nd]WL[1139.188]
;B[pd]BL[1351.863]
;W[ph]WL[1125.046]
;B[pe]BL[1343.54]
;W[of]WL[1120.773]
;B[pf]BL[1341.394]
;W[og]WL[1118.262]
;B[oe]BL[1339.588]LB[ne:A][mf:B]C[.Should have gone A, my bad.]
;W[mf]WL[1112.368]
;B[qh]BL[1337.424]LB[ej:B][cl:A][np:C][nq:D]C[I was confused there but wanted to attack black group and start to use my thickness.]
;W[ej]WL[1074.713]
;B[dj]BL[1330.158]C[How would u answer this move? I am a bit confused.]
;W[eh]WL[1066.525]
;B[eb]BL[1328.201]
;W[oj]WL[1035.238]
;B[ne]BL[1319.888]
;W[me]WL[1028.824]
;B[nf]BL[1318.143]
;W[ng]WL[1027.546]
;B[mg]BL[1315.755]
;W[jj]WL[1019.7]
;B[fe]BL[1314.113]
;W[ef]WL[976.193]
(;B[gf]BL[1300.837]
;W[hg]WL[958.935]
;B[df]BL[1288.919]C[How to answer this fighting move? I feel lost at those sequences.]
;W[dg]WL[929.427]
;B[cf]BL[1275.866]
;W[de]WL[923.166]
;B[bf]BL[1251.798]
;W[be]WL[916.173]
;B[bh]BL[1243.252]LB[db:F][gg:C][ek:B][el:A][bp:D][cp:E]C[What would u choose?]
;W[ek]WL[851.192]
;B[cl]BL[1226.206]
;W[em]WL[843.559]
;B[gg]BL[1220.091]
;W[hh]WL[837.429]
;B[hf]BL[1215.708]
;W[if]WL[831.45]
;B[gh]BL[1211.037]
;W[hi]WL[739.235]
;B[mh]BL[1204.158]
;W[mj]WL[732.499]
;B[gi]BL[1201.3]
;W[gj]WL[730.796]
;B[ei]BL[1198.938]
;W[fi]WL[724.301]
;B[di]BL[1197.37]
;W[fh]WL[722.427]
;B[ee]BL[1195.216]
;W[db]WL[720.108]
;B[ec]BL[1192.233]
;W[np]WL[599.744]
;B[on]BL[1176.078]
;W[mn]WL[594.787]
;B[pi]BL[1170.386]
;W[oi]WL[592.02]
;B[lq]BL[1141.736]
;W[nr]WL[565.737]
;B[hq]BL[1130.228]
;W[jq]WL[563.577]
;B[jr]BL[1115.593]C[Here is where i do not like. I didnt like to take his stone.]
;W[kq]WL[527.004]
;B[kr]BL[1110.782]
;W[iq]WL[518.2]
;B[ir]BL[1108.162]
;W[lp]WL[517.528]C[But this is also very bad shape, right?]
;B[hp]BL[1102.137]
;W[jo]WL[515.531]
;B[en]BL[1098.285]
;W[fm]WL[507.599]
;B[fo]BL[1090.233]
;W[cp]WL[504.442]
;B[mq]BL[1081.413]
;W[mp]WL[500.226]
;B[nq]BL[1079.243]
;W[qq]WL[478.51]
;B[oq]BL[1075.263]
;W[qp]WL[472.289]
;B[qo]BL[1071.3]
;W[ro]WL[471.064]
;B[qn]BL[1068.396]
;W[pr]WL[469.44]
;B[or]BL[1063.53]
;W[rn]WL[463.213]
;B[rr]BL[1058.302]
;W[rq]WL[435.606]
;B[hn]BL[1052.745]
;W[jm]WL[412.153]
;B[hj]BL[1048.32]
;W[hk]WL[410.29]
;B[gk]BL[1042.918]
;W[ij]WL[407.515]
;B[gl]BL[1038.452]
;W[hm]WL[392.193]
;B[gm]BL[1035.066]
;W[in]WL[387.361]
;B[ho]BL[1031.054]LB[nl:A][nm:C][qm:B]C[A or C better maybe]
;W[qm]WL[350.201]
;B[pm]BL[1026.645]
;W[ql]WL[348.687]
;B[nm]BL[1022.054]
;W[ol]WL[343.88]
;B[ml]BL[1016.573]
;W[nk]WL[330.607]
;B[hl]BL[1005.925]
;W[il]WL[329.107]
;B[im]BL[1002.779]
;W[jl]WL[319.617]
;B[pq]BL[982.407]
;W[qr]WL[315.784]
;B[lk]BL[970.615]
;W[lj]WL[310.182]
;B[ni]BL[966.2]
;W[pg]WL[270.326]
;B[qg]BL[959.801]
;W[oh]WL[252.839]
;B[pk]BL[953.967]
;W[pl]WL[249.504]
;B[qk]BL[950.029]
;W[po]WL[212.969]
;B[oo]BL[946.97]
;W[pn]WL[211.637]
;B[op]BL[943.787]
;W[ea]WL[194.709]
;B[bc]BL[892.41]
;W[bb]WL[168.413]
;B[cc]BL[883.449]
;W[cb]WL[148.254]
;B[da]BL[871.205]
;W[ca]WL[112.397]
;B[ae]BL[849.855]
;W[ad]WL[95.471]
;B[dd]BL[838.132]
;W[af]WL[79.876]
;B[bg]BL[806.895]
;W[cd]WL[64.33]
;B[ed]BL[792.841]
;W[gb]WL[17.989]
;B[fa]BL[778.374]
;W[hb]WL[30]OW[5]
;B[hc]BL[754.591]
;W[gd]WL[30]OW[5]
;B[fc]BL[751.392]
;W[ac]WL[30]OW[4]
;B[ok]BL[721.251]
;W[nj]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[kk]BL[707.181]
;W[kj]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[kn]BL[703.119]
;W[ko]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[lm]BL[674.528]
;W[ln]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[km]BL[643.341]
;W[nn]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[om]BL[634.934]
;W[jn]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[dr]BL[599.013]LB[cr:A]C[After that i botched up.Should have gone A imo.]
;W[er]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[dq]BL[592.945]
;W[eq]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[bq]BL[588.117]
;W[bp]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[cq]BL[580.826]
;W[bs]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[ap]BL[573.813]
;W[ao]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[aq]BL[572.714]
;W[bn]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[ep]BL[568.27]
;W[ds]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[bo]BL[563.569]
;W[co]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[do]BL[562.529]
;W[gr]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[hr]BL[558.048]
;W[fs]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[lr]BL[485.048]
;W[br]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[ar]BL[453.234]
;W[cm]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[bo]BL[442.634]
;W[dn]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[dm]BL[440.498]
;W[dl]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[bm]BL[438.317]
;W[ck]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[bk]BL[434.725]C[wretched [9k\]: ggs mate
])
(;B[mh]
;W[mj]
;B[oi]
;W[pi]
;B[oh]C[looks like terrible shape but seems to work(?)]
(;W[pg]
;B[pj]
(;W[nh]
;B[ni]
;W[qg]
;B[rg]C[ladder])
(;W[qg]
;B[rg]
;W[qj]
;B[pk]
;W[rh]
;B[ri]
;W[rf]
;B[sh]
(;W[qf]
;B[nh]
;W[rd]
;B[rc]C[seems bad for w])
(;W[nh]
;B[ni]
;W[qf]
;B[mi]
;W[rd]
;B[rc]C[similar result]))
(;W[qj]
;B[pk]
;W[qg]
;B[rg]
;W[qf]
;B[rf]C[loose ladder]))
(;W[nh]
;B[ni]
;W[pg]
;B[pj]
;W[qg]
;B[rg]C[ladder])))
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]TM[1500]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
PW[wretched]PB[haruto123]WR[9k]BR[9k]DT[2016-01-16]PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]C[wretched [9k\]: Gl hf
haruto123 [9k\]: よろしく
]RE[B+Resign]
;B[pc]BL[1479.187]
;W[dp]WL[1366.584]C[Should have played at Q4 or R4 here imo.]
;B[pp]BL[1474.638]
;W[dc]WL[1362.677]
;B[qi]BL[1461.927]
;W[md]WL[1357.909]
;B[cj]BL[1446.944]LB[jd:D][ce:A][de:B][jp:C]C[what should i do here if he tenukis?]
;W[ce]WL[1342.921]
;B[cn]BL[1428.082]
;W[fq]WL[1337.846]
;B[gc]BL[1419.638]
;W[ic]WL[1274.45]
;B[kc]BL[1407.984]
;W[ie]WL[1237.37]
;B[id]BL[1391.689]C[Did i play the sequence right here? I wanted to take ponnuki and let him connect.]
;W[hd]WL[1232.358]
;B[ib]BL[1389.179]
;W[jd]WL[1208.58]
;B[jb]BL[1384.649]
;W[kd]WL[1175.498]
;B[lc]BL[1370.741]
;W[ld]WL[1168.985]
;B[mc]BL[1368.606]
;W[od]WL[1140.849]
;B[oc]BL[1355.011]
;W[nd]WL[1139.188]
;B[pd]BL[1351.863]
;W[ph]WL[1125.046]
;B[pe]BL[1343.54]
;W[of]WL[1120.773]
;B[pf]BL[1341.394]
;W[og]WL[1118.262]
;B[oe]BL[1339.588]LB[ne:A][mf:B]C[.Should have gone A, my bad.]
;W[mf]WL[1112.368]
;B[qh]BL[1337.424]LB[ej:B][cl:A][np:C][nq:D]C[I was confused there but wanted to attack black group and start to use my thickness.]
;W[ej]WL[1074.713]
;B[dj]BL[1330.158]C[How would u answer this move? I am a bit confused.]
;W[eh]WL[1066.525]
;B[eb]BL[1328.201]
;W[oj]WL[1035.238]
;B[ne]BL[1319.888]
;W[me]WL[1028.824]
;B[nf]BL[1318.143]
;W[ng]WL[1027.546]
;B[mg]BL[1315.755]
;W[jj]WL[1019.7]
;B[fe]BL[1314.113]
;W[ef]WL[976.193]
(;B[gf]BL[1300.837]
;W[hg]WL[958.935]
;B[df]BL[1288.919]C[How to answer this fighting move? I feel lost at those sequences.]
;W[dg]WL[929.427]
;B[cf]BL[1275.866]
;W[de]WL[923.166]
;B[bf]BL[1251.798]
;W[be]WL[916.173]
;B[bh]BL[1243.252]LB[db:F][gg:C][ek:B][el:A][bp:D][cp:E]C[What would u choose?]
;W[ek]WL[851.192]
;B[cl]BL[1226.206]
;W[em]WL[843.559]
;B[gg]BL[1220.091]
;W[hh]WL[837.429]
;B[hf]BL[1215.708]
;W[if]WL[831.45]
;B[gh]BL[1211.037]
;W[hi]WL[739.235]
;B[mh]BL[1204.158]
;W[mj]WL[732.499]
;B[gi]BL[1201.3]
;W[gj]WL[730.796]
;B[ei]BL[1198.938]
;W[fi]WL[724.301]
;B[di]BL[1197.37]
;W[fh]WL[722.427]
;B[ee]BL[1195.216]
;W[db]WL[720.108]
;B[ec]BL[1192.233]
;W[np]WL[599.744]
;B[on]BL[1176.078]
;W[mn]WL[594.787]
;B[pi]BL[1170.386]
;W[oi]WL[592.02]
;B[lq]BL[1141.736]
;W[nr]WL[565.737]
;B[hq]BL[1130.228]
;W[jq]WL[563.577]
;B[jr]BL[1115.593]C[Here is where i do not like. I didnt like to take his stone.]
;W[kq]WL[527.004]
;B[kr]BL[1110.782]
;W[iq]WL[518.2]
;B[ir]BL[1108.162]
;W[lp]WL[517.528]C[But this is also very bad shape, right?]
;B[hp]BL[1102.137]
;W[jo]WL[515.531]
;B[en]BL[1098.285]
;W[fm]WL[507.599]
;B[fo]BL[1090.233]
;W[cp]WL[504.442]
;B[mq]BL[1081.413]
;W[mp]WL[500.226]
;B[nq]BL[1079.243]
;W[qq]WL[478.51]
;B[oq]BL[1075.263]
;W[qp]WL[472.289]
;B[qo]BL[1071.3]
;W[ro]WL[471.064]
;B[qn]BL[1068.396]
;W[pr]WL[469.44]
;B[or]BL[1063.53]
;W[rn]WL[463.213]
;B[rr]BL[1058.302]
;W[rq]WL[435.606]
;B[hn]BL[1052.745]
;W[jm]WL[412.153]
;B[hj]BL[1048.32]
;W[hk]WL[410.29]
;B[gk]BL[1042.918]
;W[ij]WL[407.515]
;B[gl]BL[1038.452]
;W[hm]WL[392.193]
;B[gm]BL[1035.066]
;W[in]WL[387.361]
;B[ho]BL[1031.054]LB[nl:A][nm:C][qm:B]C[A or C better maybe]
;W[qm]WL[350.201]
;B[pm]BL[1026.645]
;W[ql]WL[348.687]
;B[nm]BL[1022.054]
;W[ol]WL[343.88]
;B[ml]BL[1016.573]
;W[nk]WL[330.607]
;B[hl]BL[1005.925]
;W[il]WL[329.107]
;B[im]BL[1002.779]
;W[jl]WL[319.617]
;B[pq]BL[982.407]
;W[qr]WL[315.784]
;B[lk]BL[970.615]
;W[lj]WL[310.182]
;B[ni]BL[966.2]
;W[pg]WL[270.326]
;B[qg]BL[959.801]
;W[oh]WL[252.839]
;B[pk]BL[953.967]
;W[pl]WL[249.504]
;B[qk]BL[950.029]
;W[po]WL[212.969]
;B[oo]BL[946.97]
;W[pn]WL[211.637]
;B[op]BL[943.787]
;W[ea]WL[194.709]
;B[bc]BL[892.41]
;W[bb]WL[168.413]
;B[cc]BL[883.449]
;W[cb]WL[148.254]
;B[da]BL[871.205]
;W[ca]WL[112.397]
;B[ae]BL[849.855]
;W[ad]WL[95.471]
;B[dd]BL[838.132]
;W[af]WL[79.876]
;B[bg]BL[806.895]
;W[cd]WL[64.33]
;B[ed]BL[792.841]
;W[gb]WL[17.989]
;B[fa]BL[778.374]
;W[hb]WL[30]OW[5]
;B[hc]BL[754.591]
;W[gd]WL[30]OW[5]
;B[fc]BL[751.392]
;W[ac]WL[30]OW[4]
;B[ok]BL[721.251]
;W[nj]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[kk]BL[707.181]
;W[kj]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[kn]BL[703.119]
;W[ko]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[lm]BL[674.528]
;W[ln]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[km]BL[643.341]
;W[nn]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[om]BL[634.934]
;W[jn]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[dr]BL[599.013]LB[cr:A]C[After that i botched up.Should have gone A imo.]
;W[er]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[dq]BL[592.945]
;W[eq]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[bq]BL[588.117]
;W[bp]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[cq]BL[580.826]
;W[bs]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[ap]BL[573.813]
;W[ao]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[aq]BL[572.714]
;W[bn]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[ep]BL[568.27]
;W[ds]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[bo]BL[563.569]
;W[co]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[do]BL[562.529]
;W[gr]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[hr]BL[558.048]
;W[fs]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[lr]BL[485.048]
;W[br]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[ar]BL[453.234]
;W[cm]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[bo]BL[442.634]
;W[dn]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[dm]BL[440.498]
;W[dl]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[bm]BL[438.317]
;W[ck]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[bk]BL[434.725]C[wretched [9k\]: ggs mate
])
(;B[mh]
;W[mj]
;B[oi]
;W[pi]
;B[oh]C[looks like terrible shape but seems to work(?)]
(;W[pg]
;B[pj]
(;W[nh]
;B[ni]
;W[qg]
;B[rg]C[ladder])
(;W[qg]
;B[rg]
;W[qj]
;B[pk]
;W[rh]
;B[ri]
;W[rf]
;B[sh]
(;W[qf]
;B[nh]
;W[rd]
;B[rc]C[seems bad for w])
(;W[nh]
;B[ni]
;W[qf]
;B[mi]
;W[rd]
;B[rc]C[similar result]))
(;W[qj]
;B[pk]
;W[qg]
;B[rg]
;W[qf]
;B[rf]C[loose ladder]))
(;W[nh]
;B[ni]
;W[pg]
;B[pj]
;W[qg]
;B[rg]C[ladder])))
D4 is natural.
This is unbearable.
at D4 ( which you missed ), it's bad enough you have to reply at E5.
Bad habit.
Bad habit.
-- W has developed this bad habit for some time. ( Probably nobody told him about it. )
Which side is better ( more useful ) for B ? J7 or K6 ?
note -- W is not being greedy -- you allowed his
.
Locally, between A or B -- of course block directly at B.
,
You mentioned the proverb hane at the head,
Find the correct move and sequence. ( Your note at
is incorrect. )
there is a very simple way of keeping the N18 stones alive (Hint: count liberties!). With that move black's position would be rather on the winning side IMHO.