Hi dutchie,

Almost a pass.

W almost passed with

, so that's good for you.
( AlphaGo would have some good candidates here.

)
Tricky: if J13 is enough for B to win, that's one possibility...

Did you consider G16 hane first, before here ?

Did you read E16 first, before here ?

The hane exchange (

-

) may be OK, but did you consider M17 first, before

?

Strange.

Of course, sente is important -- which is why you shouldn't have connected on

--
you could've tenuki'd.
It's a good idea to get a rough assessment of the board, before

.
( My feeling is B is comfortably ahead. If the final score was only B+1.5, then something bad happened from here. )

Your idea here is OK, but your shape is thin. ( e.g. C13 is still big. )

If you played here yourself on

, you would also be nicely connected.

Did you read F12 ?

Did you read L10 atari ?

N14.

Did you read L9 ?

101 Did you read L9 ?