Kirby wrote:I have some experience with this topic, because my wife sometimes uses alternate names when introducing herself.
I think that the reason is simply to provide convenience to the person she is introducing herself to. She writes her name in English starting with "Hyu". There aren't a lot of English words that start with Hyu that I'm aware of, so sometimes it is easy for people to mispronounce her name. When we first met, in fact, she introduced herself with her made-up English name. I insisted on using her real name, and made an effort to learn how to pronounce her name well.
I don't think she ever thought that Westerners, for example, were too "lazy" to learn to pronounce her name (as seems to be suggested by some people). Rather, I think she just assumed that most Westerners did not know much about Korea or how to pronounce Korean names. As such, providing an alternate name makes it easier for the Westerner - and they don't mispronounce her name.
I think of this in a similar way to when, even if I'm in Asia, people will typically try to speak to me in English. It's because they assume that I will have a hard time speaking in their language, simply because of past experiences with Western folks living in Asia. I don't think that this, in itself, holds any feeling that I'm lazy. Some people may have that thought, but I think it's separate from the courtesy of trying to make someone feel more comfortable (which is what is happening when somebody provides an alternate name for you to use).
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Side note: Another thought that just came to me is that, in America, if my wife uses her Korean name for a job that requires English speaking ability, it is a default assumption that her English ability is poor, and her application will typically be thrown out. She has had much more success in using an English name when applying to jobs that require English ability. That's because people typically assume that someone with a non-English sounding name must not be good at English speaking stuff.
I don't have anything against people using alternate names for convenience if it is their choice. What I do have a problem with is when a society almost forces someone to use an alternate name to avoid discrimination when they may really prefer to use their real name. Rejecting a job application on the basis of someone's name is absolutely ridiculous.