John Fairbairn wrote:One big plus point for Robert, in my book, for which I forgive a lot, is that he doesn't hide behind a pseudonym.
The above quote from John came from another thread - http://lifein19x19.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=47790#p47790 - and I thought it was important enough to comment on. I disagree with John's position against using pseudonyms and offer the following select reasons why some folks find it necessary to use them.
As we all know, a person's online presence/profile is something not to be taken lightly. Many have made the argument that if you have nothing to hide you also have nothing to worry about, i.e., if you behave like a responsible adult on the internet, you should have no worries whatsoever in making your 'true" identity known online. That, of course, is patently false.
1) In my case, my family (immediate and extended) has been dealing with an individual who is harassing and stalking family members, both online and offline, and using the internet as his point of departure. The internet, and Facebook in particular, is a stalker's paradise. As a result, we've been working very hard getting family members' online presence removed. It's unpleasant and expensive.
2) It is now regular practice among employers to find out as much online information about a potential candidate as they can, all as part of their hiring process. In some sectors it's not even necessary to find anything salacious about a candidate to pass them over. The fact that a candidate may have an active, personal online presence is more than enough to put them at the bottom of the list. Companies don't want employees who may become a liability down the road.
3) Online profiling is one of the dirty little secrets among hiring committees in the academy. They want to know if candidates A, B, and C share their political views, are outspoken on certain issues, or have any online skeletons in their closets. Such explicit searches are illegal of course but they're done nonetheless by individual committee members and sometimes as a committee effort (hush, hush). I've witnessed this firsthand and it's disgusting. In the academy, hiring new assistant professors often involves political jostling between warring faculty members.
4) Finally, some people have been fired, sacked, denied promotion, etc., for their online presence. Yes, the vast majority of those incidents were likely due to pure stupidity of the employees, but that's not always the case. By stupid, I mean allowing such content to find its way onto the internet and obviously you don't always have that control – I think Facebook is the worst idea of all time.
In short, unless you have no prospects of ever being stalked (I never thought so – surprise!) or have little to no worries regarding your employment and/or chosen career path, it's foolish for you to use your real name within such casual online contexts like L19 or any other online forum. Your professional online profile is obviously different. Online profiles are something everyone should actively manage, making sure only appropriate content - stuff that you want seen - is accessible. The alternative is not participating in any kind of online social interaction. Using a pseudonym gives me the freedom to participate.