
I would have taken the last corner. Your upper-left 4-4 is well placed to prevent him from doing much with his loose approach.

Your opponent has approached from the narrower side, this makes me want to play the extension at r13 instead of counterattacking.

W can wedge at M16 here to ruin your shape, so I don't like the hane here. The extension to K16 looks solid, especially since it isolates F16 nicely.

Consider K16 instead. W cannot cut and you have a stronger response to the inevitable hane at k18. W will live but small and gote, ceding B lots of early thickness and the open corner. If I started off a game as W like this I would probably want to resign right here.

Perhaps J17 here, because the open connection gives up an easy peep at h17.

Doesn't look necessary?

absolutely the right direction.

something around Q9 would be better, as your very large wall lacks an extension.

Joseki is the atari at p6. W connects at Q5, then you get to connect at R7 or P7. I would probably connect R7 there to precipitate an attack on R10.

very slow, this threatens nothing and your group was already healthy.

I think C5 would have been better here, with D10 and C16 on the board and F16 floating. You can lean on J3 afterwards to build massive central influence.

f3 is a big local move you should play before moving on.

I would extend rather than hane.

E16 looks better.
Keep in mind, I am frequently wrong.