A bit redundant; I post slowly.
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]TM[1800]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
PW[jtscarry]PB[Gabalon]WR[4k]DT[2011-09-01]PC[The KGS Go Server at
http://www.gokgs.com/]C[jtscarry [4k]: good luck, have fun
jtscarry [4k]: ASR League
Gabalon [-]: have a nice game
]RE[B+8.50]
;B[qd]BL[1785.6]
;W[dc]WL[1753.727]
;B[pq]BL[1779.006]
;W[dq]WL[1749.134]
;B[oc]BL[1768.758]
;W[qo]WL[1729.662]
;B[ql]BL[1761.229]
(;W[jp]WL[1695.721]
;B[po]BL[1733.607]
(;W[np]WL[1682.992]
;B[qn]BL[1685.215]
;W[cn]WL[1677.402]TR[mp][np]
;B[de]BL[1673.825]C[jtscarry [4k]: hullo cs

]
(;W[fc]WL[1617.619]C[Loons: Wouldn't a pincer have been super-natural here?]
;B[cc]BL[1665.727]
;W[cd]WL[1614.292]C[Loons: I don't know this one.]
;B[dd]BL[1661.156]
;W[bc]WL[1612.695]C[CSamurai [4k]: Alo
]
(;B[cb]BL[1632.887]
;W[ed]WL[1581.213]
;B[bd]BL[1614.469]
;W[ce]WL[1574.649]
;B[be]BL[1612.472]
;W[cf]WL[1562.493]
;B[df]BL[1605.483]
;W[cg]WL[1526.18]
;B[dg]BL[1601.827]
(;W[bb]WL[1507.526]
(;B[ch]BL[1580.185]C[Loons: (CSamurai was right)]
;W[db]WL[1501.626]
;B[bg]BL[1576.324]
;W[ca]WL[1498.766]
;B[cc]BL[1573.063]
;W[cb]WL[1496.683]
;B[bf]BL[1571.473]
;W[cc]WL[1492.687]
;B[di]BL[1558.155]C[CSamurai [4k]: So you should totally thank black for letting you off the hook there.
]
;W[jc]WL[1411.906]
;B[lc]BL[1476.043]
;W[ck]WL[1396.96]
;B[eo]BL[1399.73]
(;W[fq]WL[1377.229]
;B[co]BL[1394.682]
;W[bo]WL[1371.835]C[Loons: F3 seems like it was a big gain for black.]
;B[cp]BL[1390.244]
;W[ep]WL[1359.298]
;B[dn]BL[1386.795]C[CSamurai [4k]: This sequence feels pretty good for blac..
]
;W[cm]WL[1318.709]C[CSamurai [4k]: black even.
]
;B[go]BL[1377.006]
;W[bp]WL[1305.322]TR[bp][dq]SQ[cp][cq]
;B[cq]BL[1372.614]
;W[hp]WL[1271.139]
;B[el]BL[1354.388]
;W[bi]WL[1229.792]
;B[bj]BL[1334.637]
;W[cj]WL[1226.287]
;B[ci]BL[1329.532]
;W[bk]WL[1220.055]
;B[bh]BL[1327.017]
;W[ej]WL[1213.984]
;B[dj]BL[1318.119]
;W[dk]WL[1210.722]
;B[ek]BL[1315.533]
;W[fj]WL[1207.573]
;B[hl]BL[1297.953]
;W[dp]WL[1203.272]C[Loons: This is not preventing an eye and reduces your own liberties.]
;B[do]BL[1294.283]
;W[hj]WL[1183.783]
;B[lp]BL[1255.641]
;W[cr]WL[1141.02]C[Loons: I don't think black had an eye here anyway, and this will surely be gote]
;B[fp]BL[1241.88]
;W[gp]WL[1131.659]
;B[fo]BL[1237.873]
;W[dr]WL[1129.716]
;B[bq]BL[1233.368]
;W[aj]WL[1127.548]
;B[gh]BL[1218.335]
;W[jj]WL[1087.319]
;B[ih]BL[1195.801]
;W[jl]WL[1077.277]
;B[ik]BL[1178.145]C[Loons: A better way to use this weakness may be to just connect.
When in this kind of situation, I think you have to think of "sneaking up" on black (ie by moving out faster and thicker than him). If you let him know directly you think he has only one local eye, he's going to be extra careful.]
(;W[hk]WL[1073.509]
;B[il]BL[1174.727]
;W[gl]WL[1058.088]
;B[gm]BL[1171.676]
;W[fl]WL[1054.172]
;B[fm]BL[1167.576]
;W[em]WL[1051.248]
;B[dm]BL[1158.627]
;W[dl]WL[1049.798]
;B[en]BL[1155.259]
;W[fk]WL[1048.156]
;B[em]BL[1151.916]
;W[ij]WL[1042.172]
;B[jk]BL[1145.14]
;W[kk]WL[962.415]
;B[in]BL[1138.309]
;W[kl]WL[941.198]
;B[kn]BL[1128.363]
;W[im]WL[931.304]
;B[hm]BL[1125.456]
;W[jm]WL[921.283]
;B[jn]BL[1121.069]
;W[jh]WL[896.359]
;B[hf]BL[1113.863]
;W[ff]WL[885.334]
;B[fg]BL[1096.975]
;W[ef]WL[875.614]
;B[eg]BL[1092.517]
;W[ho]WL[868.288]
;B[hn]BL[1090.193]
;W[lh]WL[840.692]
;B[ph]BL[1076.955]
;W[lq]WL[786.717]
;B[mq]BL[1069.535]
;W[lo]WL[756.232]
;B[ln]BL[1052.106]
;W[kp]WL[751.245]
;B[mp]BL[1048.635]
;W[mo]WL[748.283]
;B[mm]BL[1022.779]
;W[mr]WL[744.109]
;B[gd]BL[998.896]
;W[fd]WL[725.54]
;B[hc]BL[994.863]
;W[nm]WL[682.573]
;B[nl]BL[987.067]
;W[ml]WL[668.719]
;B[nn]BL[961.431]
;W[mn]WL[660.596]
;B[lm]BL[957.201]
;W[om]WL[652.508]
;B[on]BL[953.664]
;W[ol]WL[637.507]
;B[nk]BL[950.575]
;W[mk]WL[632.381]
;B[ok]BL[947.325]
;W[rn]WL[591.225]
;B[rm]BL[933.43]
;W[rd]WL[565.984]
;B[qe]BL[912.236]
;W[qc]WL[562.451]
;B[pc]BL[898.546]
;W[qb]WL[560.725]
;B[re]BL[894.967]
;W[sc]WL[436.344]
;B[se]BL[889.894]
;W[pb]WL[425.654]
;B[ob]BL[886.39]
;W[ra]WL[408.607]
;B[jf]BL[874.53]
;W[lf]WL[396.202]
;B[kg]BL[866.574]
;W[kh]WL[380.199]
;B[lg]BL[860.47]
;W[gf]WL[372.743]
;B[hg]BL[851.621]
;W[jg]WL[343.28]
;B[mg]BL[840.85]
;W[kf]WL[340.451]
;B[je]BL[834.261]
;W[he]WL[335.766]
;B[id]BL[823.239]
;W[gg]WL[310.34]
;B[ge]BL[791.054]
;W[mb]WL[294.542]
;B[pa]BL[772.762]
;W[sb]WL[289.627]
;B[mc]BL[767.693]
;W[lb]WL[286.426]
;B[kc]BL[761.253]
;W[kb]WL[280.46]
;B[ib]BL[749.504]
;W[nh]WL[250.325]
;B[mh]BL[735.701]
;W[mi]WL[243.224]
;B[ng]BL[730.272]
;W[pi]WL[237.42]
;B[oh]BL[681.553]
;W[pk]WL[210.862]
;B[pl]BL[675.283]
;W[oi]WL[193.523]
;B[qi]BL[660.636]
;W[qh]WL[181.946]
;B[qj]BL[645.066]
;W[nj]WL[163.181]
;B[pm]BL[640.686]
;W[og]WL[156.232]
;B[pg]BL[625.615]
;W[of]WL[148.742]
;B[ni]BL[622.44]
;W[qp]WL[140.82]
;B[nh]BL[610.514]
;W[qq]WL[125.326]
;B[qr]BL[605.454]
;W[pp]WL[122.99]
;B[op]BL[602.381]
;W[oq]WL[119.255]
;B[no]BL[589.913]
;W[nq]WL[110.169]
;B[ro]BL[587.334]
;W[pr]WL[107.316]
;B[rp]BL[582.992]
;W[rq]WL[105.314]
;B[ap]BL[576.146]
;W[bn]WL[99.201]
;B[oj]BL[572.17]
;W[ig]WL[82.303]
;B[if]BL[566.969]
;W[ii]WL[77.999]
;B[hh]BL[560.704]
;W[mj]WL[3.332]
;B[gb]BL[543.519]
;W[fb]WL[30]OW[5]
;B[bs]BL[537.059]
;W[br]WL[30]OW[5]
;B[ar]BL[533.319]
;W[cs]WL[30]OW[5]
;B[aq]BL[531.312]
;W[sp]WL[30]OW[5]
;B[sn]BL[528.779]
;W[ga]WL[30]OW[2]
;B[ha]BL[524.118]
;W[fa]WL[30]OW[2]
;B[fi]BL[521.86]
;W[ei]WL[30]OW[2]
;B[eh]BL[493.044]
;W[gi]WL[30]OW[2]
;B[fh]BL[490.115]
;W[gc]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[hb]BL[484.301]
;W[hi]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[ao]BL[472.612]
;W[an]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[ah]BL[469.21]
;W[ai]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[ll]BL[454.216]
;W[lk]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[io]BL[450.806]
;W[ip]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[oo]BL[440.434]
;W[ad]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[ae]BL[437.596]
;W[ac]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[sd]BL[429.527]
;W[rc]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[so]BL[417.144]
;W[sq]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[as]BL[394.848]
;W[qa]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[oa]BL[388.027]
;W[fe]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[hd]BL[384.391]
;W[]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[]BL[384.39]TW[aa][ba][da][ea][sa][ab][eb][rb][ec][ji][ki][li][bj][gj][kj][lj][ak][gk][al][bl][cl][am][bm][lp][mp][eq][gq][hq][iq][jq][kq][mq][pq][er][fr][gr][hr][ir][jr][kr][lr][nr][or][qr][rr][sr][ds][es][fs][gs][hs][is][js][ks][ls][ms][ns][os][ps][qs][rs][ss]TB[ia][ja][ka][la][ma][na][jb][kb][lb][mb][nb][ic][jc][nc][jd][kd][ld][md][nd][od][pd][ke][le][me][ne][oe][pe][af][kf][lf][mf][nf][of][pf][qf][rf][sf][ag][og][qg][rg][sg][dh][qh][rh][sh][oi][pi][ri][si][pj][rj][sj][pk][qk][rk][sk][ol][rl][sl][nm][om][qm][sm][fn][gn][pn][rn]C[Loons: It seems to me after your top left and then shimari joseki choices, you were doomed to a very hard midgame. It was good that you picked fights, that is correct when you are behind.])
(;W[ij]
;B[jk]
;W[kk]))
(;W[do]C[Loons: Maybe this kind of move is unavoidable. Oh, large knight's shimari..]))
(;B[db]
(;W[ec]
;B[ch])
(;W[eb])))
(;W[ch]C[Loons: I actually think you're pretty happy like this.]
(;B[db]
;W[ec]
;B[bb]C[Loons: Seems black must live in gote; C6 will help with C12 and you can give your attention to E17, which has a pretty open side to work with.])
(;B[]
;W[bb]
;B[db]
;W[ec]
;B[ba]
;W[ab]
;B[ac]
;W[ad]
;B[ae])))
(;B[ec]C[Loons: My first thought for black is to try this.]
;W[cb]
;B[db]
;W[cc]
;B[ed]
;W[eb]
;B[fb]
;W[da]
;B[gc]))
(;W[di])
(;W[dg]))
(;W[pp]C[Loons: You of course have the ladder.]
;B[op]
;W[qp]
;B[pn]
;W[qq]
;B[or]
;W[qr])
(;W[mp]C[Loons: Two space is stronger, which is better than longer in the face of the thick corner you're giving black for sente.]))
(;W[mp]C[Loons: You can also think about moves like this for the result you're going for.]))
Edit: May also want to think about playing your N4/M4 stone low.