When I closed my corner at 29 I was sure that I was ahead, so I must have made some mistakes after that (or with 29).
Was there a better way to answer the monkey jump at move 156?
I somehow feel like move 2 lost me the game, normaly I don't play 3-3 but I just wanted to try something new.
Anything you can tell me about shapes, joseki, fuseki, direction of play and everything else would be appreciated.
(;GM[1]FF[4]SZ[19]AP[]CA[UTF-8]
GN[]
PW[bobdesign]WR[4k]
PB[blade90]BR[5k]
DT[2011-12-25]
PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]
KM[0.5]
RE[W+0.50]
RU[Japanese]ST[2]
TM[1500.0]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
C[
];B[pd]BL[1495.2];W[pp]WL[1494.9];B[cq]BL[1489.8];W[dd]WL[1489.9];B[qn]
BL[1487.4];W[mq]WL[1482.5];B[pj]BL[1472.2];W[dp]WL[1478.8];B[dq]BL[1469.1]
;W[ep]WL[1476.0];B[bo]BL[1466.8];W[dm]WL[1473.7];B[fc]BL[1463.3];W[eq]WL[1469.5]
;B[cf]BL[1447.9];W[df]WL[1445.7];B[cc]BL[1442.5];W[dc]WL[1439.1];B[cd]BL[1440.9]
;W[ce]WL[1436.8];B[be]BL[1440.0];W[de]WL[1434.6];B[db]BL[1425.1];W[eb]WL[1425.4]
;B[cb]BL[1423.7];W[ec]WL[1423.1];B[mc]BL[1418.4];W[id]WL[1419.3];B[qd]BL[1414.0]
;W[bf]WL[1410.4];B[ad]BL[1405.9];W[cg]WL[1408.4];B[rp]BL[1392.4];W[qq]WL[1404.7]
;B[on]BL[1390.9];W[mo]WL[1401.2];B[op]BL[1388.8];W[oq]WL[1398.6];B[np]BL[1386.6]
;W[nq]WL[1391.5];B[po]BL[1384.6];W[mp]WL[1384.2];B[bm]BL[1362.5];W[cl]WL[1375.1]
;B[bl]BL[1352.8];W[ck]WL[1370.7];B[ig]BL[1290.4];W[kc]WL[1349.8];B[ld]BL[1286.4]
;W[oi]WL[1345.5];B[pi]BL[1284.0];W[oh]WL[1343.2];B[ph]BL[1281.9];W[og]WL[1341.0]
;B[gd]BL[1275.5];W[hf]WL[1335.0];B[if]BL[1272.7];W[he]WL[1329.1];B[ie]BL[1268.4]
;W[hd]WL[1324.6];B[ke]BL[1265.0];W[pg]WL[1319.7];B[oj]BL[1261.7];W[li]WL[1314.9]
;B[mj]BL[1257.9];W[kh]WL[1308.8];B[lk]BL[1250.6];W[ii]WL[1304.6];B[ni]BL[1245.6]
;W[nh]WL[1295.8];B[jj]BL[1240.2];W[ji]WL[1289.7];B[ln]BL[1237.1];W[nn]WL[1281.3]
;B[qp]BL[1225.6];W[pq]WL[1278.2];B[ml]BL[1218.9];W[nm]WL[1275.1];B[om]BL[1216.6]
;W[nl]WL[1273.2];B[nk]BL[1215.3];W[ol]WL[1271.0];B[pl]BL[1214.6];W[jp]WL[1259.5]
;B[io]BL[1209.6];W[hq]WL[1250.7];B[er]BL[1206.8];W[fr]WL[1248.4];B[dr]BL[1205.8]
;W[cp]WL[1245.0];B[bp]BL[1203.5];W[bk]WL[1242.7];B[gr]BL[1201.2];W[gq]WL[1239.1]
;B[fs]BL[1198.9];W[hr]WL[1236.6];B[fq]BL[1197.0];W[fp]WL[1234.3];B[ko]BL[1190.3]
;W[kp]WL[1227.7];B[ij]BL[1187.1];W[hi]WL[1221.0];B[hg]BL[1184.3];W[fg]WL[1209.6]
;B[jd]BL[1180.1];W[jc]WL[1205.6];B[gh]BL[1177.8];W[gg]WL[1201.6];B[hh]BL[1175.5]
;W[gj]WL[1199.5];B[me]BL[1164.6];W[rg]WL[1187.6];B[qf]BL[1158.4];W[qg]WL[1184.4]
;B[ri]BL[1157.2];W[hj]WL[1154.4];B[fi]BL[1153.7];W[fk]WL[1149.9];B[rq]BL[1150.7]
;W[rr]WL[1147.3];B[sr]BL[1148.0];W[rs]WL[1145.1];B[cn]BL[1146.2];W[dn]WL[1142.3]
;B[jl]BL[1143.4];W[jo]WL[1139.7];B[jn]BL[1141.7];W[in]WL[1137.4];B[im]BL[1140.4]
;W[hn]WL[1135.4];B[hm]BL[1139.6];W[gn]WL[1133.3];B[gm]BL[1138.3];W[fm]WL[1130.6]
;B[gf]BL[1132.9];W[ge]WL[1124.9];B[eg]BL[1131.3];W[ef]WL[1110.9];B[fh]BL[1128.2]
;W[ff]WL[1108.4];B[di]BL[1127.3];W[ci]WL[1103.6];B[dj]BL[1124.8];W[fl]WL[1100.5]
;B[cj]BL[1122.6];W[bj]WL[1093.9];B[ch]BL[1120.3];W[bi]WL[1091.8];B[dh]BL[1118.6]
;W[bh]WL[1087.3];B[ea]BL[1114.9];W[fb]WL[1082.7];B[bb]BL[1094.8];W[lb]WL[1078.2]
;B[mb]BL[1092.8];W[sd]WL[1072.3];B[se]BL[1088.9];W[re]WL[1070.0];B[sc]BL[1038.7]
;W[rd]WL[1063.4];B[rc]BL[1036.6];W[rf]WL[1060.3];B[la]BL[1031.1];W[ka]WL[1057.0]
;B[ma]BL[1029.9];W[oe]WL[1038.5];B[od]BL[1025.6];W[ne]WL[1027.7];B[nd]BL[1022.6]
;W[ok]WL[1013.9];B[pk]BL[1018.4];W[mi]WL[1011.4];B[nj]BL[1011.3];W[lo]WL[969.3]
;B[kn]BL[1008.5];W[hs]WL[966.6];B[oo]BL[1004.8];W[rh]WL[956.4];B[si]BL[999.3]
;W[kj]WL[938.3];B[lg]BL[997.0];W[mg]WL[933.3];B[lh]BL[990.1];W[mh]WL[926.0]
;B[kk]BL[988.0];W[ik]WL[921.6];B[jk]BL[985.9];W[hk]WL[919.6];B[pf]BL[963.5]
;W[lf]WL[910.4];B[kg]BL[961.5];W[kf]WL[907.7];B[jg]BL[959.7];W[mf]WL[905.7]
;B[lc]BL[956.0];W[kb]WL[901.8];B[kd]BL[954.9];W[ib]WL[896.8];B[of]BL[950.9]
;W[nf]WL[892.7];B[sh]BL[912.8];W[sg]WL[887.8];B[qh]BL[911.1];W[gs]WL[882.9]
;B[fr]BL[908.0];W[fa]WL[879.1];B[da]BL[905.9];W[af]WL[876.9];B[ae]BL[888.2]
;W[al]WL[856.6];B[am]BL[886.0];W[ak]WL[854.7];B[ek]BL[884.3];W[el]WL[850.7]
;B[fj]BL[881.8];W[mm]WL[844.9];B[lm]BL[879.0];W[cm]WL[841.1];B[co]BL[876.2]
;W[do]WL[837.9];B[jf]BL[802.2];W[dk]WL[824.2];B[ej]BL[799.9];W[dg]WL[822.1]
;B[eh]BL[798.4];W[il]WL[803.9];B[gl]BL[796.4];W[gk]WL[798.7];B[lj]BL[791.6]
;W[ki]WL[795.2];B[le]BL[790.1];W[no]WL[790.7];B[jm]BL[784.3];W[qr]WL[782.8]
;B[sq]BL[782.4];W[]WL[683.7];B[]BL[753.4]
TW[ga:gd][ha:hc][ia:ja][jb][fc:fe][ic][ed:ee][se:sf][cf][gf][ag:aj][bg][ng][dl][em:eo][fn:fo][go:ip][lp:ls][iq:ks][mr:ps][qs]
TB[aa:ac][ba:ca][na:sb][bc:bd][nc:qc][md][je][ei][qi:qm][rj:so][mk][kl:km][ll][pm:pn][an:as][bn][qo][sp][bq:bs][cr:cs][ds:es]
)
GN[]
PW[bobdesign]WR[4k]
PB[blade90]BR[5k]
DT[2011-12-25]
PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]
KM[0.5]
RE[W+0.50]
RU[Japanese]ST[2]
TM[1500.0]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
C[
];B[pd]BL[1495.2];W[pp]WL[1494.9];B[cq]BL[1489.8];W[dd]WL[1489.9];B[qn]
BL[1487.4];W[mq]WL[1482.5];B[pj]BL[1472.2];W[dp]WL[1478.8];B[dq]BL[1469.1]
;W[ep]WL[1476.0];B[bo]BL[1466.8];W[dm]WL[1473.7];B[fc]BL[1463.3];W[eq]WL[1469.5]
;B[cf]BL[1447.9];W[df]WL[1445.7];B[cc]BL[1442.5];W[dc]WL[1439.1];B[cd]BL[1440.9]
;W[ce]WL[1436.8];B[be]BL[1440.0];W[de]WL[1434.6];B[db]BL[1425.1];W[eb]WL[1425.4]
;B[cb]BL[1423.7];W[ec]WL[1423.1];B[mc]BL[1418.4];W[id]WL[1419.3];B[qd]BL[1414.0]
;W[bf]WL[1410.4];B[ad]BL[1405.9];W[cg]WL[1408.4];B[rp]BL[1392.4];W[qq]WL[1404.7]
;B[on]BL[1390.9];W[mo]WL[1401.2];B[op]BL[1388.8];W[oq]WL[1398.6];B[np]BL[1386.6]
;W[nq]WL[1391.5];B[po]BL[1384.6];W[mp]WL[1384.2];B[bm]BL[1362.5];W[cl]WL[1375.1]
;B[bl]BL[1352.8];W[ck]WL[1370.7];B[ig]BL[1290.4];W[kc]WL[1349.8];B[ld]BL[1286.4]
;W[oi]WL[1345.5];B[pi]BL[1284.0];W[oh]WL[1343.2];B[ph]BL[1281.9];W[og]WL[1341.0]
;B[gd]BL[1275.5];W[hf]WL[1335.0];B[if]BL[1272.7];W[he]WL[1329.1];B[ie]BL[1268.4]
;W[hd]WL[1324.6];B[ke]BL[1265.0];W[pg]WL[1319.7];B[oj]BL[1261.7];W[li]WL[1314.9]
;B[mj]BL[1257.9];W[kh]WL[1308.8];B[lk]BL[1250.6];W[ii]WL[1304.6];B[ni]BL[1245.6]
;W[nh]WL[1295.8];B[jj]BL[1240.2];W[ji]WL[1289.7];B[ln]BL[1237.1];W[nn]WL[1281.3]
;B[qp]BL[1225.6];W[pq]WL[1278.2];B[ml]BL[1218.9];W[nm]WL[1275.1];B[om]BL[1216.6]
;W[nl]WL[1273.2];B[nk]BL[1215.3];W[ol]WL[1271.0];B[pl]BL[1214.6];W[jp]WL[1259.5]
;B[io]BL[1209.6];W[hq]WL[1250.7];B[er]BL[1206.8];W[fr]WL[1248.4];B[dr]BL[1205.8]
;W[cp]WL[1245.0];B[bp]BL[1203.5];W[bk]WL[1242.7];B[gr]BL[1201.2];W[gq]WL[1239.1]
;B[fs]BL[1198.9];W[hr]WL[1236.6];B[fq]BL[1197.0];W[fp]WL[1234.3];B[ko]BL[1190.3]
;W[kp]WL[1227.7];B[ij]BL[1187.1];W[hi]WL[1221.0];B[hg]BL[1184.3];W[fg]WL[1209.6]
;B[jd]BL[1180.1];W[jc]WL[1205.6];B[gh]BL[1177.8];W[gg]WL[1201.6];B[hh]BL[1175.5]
;W[gj]WL[1199.5];B[me]BL[1164.6];W[rg]WL[1187.6];B[qf]BL[1158.4];W[qg]WL[1184.4]
;B[ri]BL[1157.2];W[hj]WL[1154.4];B[fi]BL[1153.7];W[fk]WL[1149.9];B[rq]BL[1150.7]
;W[rr]WL[1147.3];B[sr]BL[1148.0];W[rs]WL[1145.1];B[cn]BL[1146.2];W[dn]WL[1142.3]
;B[jl]BL[1143.4];W[jo]WL[1139.7];B[jn]BL[1141.7];W[in]WL[1137.4];B[im]BL[1140.4]
;W[hn]WL[1135.4];B[hm]BL[1139.6];W[gn]WL[1133.3];B[gm]BL[1138.3];W[fm]WL[1130.6]
;B[gf]BL[1132.9];W[ge]WL[1124.9];B[eg]BL[1131.3];W[ef]WL[1110.9];B[fh]BL[1128.2]
;W[ff]WL[1108.4];B[di]BL[1127.3];W[ci]WL[1103.6];B[dj]BL[1124.8];W[fl]WL[1100.5]
;B[cj]BL[1122.6];W[bj]WL[1093.9];B[ch]BL[1120.3];W[bi]WL[1091.8];B[dh]BL[1118.6]
;W[bh]WL[1087.3];B[ea]BL[1114.9];W[fb]WL[1082.7];B[bb]BL[1094.8];W[lb]WL[1078.2]
;B[mb]BL[1092.8];W[sd]WL[1072.3];B[se]BL[1088.9];W[re]WL[1070.0];B[sc]BL[1038.7]
;W[rd]WL[1063.4];B[rc]BL[1036.6];W[rf]WL[1060.3];B[la]BL[1031.1];W[ka]WL[1057.0]
;B[ma]BL[1029.9];W[oe]WL[1038.5];B[od]BL[1025.6];W[ne]WL[1027.7];B[nd]BL[1022.6]
;W[ok]WL[1013.9];B[pk]BL[1018.4];W[mi]WL[1011.4];B[nj]BL[1011.3];W[lo]WL[969.3]
;B[kn]BL[1008.5];W[hs]WL[966.6];B[oo]BL[1004.8];W[rh]WL[956.4];B[si]BL[999.3]
;W[kj]WL[938.3];B[lg]BL[997.0];W[mg]WL[933.3];B[lh]BL[990.1];W[mh]WL[926.0]
;B[kk]BL[988.0];W[ik]WL[921.6];B[jk]BL[985.9];W[hk]WL[919.6];B[pf]BL[963.5]
;W[lf]WL[910.4];B[kg]BL[961.5];W[kf]WL[907.7];B[jg]BL[959.7];W[mf]WL[905.7]
;B[lc]BL[956.0];W[kb]WL[901.8];B[kd]BL[954.9];W[ib]WL[896.8];B[of]BL[950.9]
;W[nf]WL[892.7];B[sh]BL[912.8];W[sg]WL[887.8];B[qh]BL[911.1];W[gs]WL[882.9]
;B[fr]BL[908.0];W[fa]WL[879.1];B[da]BL[905.9];W[af]WL[876.9];B[ae]BL[888.2]
;W[al]WL[856.6];B[am]BL[886.0];W[ak]WL[854.7];B[ek]BL[884.3];W[el]WL[850.7]
;B[fj]BL[881.8];W[mm]WL[844.9];B[lm]BL[879.0];W[cm]WL[841.1];B[co]BL[876.2]
;W[do]WL[837.9];B[jf]BL[802.2];W[dk]WL[824.2];B[ej]BL[799.9];W[dg]WL[822.1]
;B[eh]BL[798.4];W[il]WL[803.9];B[gl]BL[796.4];W[gk]WL[798.7];B[lj]BL[791.6]
;W[ki]WL[795.2];B[le]BL[790.1];W[no]WL[790.7];B[jm]BL[784.3];W[qr]WL[782.8]
;B[sq]BL[782.4];W[]WL[683.7];B[]BL[753.4]
TW[ga:gd][ha:hc][ia:ja][jb][fc:fe][ic][ed:ee][se:sf][cf][gf][ag:aj][bg][ng][dl][em:eo][fn:fo][go:ip][lp:ls][iq:ks][mr:ps][qs]
TB[aa:ac][ba:ca][na:sb][bc:bd][nc:qc][md][je][ei][qi:qm][rj:so][mk][kl:km][ll][pm:pn][an:as][bn][qo][sp][bq:bs][cr:cs][ds:es]
)
I'm not so sure about the negative opinions so far -- again, about this opening move.
as Shaddy said, D13 hane first. This is important. Basic shape, 100% local; nothing to do with the opening.