Recent kgs game!

[hoohoo]

Hi! My first game ever here so be gentle please

This is a recent game i played on kgs where i felt i missed some big points and that i was alittle slack in my play (as black). Would be nice if i could get some pointers where i strayed from the right track.

Thanks in advance and feel free to guess the strength of the players if you want

[Edit] I won on time just before the beginning of some boring yose but i was slightly behind then i think

(;CA[utf-8]FF[4]ST[2]RU[Japanese]OT[3x30 byo-yomi]AP[CGoban:3]SZ[19]GM[1]DT[2010-04-15]
PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]PB[Me]BR[30k]PW[White]WR[30k]KM[6.5]
TM[300]RE[B+Time]MULTIGOGM[1]
;B[pd]BL[297.661];W[po]WL[298.079];B[dc]BL[293.638];W[dp]WL[290.688];B[cn]BL[286.726]
;W[cl]WL[288.207];B[ce]BL[284.561];W[el]WL[284.649];B[jq]BL[251.824];W[hq]WL[274.835]
;B[mq]BL[248.628];W[oq]WL[269.067];B[jo]BL[246.285];W[dq]WL[251.807];B[jd]BL[234.094]
;W[qf]WL[249.537];B[nc]BL[227.657];W[pj]WL[245.927];B[ho]BL[215.486];W[gp]WL[229.065]
;B[qm]BL[213.525];W[qo]WL[222.772];B[rj]BL[211.155];W[qj]WL[211.162];B[rk]BL[203.645]
;W[ri]WL[208.8];B[om]BL[200.982];W[pl]WL[187];B[pm]BL[199.091];W[ql]WL[183.42];B[rn]
BL[196.508];W[ro]WL[180.978];B[rl]BL[194.814];W[dh]WL[154.331];B[qh]BL[183.468]
;W[ph]WL[129.82];B[pg]BL[149.744];W[qg]WL[109.974];B[rh]BL[140.724];W[oh]WL[83.032]
;B[rd]BL[108.453];W[rg]WL[70.772];B[qi]BL[100.209];W[pi]WL[67.447];B[si]BL[97.378]
;W[of]WL[65.318];B[ng]BL[92.178];W[og]WL[62.958];B[ne]BL[91.361];W[hd]WL[42.443]
;B[bh]BL[69.704];W[ch]WL[23.935];B[bg]BL[67.85];W[bi]WL[22.558];B[jf]BL[58.845]
;OW[3]W[ic]WL[30];B[jc]BL[56.466];OW[3]W[dd]WL[30];B[cd]BL[53.032];OW[3]W[ec]WL[30]
;B[cc]BL[31.339];OW[3]W[ed]WL[30];B[nk]BL[25.09];OW[3]W[re]WL[30];B[qc]BL[14.785]
;OW[3]W[nf]WL[30];B[mf]BL[13.016];OW[3]W[mg]WL[30];B[me]BL[4.998];OW[3]W[lg]WL[30]
;OB[3]B[or]BL[30];OW[3]W[pr]WL[30];OB[3]B[nr]BL[30];OW[3]W[pq]WL[30];OB[3]B[en]
BL[30];OW[3]W[fn]WL[30];OB[3]B[fm]BL[30];OW[3]W[em]WL[30];OB[3]B[fo]BL[30];OW[3]
W[dn]WL[30];OB[3]B[eo]BL[30];OW[3]W[do]WL[30];OB[3]B[gn]BL[30];OW[3]W[ib]WL[30]
;OB[3]B[jb]BL[30];OW[2]W[hg]WL[30];OB[3]B[gk]BL[30];OW[2]W[df]WL[30];OB[3]B[mi]
BL[30];OW[2]W[li]WL[30];OB[3]B[lj]BL[30];OW[2]W[ij]WL[30];OB[3]B[ki]BL[30];OW[2]
W[lh]WL[30];OB[3]B[mj]BL[30];OW[2]W[nh]WL[30];OB[3]B[hj]BL[30];OW[2]W[ii]WL[30]
;OB[3]B[ik]BL[30];OW[2]W[mp]WL[30];OB[2]B[np]BL[30];OW[2]W[nq]WL[30];OB[2]B[no]
BL[30];OW[1]W[jj]WL[30];OB[2]B[jk]BL[30];OW[1]W[ol]WL[30];OB[2]B[nl]BL[30];OW[1]
W[ip]WL[30];OB[2]B[jp]BL[30];OW[1]W[cf]WL[30];OB[2]B[bf]BL[30];OW[1]W[nn]WL[30]
;OB[2]B[on]BL[30];OW[1]W[lq]WL[30];OB[2]B[mr]BL[30];OW[1]W[lr]WL[30];OB[2]B[lp]
BL[30];OW[1]W[mo]WL[30];OB[2]B[lo]BL[30];OW[1]W[mn]WL[30];OB[2]B[kr]BL[30];OW[1]
W[oo]WL[30];OB[2]B[ir]BL[30];OW[1]W[hr]WL[30];OB[2]B[ln]BL[30];OW[1]W[mm]WL[30]
;OB[2]B[lm]BL[30];OW[1]W[fi]WL[30];OB[2]B[gi]BL[30];OW[1]W[fh]WL[30];OB[2]B[ih]
BL[30];OW[1]W[jh]WL[30];OB[2]B[ig]BL[30];OW[1]W[hh]WL[30];OB[2]B[kj]BL[30];OW[1]
W[hi]WL[30];OB[2]B[hf]BL[30];OW[1]W[gf]WL[30];OB[2]B[mh]BL[30];OW[1]W[jg]WL[30]
;OB[2]B[if]BL[30];OW[1]W[ji]WL[30];OB[2]B[hs]BL[30];OW[1]W[gs]WL[30];OB[2]B[is]
BL[30];OW[1]W[fr]WL[30];OB[2]B[ek]BL[30];OW[1]W[ej]WL[30];OB[2]B[bj]BL[30])

[wossname]

(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]TM[300]OT[3x30 byo-yomi]
PW[White]PB[Me]WR[30k]BR[30k]DT[2010-04-15]PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]MULTIGOGM[1]
;B[pd]BL[297.661]
;W[po]WL[298.079]
;B[dc]BL[293.638]
;W[dp]WL[290.688]
;B[cn]BL[286.726]
;W[cl]WL[288.207]
;B[ce]BL[284.561]
;W[el]WL[284.649]C[White would be better off attach on top of the pincered stone.]
;B[jq]BL[251.824]C[good direction imo]
;W[hq]WL[274.835]
;B[mq]BL[248.628]
;W[oq]WL[269.067]
;B[jo]BL[246.285]
;W[dq]WL[251.807]C[patient play by black but fine so far]
;B[jd]BL[234.094]
;W[qf]WL[249.537]
(;B[nc]BL[227.657]C[I usually prefer to play the high move when i have K16 if I am not going to pincer, but i don't know if this is wrong]
;W[pj]WL[245.927]C[Now white has a high development on the right, which I don't like]
;B[ho]BL[215.486]C[patient, is it too patient? It seems to me this invites white to complete the capture of c6. for me, i would like to proceed to the invasion of R8, or advance to C10 instead. this is a largish point for white as well, so i suppose it is not bad]
;W[gp]WL[229.065]
(;B[qm]BL[213.525]C[i would prefer the invasion at R8]
;W[qo]WL[222.772]
;B[rj]BL[211.155]
;W[qj]WL[211.162]
;B[rk]BL[203.645]
;W[ri]WL[208.8]
;B[om]BL[200.982]
;W[pl]WL[187]
;B[pm]BL[199.091]
;W[ql]WL[183.42]
;B[rn]BL[196.508]
;W[ro]WL[180.978]
;B[rl]BL[194.814]
;W[dh]WL[154.331]
;B[qh]BL[183.468]
;W[ph]WL[129.82]
;B[pg]BL[149.744]
;W[qg]WL[109.974]
;B[rh]BL[140.724]
;W[oh]WL[83.032]
(;B[rd]BL[108.453]
;W[rg]WL[70.772]C[this order seems bad]
;B[qi]BL[100.209]
;W[pi]WL[67.447]
;B[si]BL[97.378]
;W[of]WL[65.318]
;B[ng]BL[92.178]
;W[og]WL[62.958]
(;B[ne]BL[91.361]
;W[hd]WL[42.443]
(;B[bh]BL[69.704]C[it seems to me that you must attack here, to attempt making use of your surrounding positions. the B12 is ok yose, but for middle game it is too miserly.]
;W[ch]WL[23.935]
;B[bg]BL[67.85]
;W[bi]WL[22.558]
;B[jf]BL[58.845]
;W[ic]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[jc]BL[56.466]C[j17 seems to be awfully crude technique. would i be wrong to guess that both players are around 4k?

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;W[dd]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[cd]BL[53.032]
;W[ec]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[cc]BL[31.339]
;W[ed]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[nk]BL[25.09]
;W[re]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[qc]BL[14.785]
;W[nf]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[mf]BL[13.016]
;W[mg]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[me]BL[4.998]
;W[lg]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[or]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[pr]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[nr]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[pq]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[en]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[fn]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[fm]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[em]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[fo]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[dn]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[eo]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[do]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[gn]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[ib]WL[30]OW[3]
;B[jb]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[hg]WL[30]OW[2]
;B[gk]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[df]WL[30]OW[2]
;B[mi]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[li]WL[30]OW[2]
;B[lj]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[ij]WL[30]OW[2]
;B[ki]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[lh]WL[30]OW[2]
;B[mj]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[nh]WL[30]OW[2]
;B[hj]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[ii]WL[30]OW[2]
;B[ik]BL[30]OB[3]
;W[mp]WL[30]OW[2]
;B[np]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[nq]WL[30]OW[2]
;B[no]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[jj]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[jk]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[ol]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[nl]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[ip]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[jp]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[cf]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[bf]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[nn]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[on]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[lq]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[mr]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[lr]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[lp]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[mo]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[lo]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[mn]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[kr]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[oo]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[ir]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[hr]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[ln]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[mm]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[lm]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[fi]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[gi]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[fh]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[ih]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[jh]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[ig]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[hh]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[kj]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[hi]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[hf]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[gf]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[mh]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[jg]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[if]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[ji]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[hs]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[gs]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[is]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[fr]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[ek]BL[30]OB[2]
;W[ej]WL[30]OW[1]
;B[bj]BL[30]OB[2])
(;B[hf]C[for example.]))
(;B[go]C[i would like to use the c6 aji around now, but i can't immediately think of any good way to do it. In that case, i would at least push here before white can occupy this point himself (and secure c6 at large scale).]
;W[fo]
;B[fn]
(;W[en]
;B[eo]
;W[fp]
;B[em]C[it would be nice?])
(;W[eo]C[maybe c10 would be more interesting here])))
(;B[pf]C[you can probably profit from this cut. the white group on the outside could be an interesting target,it is probably not too much to assume that if he settles the corner you can take sente for the attack.]))
(;B[ql]
(;W[qn]
;B[qj]C[The contact play can help settle easily])
(;W[qj]
;B[ol]C[the aji in the bottom right corner is preserved])))
(;B[pi]C[I would like to pincer anyway just to restrict Q5]))

[mitsun]

B move 113 was risky; hane on the other side (N6) would be safer. B had a chance at move 119 to capture some W stones: atari at N6 followed by squeeze.

[Aimless]

Move 81: B should simply capture. Sente / gote exchange here is big.