Some comments on the opening.
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;W[cn]
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;B[em]C[*** See variation.]
;W[en]
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;B[dn]C[*** Sometimes a good move, but this weakens the Black 4-4 stone. See variation.]
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;W[fn]C[*** See variation.]
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;B[cm]C[*** See variation.]
;W[do]
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;B[fp]C[*** See variation.]
;W[dm]C[*** White is strong, Black is weak.]
;B[dl]
;W[hn]
;B[hp]C[*** Good. Secures territory on the bottom side and aims to attack.]
;W[gk]
;B[dn]
;W[gh]
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;B[jn]C[*** Not a bad idea, but see variation.]
;W[bn]
;B[bm]
;W[fc]
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;B[ec]C[*** Strengthens White. See variation.]
;W[fd]
;B[df]
;W[qn]
;B[pn]C[*** Good. Enlarges the Black framework on the bottom and center.]
;W[pm]
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;B[mn]C[*** But this leaves weaknesses. See variation.]
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;W[qo]C[*** See variation.]
;B[po]C[*** Good.]
;W[rq]
;B[qq]
;W[pg]
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;B[mj]C[*** With the White stone at Q-07, this play protects nothing yet. See variations.]
;W[qe]
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;B[ml]C[*** What does this play accomplish? See variation.]
;W[qd]C[*** Good.]
;B[oe]C[*** It is hard to find a good play for Black here.]
;W[qc]
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;B[pc]C[*** See variation.]
;W[dm]
;B[jf]
;W[dn]
;B[eh]
;W[el]
;B[dk]
;W[cp]
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;B[ep]C[*** Solid. But see variations.]
;W[rr]
;B[qp]
;W[rp]
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;B[qr]C[*** Misses the boat. See variation for local play.]
;W[cq]
;B[mp]C[*** What does this accomplish?]
;W[hd]
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;B[jh]C[*** See variation.]
;W[am]
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;B[al]C[*** Does not work, as you discovered. See variations.]
;W[bl]
;B[cl]
;W[ak]
;B[bk]
;W[al]
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;B[cj]C[*** What does this accomplish? See variations.]
;W[bj]
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;B[ck]C[*** Why bother with one stone? Black has formed a clump of stones called a dumpling. It is obviously inefficient. Nine stones -- ten counting the lost stone -- surround zero territory. See variations.]
;W[qm]
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;B[ei]C[*** What does this play accomplish? See variations.]
;W[bi]
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;B[ej]C[*** What does this play accomplish? See variations.]
;W[bg]
;B[bf]
;W[ic]
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;B[cf]C[*** What does this play accomplish? See variation.]
;W[jc]C[*** Ouch! This not only erases Black territory, it potentially threatens the small Black wall, which has no eyes.]
;B[kd]
;W[lb]
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;B[eg]C[*** What does this accomplish? See variation.]
;W[er]
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;B[lc]C[*** See variations and variation for next.]
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;W[mb]C[*** See variation.]
;B[mc]
;W[gr]
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;B[hq]C[*** Not a bad idea. See variation.]
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;W[hr]C[*** See variation.]
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;B[jq]C[*** See variation.]
;W[ks]
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;B[jr]C[*** See variation.]
;W[js]
;B[ir]
;W[is]
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;B[lr]C[*** Small. Black is already quite strong here, and there is not much territory for White to take. See variations.]
;W[qi]
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;B[ls]C[*** Very small. See variation.]
;W[qj]C[*** Sigh!]
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;B[nf]C[*** Not a bad idea. See variations.]
;W[pk]
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;B[kr]C[*** Very small. See variation.]
;W[fb]C[*** Sigh.]
;B[eb]
;W[ea]
;B[da]
;W[fa]
;B[db]
;W[nh]C[*** Now the game is close. End of comments.]
;B[mf]
;W[jl]
;B[kn]
;W[il]
;B[ln]
;W[lh]
;B[kj]
;W[li]
;B[lj]
;W[nb]
;B[lf]
;W[pb]
;B[oc]
;W[hs]
;B[gp]
;W[oj]
;B[on]
;W[af]
;B[ae]
;W[ag]
;B[be]
;W[ob]
;B[nc]
;W[hf]
;B[kc]
;W[kb]
;B[je]
;W[qs]
;B[ps]
;W[rs]
;B[pr]
;W[cg]
;B[ef]
;W[hg]
;B[jg]
;W[nk]
;B[mk]
;W[pf]
;B[ji]
;W[fk]
;B[mm]
;W[ek]
;B[ee]
;W[dq]
;B[jo]
;W[nl]
;B[io]
;W[om]
;B[nm]
;W[nj]
;B[ho]
;W[fo]
;B[kg]
;W[go]
;B[eo]
;W[mi]
;B[lg]
;W[ci]
;B[of]
;W[og]
;B[pe]
;W[dh]
;B[ed]
;W[hj]
;B[dg]
;W[di]
;B[eq]
;W[fr]
;B[fq]
;W[fg]
;B[fe]
;W[gf]
;B[ge]
;W[gd]
;B[he]
;W[fj]
;B[ie]
;W[fi]
;B[ff]
;W[fh]
;B[ki]
;W[ii]
;B[ij]
;W[ih]
;B[if]
;W[ik]
;B[in]
;W[hm]
;B[im]
;W[ig]
;B[jk]
;W[kl]
;B[kk]
;W[ll]
;B[lk]
;W[ng]
;B[mg]
;W[mh]
;B[kh]
;W[id]
;B[km]
;W[lm]
;B[jm]
;RM[GOdroid-RECENT_MOVE]W[gq]
;B[tt]
;W[tt]TW[ah:ch][ai:aj][an][ao:co][ap:bq][ar:dr][as:gs][em:gm][fl:hl][ga:sa][gb:jb][gc:hc][gg][gi:hi][gj][gn][hh][hk][ni:pi][oh:sh][ok][ol:sl][pj][qb:sb][qf:sg][qk:sk][rc:se][ri:sj][rm:so][sp:ss]TB[aa:cb][ac:dc][ad:cd][ce:de][ip:iq][ke:ne][kf][ko:oo][kp:lp][kq:pq][ld:od][mr:os][nn][np:op]
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;B[eb]C[*** Still big.]
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;B[ng]C[*** Better locally.]
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;B[eb]C[*** Still big.]
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;B[qj]C[*** Prevents White from connecting and making territory. Strengthens the Black stone. Weakens the White stone. Big.]
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;B[ng]C[*** This should obviously be bigger than the play in the game. It walls off more territory, and Black is not so strong if White comes in.]
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;B[rj]C[*** This is the biggest unsettled region. Black threatens to go either way.]
;W[qi]C[*** But White has this peep.]
;B[qj]
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;B[qi]C[*** This play is solid, and also threatens either side.]
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;B[eb]C[*** This play is bigger than it looks. It secures a big corner and threatens to ruin the White territory. See continuation and next variation.]
;W[fb]C[*** If White walls Black off, . . .]
;B[fa]
;W[ga]
;B[ea]
;W[hb]C[*** Black keeps sente.]
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;W[fb]C[*** White secures a big side and threatens to invade.]
;B[eb]C[*** If Black walls White off, . . .]
;W[ea]
;B[da]
;W[fa]
;B[cb]C[*** White keeps sente.]
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)
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;B[kr]C[*** Better locally.]
;W[js]
;B[ls]
;W[ir]
;B[jr]
;W[is]
;B[lr]
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)
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;B[ir]C[*** Better locally.]
;W[gq]
;B[gp]
;W[is]
;B[jr]
;W[js]
;B[ks]
;W[hs]
;B[kr]
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;W[js]
;B[kr]
;W[gq]
;B[gp]
;W[ks]
;B[ls]
;W[ir]
;B[hr]
;W[hs]
;B[jr]
;W[is]
;B[iq]
;W[gs]
;B[lr]C[*** This way White comes further inside.]
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)
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;B[iq]C[*** Better local play. See continuation and variation for next for why.]
;W[js]
;B[jr]
;W[is]
;B[ks]
;W[hr]
;B[ir]
;W[hs]
;B[kr]
)
)
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;W[mc]
;B[md]
;W[kc]
;B[ld]
;W[ng]
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)
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;B[mc]C[*** Better locally.]
;W[lc]
;B[ld]
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;B[ng]C[*** Still bigger, because this is a big point for White.]
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;B[ng]C[*** Protects the wall and makes territory.]
)
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;B[jc]C[*** Now this is very big.]
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;B[bg]C[*** Better local play. ]
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;B[jc]C[*** Still big.]
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;B[bi]C[*** Better local play.]
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;B[jc]C[*** Still big.]
)
)
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;B[bi]C[*** Better local play.]
;W[aj]C[*** Yes, White could fight the ko, but losing this stone is bigger than winning the Black ko stone. The ko is lopsided in favor of Black.]
;B[ai]C[*** Now White has six stones at stake.]
;W[an]C[*** Now the ko is very small.]
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;B[jc]C[*** Still big.]
)
)
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;B[aj]C[*** Better local play.]
;W[an]
;B[bj]
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;B[jc]C[*** Still big.]
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)
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;B[bl]C[*** Better local play.]
;W[al]
;B[ak]
;W[an]
;B[bk]
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;B[jc]C[*** Still big.]
)
)
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;B[jc]C[*** White threatens to play here to make life. Makes territory while attacking.]
)
)
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;B[qm]C[*** The previous Black play weakened the two White stones.]
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;W[ql]C[*** A mistake.]
;B[rm]C[*** Now Black threatens to capture the two stones.]
;W[rn]
;B[sn]
;W[ro]
;B[rl]
;W[qk]C[*** Does not work.]
;B[pl]
;W[om]C[*** Does not work.]
;B[rk]
;W[qj]
;B[qi]
;W[rj]
;B[ri]
;W[pk]
;B[ok]
;W[ol]
;B[sj]
;W[pl]
;B[pi]C[*** Huge failure for White.]
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;W[rm]
;B[ql]
;W[rl]
;B[qk]
)
)
)
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;B[dq]C[*** Better local play. Also solid, but makes territory. ]
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;B[gg]C[*** This is the play Black has been preparing, to cut off and attack the two White stones on the top.]
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;B[og]C[*** This play works with the stones already on the board, enlarging the Black framework in the top and center.]
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;B[qd]C[*** Seals off the corner from this side and attacks the White stones.]
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;B[md]
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;B[nd]
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;B[oe]
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;W[po]
;B[on]
;W[oo]C[*** The coming fight will be difficult, but White has intruded into the Black framework.]
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;B[on]C[*** Solid.]
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;B[fe]C[*** Keeps White separated. Attacks the White stone on the top.]
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;B[dg]C[*** Builds a framework on the left side that works with the Black group that is already there. It was attackable. White would like to play here.]
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;B[dm]C[*** It is necessary to keep White from capturing thils stone. Did you play it to sacrfice it?]
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;W[eo]
;B[cp]
;W[co]
;B[fq]C[*** The Black corner is safe now.]
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;W[co]
;B[ep]
;W[eo]
;B[fp]
;W[cp]
;B[cq]
;W[bq]
;B[cr]C[*** Black is OK.]
)
)
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;B[do]C[*** Now Black is strong and White is cut in two. Very good for Black.]
)
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;W[do]
;B[dm]
;W[eo]C[*** Now you can see how the 4-4 stone has been weakened.]
)
)
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;B[fn]C[*** Get in front.]
;W[eo]
;B[fq]C[*** Not only stays in front, this play makes territory.]
)
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;B[en]C[*** In the game this was a good move for White. This move prevents that move. It is called a capping play. It not only attacks the White stone, it enlarges the Black framework in the bottom and center.]
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You feel like things started to go wrong at move 57. By then you had already lost around 60 pts. But you still had a huge lead. By move 103, however, the game is close. And White went on to a huge win.
Plainly, 9 stones was not enough. This was a teaching game. The worst part of the game for Black in terms of points lost per move was from around move 50 to around move 100. I do not have time now to analyze that part of the game, but it is worth thinking about.
White won without fighting. Black failed to attack White and failed to offer much resistance.
Main focus: Look at things from your opponent's point of view. Don't make it easy for him.
Edit: Added comments from move 56 to move 103.
