Joelnelsonb wrote:Also, I feel like you have to achieve a certain level of proficiency before handicaps matter anyways. Simply because if you can't hang with the stronger players fighting style, he'll just out play you. If I played a game against a 10 kyu with four stones (which is apparently a huge handicap), I feel like I would still get beat.
This is an illusion. A 10k is not far from a 14k in strength, at all.
In terms of tactics they are ahead, sure, and it's well known that it's better for white to complicate matters so as to take advantage of its higher reading ability (This is true for any rank!). But overall they are not so much stronger than you.
A few points:
- It's really good to have some regulars to play with and simply work out how much handicap you need against *them* instead of worrying about rank. If 4 stones isn't enough because your groups die too much, take 5. 5 not enough? take 6. Two wins, remove a stone, two losses, add one. You'll find your comfort zone for playing those people soon enough, and then work your way up.
- At first focus on learning to play solidly. e.g. try to make groups that won't die: keep yourself connected, make a base, try to not leave cutting points, try to make eyeshape. Every time you get cut off when you were trying to keep connected, or otherwise got pushed around, try to get a review for that part of the game, either here or with other stronger players. You'll learn a lot about making good shape. This will translate into strength in even games as well.
- Don't run into every fight white tries to start. You really don't have to. You can afford to defend more than white does. If you don't know how to defend in a specific position, ask afterwards.
- Don't overestimate the higher ranked players. You may think they know what they're doing but they're only playing slightly less bad than you. Just because they're invading doesn't mean an invasion is a good idea. Just because they're attacking your group doesn't mean they can kill it, etc.
- Losing by a high margin means a big difference in points, not necessarily a big difference in strength. If the game is completely one sided, the handicap was not enough. If there are 1-2 losing moves then you're really not that far from beating this person if you work on your biggest weaknesses. Even if the game was lost by 30 points.