More analysis of that game below. Don't pause for too long at it. Next game is the most important one, applying lessons learnt.
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[0.50]TM[60]
PW[White]PB[Thimblefox]WR[14k]BR[14k]DT[2015-03-30]CP[.
]RE[W+Resign]LT[]NB[15]NW[15]RR[Normal]
;B[pd]BL[48]C[I'm 14k? and he's 14k+]
;W[qc]WL[60]C[In the beginning of your go career, it's a good idea to play "normal moves". It will reduce the amount of randomness in a game and allow to focus on certain parts in the game which were tactically or strategically deviating for a good/bad reason.
In this case, when White prematurely invades, just block on your side of choice. See var.]
(;B[dp]BL[37]
;W[pc]WL[56]
(;B[pq]BL[26]C[Same remark. See var.]
;W[cq]WL[51]C[And again the same remark here.]
;B[dd]BL[9]
;W[qd]WL[50]
;B[dq]BL[596]C[Good]
;W[cp]WL[48]
;B[co]BL[593]C[Good]
;W[dr]WL[47]
;B[do]BL[569]LB[er:A]C[Connecting is good. You could have blocked too at A]
;W[cr]WL[45]
;B[er]BL[562]C[Good. You get best of both]
;W[bo]WL[43]
;B[fq]BL[556]LB[bn:A]C[Connecting is a good instinct, with good shape. Again, you could have blocked at A too]
;W[bn]WL[41]
;B[qo]BL[550]
;W[jq]WL[39]C[I didn't worry enough about eyes for my poor group in the corner here.
kw: your group is not poor, but strong]
;B[lq]BL[543]C[kw: good!]
;W[jn]WL[35]
;B[ln]BL[539]
;W[mq]WL[33]
(;B[lr]BL[528]C[Bad choice. I should've just extended I think, and hope for a wall.
kw: see var]
;W[lp]WL[31]
;B[mp]BL[524]
;W[mo]WL[25]
;B[np]BL[514]
;W[lo]WL[23]
;B[nq]BL[493]
;W[no]WL[22]
;B[oo]BL[487]
;W[on]WL[19]
;B[po]BL[480]
;W[pn]WL[18]C[At least I have the corner, but now I'm sealed in.]
;B[pj]BL[475]
;W[qm]WL[16]
;B[pg]BL[462]C[kw: good]
;W[rh]WL[12]
(;B[rf]BL[442]LB[qf:A]C[kw: the keima has a cutting point and you are close to strong white stones, so this is a risky choice. See variations]
;W[pe]WL[9]
;B[rj]BL[424]
;W[qg]WL[4]
;B[qf]BL[421]C[I'm still not sure how to deal with this.
kw: the trouble started at the keima of 41]
;W[ph]WL[2]
(;B[sm]BL[377]LB[rn:A]C[But this tenuki didn't make things better I guess.
kw: here's where I started calling some of your moves "nonsensical"
Now I understand you want to connect. The monkey jump indeed can be a tesuji for linking up stones underneath but it's too early now for such emergency measures
Nevertheless, your stones on the right side are in trouble and you probably need to sacrifice some of them, preferably with a good result towards the open centre. See var.]
;W[oh]WL[596]
;B[rg]BL[371]C[nonsensical move n°2]
;W[qh]WL[595]C[Black gained nothing with this exchange]
;B[sh]BL[363]C[nonsensical move 3]
;W[si]WL[593]
;B[sg]BL[358]C[you are playing endgame sequences in a vain attempt to connect]
;W[ri]WL[590]C[but you don't connect. instead you are losing liberties
"nonsensical" is a harsh term, but you can see all these moves are running out of steam very fast; with your insight, this was foreseeable and you should not play these moves, even if you find no local alternative]
;B[od]BL[352]LB[pc:1][qc:2][qd:3][pe:4]C[nonsensical move, even after you explain: "I guess I wanted to help this move build me territory"
White has wasted 4 moves on trying to capture this stone and you still want to save it.
the whole side is a lost project; play elsewhere, maybe later it may get some purpose (aji)]
;W[oe]WL[585]
;B[nd]BL[330]
;W[qe]WL[582]
;B[jd]BL[590]
;W[gd]WL[580]
;B[gc]BL[578]
;W[fc]WL[576]
;B[hc]BL[564]
;W[ed]WL[575]
;B[cc]BL[558]
;W[fb]WL[573]
;B[lc]BL[549]
;W[oc]WL[569]
;B[nc]BL[538]
;W[gb]WL[565]
;B[hb]BL[527]
;W[hd]WL[563]
;B[id]BL[519]
;W[de]WL[561]
;B[ce]BL[516]
;W[dc]WL[559]
;B[cd]BL[513]
;W[db]WL[557]
;B[cb]BL[505]
;W[ee]WL[555]
;B[cf]BL[500]C[kw: very good, you avoid being enclosed
you see, now that all corners are occupied, the loss at the top right does not seem so awful anymore]
;W[ck]WL[554]
;B[bi]BL[496]
;W[bj]WL[552]
;B[ci]BL[492]
;W[ek]WL[551]C[I still need to make an effort for my group in the lower left corner.]
;B[nn]BL[476]
;W[nm]WL[541]
;B[mn]BL[473]
;W[kn]WL[534]
(;B[lm]BL[444]C[I guess I shouldn't have played that.
kw: see var]
;W[ml]WL[532]
;B[om]BL[422]
;W[ol]WL[528]
;B[kp]BL[384]C[or that.]
;W[ko]WL[523]
;B[kq]BL[369]C[Maybe it'd help my group if I played K4, I could also just extend to like H3, which seems to give that group enough space to live.]
;W[jp]WL[598]
;B[jr]BL[366]
;W[ir]WL[597]
;B[qn]BL[293]
;W[pm]WL[592]
;B[rm]BL[291]
;W[sj]WL[590]
;B[rk]BL[285]
;W[sk]WL[585]
;B[rl]BL[260]
;W[qj]WL[583]
;B[qk]BL[585]
;W[ll]WL[580]
;B[qi]BL[510]
;W[og]WL[570]
;B[nj]BL[476]
;W[lf]WL[562]C[At least I'm thinking about not being closed in.]
;B[hq]BL[456]
;W[iq]WL[560]
;B[es]BL[440]C[H2 seems better.
dv: absolutely]
;W[hr]WL[556]
;B[gq]BL[416]C["playing at G2 would make eye shape" - correct]
;W[gr]WL[553]
;B[fr]BL[408]
;W[fo]WL[546]C[Looking dead.]
;B[io]BL[375]
;W[jo]WL[538]
;B[in]BL[359]
;W[fm]WL[533]
(;B[km]BL[335]C[kw: see var]
;W[jm]WL[531]
;B[cj]BL[255]
;W[bk]WL[528]
;B[dj]BL[245]
;W[dk]WL[526]
;B[jf]BL[217]
;W[kf]WL[522]
;B[ke]BL[212]
;W[le]WL[520]
;B[nf]BL[197]TR[jg]C[Hmm, maybe I should've just kept crawling into the middle. At least that might seal his white group up left in.]
;W[ne]WL[517]C[And I gave up again. But this also isn't too bad, at the very least the group in the lower left shouldn't have died. But I simply didn't know how to deal with the upper right corner.]
;OS[])
(;B[go]
(;W[fp]
;B[im]C[kw: this tries to escape])
(;W[im]
;B[fp]C[kw: 2 eyes])))
(;B[ml]C[kw: if you want to draw out these stones, this is the shape]
(;W[mm]
;B[lm]
;W[ll]
;B[km]
;W[kl]C[the ladder does not work for white])
(;W[nl]
;B[mk]
;W[nk]
;B[mj]
;W[nj]
;B[mi]
;W[ni]
;B[kl])))
(;B[oh]
;W[og]
;B[pf]
;W[oi]
;B[nh]
;W[pi]
;B[ni]
(;W[oj]
;B[nf])
(;W[of]C[this is risky by white]
;B[oj]C[it becomes a capturing race and even if White could win it, Black will get a result on the outside])))
(;B[qf]C[If you want to keep white separated and yourself connected, this is a move]
;W[rf]
;B[re]C[White cannot connect]
(;W[qe]
;B[rg])
(;W[rg]
;B[qe]))
(;B[ng]C[On the other hand, you are facing strong groups in both directions, so fighting at the right side is probably a bad idea. You can flee into the centre instead.]))
(;B[lp]
;W[lr]
;B[kr]
;W[mr]
;B[kq]C[White cannot connect]))
(;B[od]LB[pc:A]C[When White crawls under your stone at A, it is normal to get ahead and maintain your influence.]
;W[re]
;B[pg]
;W[nb]
;B[ld]LB[od:A]C[This is a set pattern but the real mandatory move locally is A]))
(;B[qd]
;W[pc]
;B[oc]
;W[ob]
;B[nc]
;W[nb]
;B[mc]
;W[rd]
;B[re]
;W[rc]
;B[qf]C[Black's strong influence is better than White's territory + sente]))
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[0.50]TM[60]
PW[White]PB[Thimblefox]WR[14k]BR[14k]DT[2015-03-30]CP[.
]RE[W+Resign]LT[]NB[15]NW[15]RR[Normal]
;B[pd]BL[48]C[I'm 14k? and he's 14k+]
;W[qc]WL[60]C[In the beginning of your go career, it's a good idea to play "normal moves". It will reduce the amount of randomness in a game and allow to focus on certain parts in the game which were tactically or strategically deviating for a good/bad reason.
In this case, when White prematurely invades, just block on your side of choice. See var.]
(;B[dp]BL[37]
;W[pc]WL[56]
(;B[pq]BL[26]C[Same remark. See var.]
;W[cq]WL[51]C[And again the same remark here.]
;B[dd]BL[9]
;W[qd]WL[50]
;B[dq]BL[596]C[Good]
;W[cp]WL[48]
;B[co]BL[593]C[Good]
;W[dr]WL[47]
;B[do]BL[569]LB[er:A]C[Connecting is good. You could have blocked too at A]
;W[cr]WL[45]
;B[er]BL[562]C[Good. You get best of both]
;W[bo]WL[43]
;B[fq]BL[556]LB[bn:A]C[Connecting is a good instinct, with good shape. Again, you could have blocked at A too]
;W[bn]WL[41]
;B[qo]BL[550]
;W[jq]WL[39]C[I didn't worry enough about eyes for my poor group in the corner here.
kw: your group is not poor, but strong]
;B[lq]BL[543]C[kw: good!]
;W[jn]WL[35]
;B[ln]BL[539]
;W[mq]WL[33]
(;B[lr]BL[528]C[Bad choice. I should've just extended I think, and hope for a wall.
kw: see var]
;W[lp]WL[31]
;B[mp]BL[524]
;W[mo]WL[25]
;B[np]BL[514]
;W[lo]WL[23]
;B[nq]BL[493]
;W[no]WL[22]
;B[oo]BL[487]
;W[on]WL[19]
;B[po]BL[480]
;W[pn]WL[18]C[At least I have the corner, but now I'm sealed in.]
;B[pj]BL[475]
;W[qm]WL[16]
;B[pg]BL[462]C[kw: good]
;W[rh]WL[12]
(;B[rf]BL[442]LB[qf:A]C[kw: the keima has a cutting point and you are close to strong white stones, so this is a risky choice. See variations]
;W[pe]WL[9]
;B[rj]BL[424]
;W[qg]WL[4]
;B[qf]BL[421]C[I'm still not sure how to deal with this.
kw: the trouble started at the keima of 41]
;W[ph]WL[2]
(;B[sm]BL[377]LB[rn:A]C[But this tenuki didn't make things better I guess.
kw: here's where I started calling some of your moves "nonsensical"
Now I understand you want to connect. The monkey jump indeed can be a tesuji for linking up stones underneath but it's too early now for such emergency measures
Nevertheless, your stones on the right side are in trouble and you probably need to sacrifice some of them, preferably with a good result towards the open centre. See var.]
;W[oh]WL[596]
;B[rg]BL[371]C[nonsensical move n°2]
;W[qh]WL[595]C[Black gained nothing with this exchange]
;B[sh]BL[363]C[nonsensical move 3]
;W[si]WL[593]
;B[sg]BL[358]C[you are playing endgame sequences in a vain attempt to connect]
;W[ri]WL[590]C[but you don't connect. instead you are losing liberties
"nonsensical" is a harsh term, but you can see all these moves are running out of steam very fast; with your insight, this was foreseeable and you should not play these moves, even if you find no local alternative]
;B[od]BL[352]LB[pc:1][qc:2][qd:3][pe:4]C[nonsensical move, even after you explain: "I guess I wanted to help this move build me territory"
White has wasted 4 moves on trying to capture this stone and you still want to save it.
the whole side is a lost project; play elsewhere, maybe later it may get some purpose (aji)]
;W[oe]WL[585]
;B[nd]BL[330]
;W[qe]WL[582]
;B[jd]BL[590]
;W[gd]WL[580]
;B[gc]BL[578]
;W[fc]WL[576]
;B[hc]BL[564]
;W[ed]WL[575]
;B[cc]BL[558]
;W[fb]WL[573]
;B[lc]BL[549]
;W[oc]WL[569]
;B[nc]BL[538]
;W[gb]WL[565]
;B[hb]BL[527]
;W[hd]WL[563]
;B[id]BL[519]
;W[de]WL[561]
;B[ce]BL[516]
;W[dc]WL[559]
;B[cd]BL[513]
;W[db]WL[557]
;B[cb]BL[505]
;W[ee]WL[555]
;B[cf]BL[500]C[kw: very good, you avoid being enclosed
you see, now that all corners are occupied, the loss at the top right does not seem so awful anymore]
;W[ck]WL[554]
;B[bi]BL[496]
;W[bj]WL[552]
;B[ci]BL[492]
;W[ek]WL[551]C[I still need to make an effort for my group in the lower left corner.]
;B[nn]BL[476]
;W[nm]WL[541]
;B[mn]BL[473]
;W[kn]WL[534]
(;B[lm]BL[444]C[I guess I shouldn't have played that.
kw: see var]
;W[ml]WL[532]
;B[om]BL[422]
;W[ol]WL[528]
;B[kp]BL[384]C[or that.]
;W[ko]WL[523]
;B[kq]BL[369]C[Maybe it'd help my group if I played K4, I could also just extend to like H3, which seems to give that group enough space to live.]
;W[jp]WL[598]
;B[jr]BL[366]
;W[ir]WL[597]
;B[qn]BL[293]
;W[pm]WL[592]
;B[rm]BL[291]
;W[sj]WL[590]
;B[rk]BL[285]
;W[sk]WL[585]
;B[rl]BL[260]
;W[qj]WL[583]
;B[qk]BL[585]
;W[ll]WL[580]
;B[qi]BL[510]
;W[og]WL[570]
;B[nj]BL[476]
;W[lf]WL[562]C[At least I'm thinking about not being closed in.]
;B[hq]BL[456]
;W[iq]WL[560]
;B[es]BL[440]C[H2 seems better.
dv: absolutely]
;W[hr]WL[556]
;B[gq]BL[416]C["playing at G2 would make eye shape" - correct]
;W[gr]WL[553]
;B[fr]BL[408]
;W[fo]WL[546]C[Looking dead.]
;B[io]BL[375]
;W[jo]WL[538]
;B[in]BL[359]
;W[fm]WL[533]
(;B[km]BL[335]C[kw: see var]
;W[jm]WL[531]
;B[cj]BL[255]
;W[bk]WL[528]
;B[dj]BL[245]
;W[dk]WL[526]
;B[jf]BL[217]
;W[kf]WL[522]
;B[ke]BL[212]
;W[le]WL[520]
;B[nf]BL[197]TR[jg]C[Hmm, maybe I should've just kept crawling into the middle. At least that might seal his white group up left in.]
;W[ne]WL[517]C[And I gave up again. But this also isn't too bad, at the very least the group in the lower left shouldn't have died. But I simply didn't know how to deal with the upper right corner.]
;OS[])
(;B[go]
(;W[fp]
;B[im]C[kw: this tries to escape])
(;W[im]
;B[fp]C[kw: 2 eyes])))
(;B[ml]C[kw: if you want to draw out these stones, this is the shape]
(;W[mm]
;B[lm]
;W[ll]
;B[km]
;W[kl]C[the ladder does not work for white])
(;W[nl]
;B[mk]
;W[nk]
;B[mj]
;W[nj]
;B[mi]
;W[ni]
;B[kl])))
(;B[oh]
;W[og]
;B[pf]
;W[oi]
;B[nh]
;W[pi]
;B[ni]
(;W[oj]
;B[nf])
(;W[of]C[this is risky by white]
;B[oj]C[it becomes a capturing race and even if White could win it, Black will get a result on the outside])))
(;B[qf]C[If you want to keep white separated and yourself connected, this is a move]
;W[rf]
;B[re]C[White cannot connect]
(;W[qe]
;B[rg])
(;W[rg]
;B[qe]))
(;B[ng]C[On the other hand, you are facing strong groups in both directions, so fighting at the right side is probably a bad idea. You can flee into the centre instead.]))
(;B[lp]
;W[lr]
;B[kr]
;W[mr]
;B[kq]C[White cannot connect]))
(;B[od]LB[pc:A]C[When White crawls under your stone at A, it is normal to get ahead and maintain your influence.]
;W[re]
;B[pg]
;W[nb]
;B[ld]LB[od:A]C[This is a set pattern but the real mandatory move locally is A]))
(;B[qd]
;W[pc]
;B[oc]
;W[ob]
;B[nc]
;W[nb]
;B[mc]
;W[rd]
;B[re]
;W[rc]
;B[qf]C[Black's strong influence is better than White's territory + sente]))
No, this is not where you lost the game. No problem.
Your note about A is correct -- the right side gap is 1 space wider -- simple fundamental to remember. But, the K16
stone is on the 4th line, versus the R9
correct basic shape.
You don't take care of your (now) heavy o16 group. You create another weak group. This is a problem. You'll be very busy.
,
Your
Again, you create a weak group Q5 and abandon it. Not good.
...
If this is your "strategy", you might as well resign.
Yes, e2 hane is the only move. This is the kind of mistakes that's important. This is a 20-point+ mistake. Just one move.
Bad habit. Just connect. Important basic to learn.
If you had simply connected on
Bad. Broken shape. Bad shape. The combination of
and
or
,
is very bad for Black,
makes a broken shape for Black:
to show you the bad shape.
, and makes the same broken shape for Black: