In this game, when I went over it, I noticed Leela seemed to think my chances weren't that bad. As far as I can tell, I'm either supposed to be able to kill something (first I tried the left, then the top; neither worked), or get a bunch of territory in the center (that didn't work either).
I had Black.
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]TM[1500]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
PW[kmaster]PB[Fedya]WR[6k]BR[6k]DT[2019-01-12]PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]RE[W+Resign]
;B[pd]BL[1496.644]C[kmaster [6k\]: hi
Fedya [6k\]: Hello!
]
;W[dd]WL[1496.61]
;B[dp]BL[1490.391]C[I've been playing the diagonal fuseki any time my opponent gives me the chance in order to make it harder for my opponent to get a large moyo. (And by the same token, as white I've been approaching with White 4 rather than play in the empty corner for the same reason.)]
;W[pp]WL[1493.229]
;B[qn]BL[1467.47]
;W[ql]WL[1484.094]
;B[on]BL[1447.977]
;W[np]WL[1481.601]
;B[pk]BL[1444.699]
;W[qk]WL[1478.284]
;B[pj]BL[1442.544]
;W[pl]WL[1476.152]
;B[ol]BL[1436.548]
;W[qj]WL[1474.274]
;B[pi]BL[1423.054]
;W[qh]WL[1471.095]
;B[og]BL[1410.082]
;W[qf]WL[1466.625]
;B[qd]BL[1391.381]C[I played this to try to secure the corner.
Leela wants me to give up the corner and play either M3/M4, or Q14 and try to get something from the resulting thickness.]
;W[nc]WL[1463.102]
;B[lc]BL[1375.243]C[I didn't know what to play here. Leela spent most of its time on this move.]
;W[ne]WL[1457.542]
;B[oe]BL[1336.258]
;W[nf]WL[1449.901]
;B[of]BL[1329.331]
;W[pb]WL[1447.629]
;B[le]BL[1286.3]
;W[md]WL[1435.237]
;B[ld]BL[1283.155]
;W[mb]WL[1430.935]
;B[hd]BL[1279.037]
;W[fc]WL[1426.443]
;B[lq]BL[1259.308]
;W[cn]WL[1421.14]
;B[cl]BL[1231.479]C[This is where things really start to go wrong. I guess I should have given up the left side in exchange for the bottom and hope I end up with more territory.]
;W[en]WL[1418.297]
;B[fp]BL[1221.349]
;W[jq]WL[1413.271]
;B[kp]BL[1210.793]C[If I had to to it again, I'd play M5 and make it easier to connect to the other Black stones on the right.]
;W[hq]WL[1409.601]
;B[bp]BL[1202.211]
;W[cq]WL[1405.316]C[Now I begin to get in serious trouble.]
;B[cp]BL[1191.165]
;W[eq]WL[1402.211]
;B[dq]BL[1181.829]C[I didn't like this, but I liked th ealternative at E4 even less. This way I should be able to capture and live in the corner; if I play E4, where am I going to get eyes?]
;W[ep]WL[1398.931]
;B[do]BL[1174.139]C[This way I can split at either D6 or E5 next.]
;W[dn]WL[1392.148]
;B[eo]BL[1172.834]
;W[fq]WL[1388.803]
;B[fn]BL[1169.335]
;W[fm]WL[1386.165]
;B[em]BL[1156.614]C[Attack!]
;W[gn]WL[1383.877]
;B[fo]BL[1154.739]
;W[dm]WL[1379.623]
;B[el]BL[1153.942]
;W[dl]WL[1376.932]
;B[dk]BL[1151.303]
;W[ek]WL[1370.876]
;B[fl]BL[1150.638]
;W[ck]WL[1368.114]
;B[dj]BL[1136.351]
;W[cj]WL[1365.088]
;B[bl]BL[1127.366]
;W[bm]WL[1354.344]
;B[ci]BL[1085.265]
;W[di]WL[1351.202]
;B[ej]BL[1084.357]
;W[bi]WL[1349.589]
;B[ch]BL[1080.663]
;W[bk]WL[1334.203]C[My attack failed, as I have no way to kill on the left side.]
;B[gm]BL[1041.617]
;W[bh]WL[1330.161]
;B[cg]BL[1035.635]
;W[gp]WL[1319.03]
;B[fe]BL[1013.686]C[I realized the only way I'd win is to get a bunch of territory in the center. However, this and N13 are miai. White's going to be able to destroy my center.]
;W[mg]WL[1307.722]
;B[kg]BL[999.973]
;W[in]WL[1301.93]
;B[il]BL[960.145]
;W[kn]WL[1297.644]C[Oh, and now I have to worry about the M3 group.]
;B[mo]BL[917.411]
;W[df]WL[1291.683]
;B[eh]BL[912.975]
;W[ff]WL[1288.366]
;B[gf]BL[910.14]
;W[fg]WL[1285.201]C[I didn't see this move at all, only E14 or E15. Can't help but think about toothpaste.]
;B[ee]BL[890.201]
;W[dg]WL[1281.442]
;B[de]BL[882.521]
;W[dh]WL[1275.984]
;B[cf]BL[881.086]
;W[ce]WL[1273.532]
;B[cd]BL[824.617]C[I figured the only way I could win was to try to kill the D16/F17 stones and get a whole bunth of territory at the top.]
;W[be]WL[1270.525]
;B[cc]BL[820.826]
;W[dc]WL[1262.972]
;B[db]BL[817.665]
;W[ec]WL[1249.516]
;B[bd]BL[815.16]
;W[bf]WL[1245.996]
;B[eb]BL[813.541]
;W[fb]WL[1243.996]
;B[bb]BL[812.366]
;W[ib]WL[1240.043]
;B[lb]BL[806.329]
;W[jd]WL[1235.205]
;B[if]BL[786.768]
;W[jf]WL[1231.293]
;B[jg]BL[781.496]
;W[kf]WL[1223.609]
;B[lf]BL[775.138]
;W[ie]WL[1221.697]
;B[je]BL[761.473]
;W[hf]WL[1210.97]
;B[ig]BL[743.13]
;W[he]WL[1207.336]
;B[hg]BL[734.473]
;W[ge]WL[1190.159]C[And now I'm not going to kill those stones. I probably could have resigned here, but I played on for another several moves.]
;B[gg]BL[731.96]
;W[fh]WL[1159.186]
;B[gd]BL[723.09]
;W[id]WL[1156.145]
;B[fd]BL[721.554]
;W[hc]WL[1150.205]
;B[kd]BL[665.201]
;W[jc]WL[1143.713]
;B[gb]BL[652.424]
;W[gc]WL[1115.287]
;B[fa]BL[650.03]
;W[ea]WL[1112.216]
;B[da]BL[646.157]
;W[hb]WL[1107.631]C[kmaster [6k\]: thx
Fedya [6k\]: Thank you for the game
])
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]TM[1500]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
PW[kmaster]PB[Fedya]WR[6k]BR[6k]DT[2019-01-12]PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]RE[W+Resign]
;B[pd]BL[1496.644]C[kmaster [6k\]: hi
Fedya [6k\]: Hello!
]
;W[dd]WL[1496.61]
;B[dp]BL[1490.391]C[I've been playing the diagonal fuseki any time my opponent gives me the chance in order to make it harder for my opponent to get a large moyo. (And by the same token, as white I've been approaching with White 4 rather than play in the empty corner for the same reason.)]
;W[pp]WL[1493.229]
;B[qn]BL[1467.47]
;W[ql]WL[1484.094]
;B[on]BL[1447.977]
;W[np]WL[1481.601]
;B[pk]BL[1444.699]
;W[qk]WL[1478.284]
;B[pj]BL[1442.544]
;W[pl]WL[1476.152]
;B[ol]BL[1436.548]
;W[qj]WL[1474.274]
;B[pi]BL[1423.054]
;W[qh]WL[1471.095]
;B[og]BL[1410.082]
;W[qf]WL[1466.625]
;B[qd]BL[1391.381]C[I played this to try to secure the corner.
Leela wants me to give up the corner and play either M3/M4, or Q14 and try to get something from the resulting thickness.]
;W[nc]WL[1463.102]
;B[lc]BL[1375.243]C[I didn't know what to play here. Leela spent most of its time on this move.]
;W[ne]WL[1457.542]
;B[oe]BL[1336.258]
;W[nf]WL[1449.901]
;B[of]BL[1329.331]
;W[pb]WL[1447.629]
;B[le]BL[1286.3]
;W[md]WL[1435.237]
;B[ld]BL[1283.155]
;W[mb]WL[1430.935]
;B[hd]BL[1279.037]
;W[fc]WL[1426.443]
;B[lq]BL[1259.308]
;W[cn]WL[1421.14]
;B[cl]BL[1231.479]C[This is where things really start to go wrong. I guess I should have given up the left side in exchange for the bottom and hope I end up with more territory.]
;W[en]WL[1418.297]
;B[fp]BL[1221.349]
;W[jq]WL[1413.271]
;B[kp]BL[1210.793]C[If I had to to it again, I'd play M5 and make it easier to connect to the other Black stones on the right.]
;W[hq]WL[1409.601]
;B[bp]BL[1202.211]
;W[cq]WL[1405.316]C[Now I begin to get in serious trouble.]
;B[cp]BL[1191.165]
;W[eq]WL[1402.211]
;B[dq]BL[1181.829]C[I didn't like this, but I liked th ealternative at E4 even less. This way I should be able to capture and live in the corner; if I play E4, where am I going to get eyes?]
;W[ep]WL[1398.931]
;B[do]BL[1174.139]C[This way I can split at either D6 or E5 next.]
;W[dn]WL[1392.148]
;B[eo]BL[1172.834]
;W[fq]WL[1388.803]
;B[fn]BL[1169.335]
;W[fm]WL[1386.165]
;B[em]BL[1156.614]C[Attack!]
;W[gn]WL[1383.877]
;B[fo]BL[1154.739]
;W[dm]WL[1379.623]
;B[el]BL[1153.942]
;W[dl]WL[1376.932]
;B[dk]BL[1151.303]
;W[ek]WL[1370.876]
;B[fl]BL[1150.638]
;W[ck]WL[1368.114]
;B[dj]BL[1136.351]
;W[cj]WL[1365.088]
;B[bl]BL[1127.366]
;W[bm]WL[1354.344]
;B[ci]BL[1085.265]
;W[di]WL[1351.202]
;B[ej]BL[1084.357]
;W[bi]WL[1349.589]
;B[ch]BL[1080.663]
;W[bk]WL[1334.203]C[My attack failed, as I have no way to kill on the left side.]
;B[gm]BL[1041.617]
;W[bh]WL[1330.161]
;B[cg]BL[1035.635]
;W[gp]WL[1319.03]
;B[fe]BL[1013.686]C[I realized the only way I'd win is to get a bunch of territory in the center. However, this and N13 are miai. White's going to be able to destroy my center.]
;W[mg]WL[1307.722]
;B[kg]BL[999.973]
;W[in]WL[1301.93]
;B[il]BL[960.145]
;W[kn]WL[1297.644]C[Oh, and now I have to worry about the M3 group.]
;B[mo]BL[917.411]
;W[df]WL[1291.683]
;B[eh]BL[912.975]
;W[ff]WL[1288.366]
;B[gf]BL[910.14]
;W[fg]WL[1285.201]C[I didn't see this move at all, only E14 or E15. Can't help but think about toothpaste.]
;B[ee]BL[890.201]
;W[dg]WL[1281.442]
;B[de]BL[882.521]
;W[dh]WL[1275.984]
;B[cf]BL[881.086]
;W[ce]WL[1273.532]
;B[cd]BL[824.617]C[I figured the only way I could win was to try to kill the D16/F17 stones and get a whole bunth of territory at the top.]
;W[be]WL[1270.525]
;B[cc]BL[820.826]
;W[dc]WL[1262.972]
;B[db]BL[817.665]
;W[ec]WL[1249.516]
;B[bd]BL[815.16]
;W[bf]WL[1245.996]
;B[eb]BL[813.541]
;W[fb]WL[1243.996]
;B[bb]BL[812.366]
;W[ib]WL[1240.043]
;B[lb]BL[806.329]
;W[jd]WL[1235.205]
;B[if]BL[786.768]
;W[jf]WL[1231.293]
;B[jg]BL[781.496]
;W[kf]WL[1223.609]
;B[lf]BL[775.138]
;W[ie]WL[1221.697]
;B[je]BL[761.473]
;W[hf]WL[1210.97]
;B[ig]BL[743.13]
;W[he]WL[1207.336]
;B[hg]BL[734.473]
;W[ge]WL[1190.159]C[And now I'm not going to kill those stones. I probably could have resigned here, but I played on for another several moves.]
;B[gg]BL[731.96]
;W[fh]WL[1159.186]
;B[gd]BL[723.09]
;W[id]WL[1156.145]
;B[fd]BL[721.554]
;W[hc]WL[1150.205]
;B[kd]BL[665.201]
;W[jc]WL[1143.713]
;B[gb]BL[652.424]
;W[gc]WL[1115.287]
;B[fa]BL[650.03]
;W[ea]WL[1112.216]
;B[da]BL[646.157]
;W[hb]WL[1107.631]C[kmaster [6k\]: thx
Fedya [6k\]: Thank you for the game
])
at B6 should work