In this game, when I went over it, I noticed Leela seemed to think my chances weren't that bad. As far as I can tell, I'm either supposed to be able to kill something (first I tried the left, then the top; neither worked), or get a bunch of territory in the center (that didn't work either).
I had Black.
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]TM[1500]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
PW[kmaster]PB[Fedya]WR[6k]BR[6k]DT[2019-01-12]PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]RE[W+Resign]
;B[pd]BL[1496.644]C[kmaster [6k\]: hi
Fedya [6k\]: Hello!
]
;W[dd]WL[1496.61]
;B[dp]BL[1490.391]C[I've been playing the diagonal fuseki any time my opponent gives me the chance in order to make it harder for my opponent to get a large moyo. (And by the same token, as white I've been approaching with White 4 rather than play in the empty corner for the same reason.)]
;W[pp]WL[1493.229]
;B[qn]BL[1467.47]
;W[ql]WL[1484.094]
;B[on]BL[1447.977]
;W[np]WL[1481.601]
;B[pk]BL[1444.699]
;W[qk]WL[1478.284]
;B[pj]BL[1442.544]
;W[pl]WL[1476.152]
;B[ol]BL[1436.548]
;W[qj]WL[1474.274]
;B[pi]BL[1423.054]
;W[qh]WL[1471.095]
;B[og]BL[1410.082]
;W[qf]WL[1466.625]
;B[qd]BL[1391.381]C[I played this to try to secure the corner.
Leela wants me to give up the corner and play either M3/M4, or Q14 and try to get something from the resulting thickness.]
;W[nc]WL[1463.102]
;B[lc]BL[1375.243]C[I didn't know what to play here. Leela spent most of its time on this move.]
;W[ne]WL[1457.542]
;B[oe]BL[1336.258]
;W[nf]WL[1449.901]
;B[of]BL[1329.331]
;W[pb]WL[1447.629]
;B[le]BL[1286.3]
;W[md]WL[1435.237]
;B[ld]BL[1283.155]
;W[mb]WL[1430.935]
;B[hd]BL[1279.037]
;W[fc]WL[1426.443]
;B[lq]BL[1259.308]
;W[cn]WL[1421.14]
;B[cl]BL[1231.479]C[This is where things really start to go wrong. I guess I should have given up the left side in exchange for the bottom and hope I end up with more territory.]
;W[en]WL[1418.297]
;B[fp]BL[1221.349]
;W[jq]WL[1413.271]
;B[kp]BL[1210.793]C[If I had to to it again, I'd play M5 and make it easier to connect to the other Black stones on the right.]
;W[hq]WL[1409.601]
;B[bp]BL[1202.211]
;W[cq]WL[1405.316]C[Now I begin to get in serious trouble.]
;B[cp]BL[1191.165]
;W[eq]WL[1402.211]
;B[dq]BL[1181.829]C[I didn't like this, but I liked th ealternative at E4 even less. This way I should be able to capture and live in the corner; if I play E4, where am I going to get eyes?]
;W[ep]WL[1398.931]
;B[do]BL[1174.139]C[This way I can split at either D6 or E5 next.]
;W[dn]WL[1392.148]
;B[eo]BL[1172.834]
;W[fq]WL[1388.803]
;B[fn]BL[1169.335]
;W[fm]WL[1386.165]
;B[em]BL[1156.614]C[Attack!]
;W[gn]WL[1383.877]
;B[fo]BL[1154.739]
;W[dm]WL[1379.623]
;B[el]BL[1153.942]
;W[dl]WL[1376.932]
;B[dk]BL[1151.303]
;W[ek]WL[1370.876]
;B[fl]BL[1150.638]
;W[ck]WL[1368.114]
;B[dj]BL[1136.351]
;W[cj]WL[1365.088]
;B[bl]BL[1127.366]
;W[bm]WL[1354.344]
;B[ci]BL[1085.265]
;W[di]WL[1351.202]
;B[ej]BL[1084.357]
;W[bi]WL[1349.589]
;B[ch]BL[1080.663]
;W[bk]WL[1334.203]C[My attack failed, as I have no way to kill on the left side.]
;B[gm]BL[1041.617]
;W[bh]WL[1330.161]
;B[cg]BL[1035.635]
;W[gp]WL[1319.03]
;B[fe]BL[1013.686]C[I realized the only way I'd win is to get a bunch of territory in the center. However, this and N13 are miai. White's going to be able to destroy my center.]
;W[mg]WL[1307.722]
;B[kg]BL[999.973]
;W[in]WL[1301.93]
;B[il]BL[960.145]
;W[kn]WL[1297.644]C[Oh, and now I have to worry about the M3 group.]
;B[mo]BL[917.411]
;W[df]WL[1291.683]
;B[eh]BL[912.975]
;W[ff]WL[1288.366]
;B[gf]BL[910.14]
;W[fg]WL[1285.201]C[I didn't see this move at all, only E14 or E15. Can't help but think about toothpaste.]
;B[ee]BL[890.201]
;W[dg]WL[1281.442]
;B[de]BL[882.521]
;W[dh]WL[1275.984]
;B[cf]BL[881.086]
;W[ce]WL[1273.532]
;B[cd]BL[824.617]C[I figured the only way I could win was to try to kill the D16/F17 stones and get a whole bunth of territory at the top.]
;W[be]WL[1270.525]
;B[cc]BL[820.826]
;W[dc]WL[1262.972]
;B[db]BL[817.665]
;W[ec]WL[1249.516]
;B[bd]BL[815.16]
;W[bf]WL[1245.996]
;B[eb]BL[813.541]
;W[fb]WL[1243.996]
;B[bb]BL[812.366]
;W[ib]WL[1240.043]
;B[lb]BL[806.329]
;W[jd]WL[1235.205]
;B[if]BL[786.768]
;W[jf]WL[1231.293]
;B[jg]BL[781.496]
;W[kf]WL[1223.609]
;B[lf]BL[775.138]
;W[ie]WL[1221.697]
;B[je]BL[761.473]
;W[hf]WL[1210.97]
;B[ig]BL[743.13]
;W[he]WL[1207.336]
;B[hg]BL[734.473]
;W[ge]WL[1190.159]C[And now I'm not going to kill those stones. I probably could have resigned here, but I played on for another several moves.]
;B[gg]BL[731.96]
;W[fh]WL[1159.186]
;B[gd]BL[723.09]
;W[id]WL[1156.145]
;B[fd]BL[721.554]
;W[hc]WL[1150.205]
;B[kd]BL[665.201]
;W[jc]WL[1143.713]
;B[gb]BL[652.424]
;W[gc]WL[1115.287]
;B[fa]BL[650.03]
;W[ea]WL[1112.216]
;B[da]BL[646.157]
;W[hb]WL[1107.631]C[kmaster [6k\]: thx
Fedya [6k\]: Thank you for the game
])
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]TM[1500]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
PW[kmaster]PB[Fedya]WR[6k]BR[6k]DT[2019-01-12]PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]RE[W+Resign]
;B[pd]BL[1496.644]C[kmaster [6k\]: hi
Fedya [6k\]: Hello!
]
;W[dd]WL[1496.61]
;B[dp]BL[1490.391]C[I've been playing the diagonal fuseki any time my opponent gives me the chance in order to make it harder for my opponent to get a large moyo. (And by the same token, as white I've been approaching with White 4 rather than play in the empty corner for the same reason.)]
;W[pp]WL[1493.229]
;B[qn]BL[1467.47]
;W[ql]WL[1484.094]
;B[on]BL[1447.977]
;W[np]WL[1481.601]
;B[pk]BL[1444.699]
;W[qk]WL[1478.284]
;B[pj]BL[1442.544]
;W[pl]WL[1476.152]
;B[ol]BL[1436.548]
;W[qj]WL[1474.274]
;B[pi]BL[1423.054]
;W[qh]WL[1471.095]
;B[og]BL[1410.082]
;W[qf]WL[1466.625]
;B[qd]BL[1391.381]C[I played this to try to secure the corner.
Leela wants me to give up the corner and play either M3/M4, or Q14 and try to get something from the resulting thickness.]
;W[nc]WL[1463.102]
;B[lc]BL[1375.243]C[I didn't know what to play here. Leela spent most of its time on this move.]
;W[ne]WL[1457.542]
;B[oe]BL[1336.258]
;W[nf]WL[1449.901]
;B[of]BL[1329.331]
;W[pb]WL[1447.629]
;B[le]BL[1286.3]
;W[md]WL[1435.237]
;B[ld]BL[1283.155]
;W[mb]WL[1430.935]
;B[hd]BL[1279.037]
;W[fc]WL[1426.443]
;B[lq]BL[1259.308]
;W[cn]WL[1421.14]
;B[cl]BL[1231.479]C[This is where things really start to go wrong. I guess I should have given up the left side in exchange for the bottom and hope I end up with more territory.]
;W[en]WL[1418.297]
;B[fp]BL[1221.349]
;W[jq]WL[1413.271]
;B[kp]BL[1210.793]C[If I had to to it again, I'd play M5 and make it easier to connect to the other Black stones on the right.]
;W[hq]WL[1409.601]
;B[bp]BL[1202.211]
;W[cq]WL[1405.316]C[Now I begin to get in serious trouble.]
;B[cp]BL[1191.165]
;W[eq]WL[1402.211]
;B[dq]BL[1181.829]C[I didn't like this, but I liked th ealternative at E4 even less. This way I should be able to capture and live in the corner; if I play E4, where am I going to get eyes?]
;W[ep]WL[1398.931]
;B[do]BL[1174.139]C[This way I can split at either D6 or E5 next.]
;W[dn]WL[1392.148]
;B[eo]BL[1172.834]
;W[fq]WL[1388.803]
;B[fn]BL[1169.335]
;W[fm]WL[1386.165]
;B[em]BL[1156.614]C[Attack!]
;W[gn]WL[1383.877]
;B[fo]BL[1154.739]
;W[dm]WL[1379.623]
;B[el]BL[1153.942]
;W[dl]WL[1376.932]
;B[dk]BL[1151.303]
;W[ek]WL[1370.876]
;B[fl]BL[1150.638]
;W[ck]WL[1368.114]
;B[dj]BL[1136.351]
;W[cj]WL[1365.088]
;B[bl]BL[1127.366]
;W[bm]WL[1354.344]
;B[ci]BL[1085.265]
;W[di]WL[1351.202]
;B[ej]BL[1084.357]
;W[bi]WL[1349.589]
;B[ch]BL[1080.663]
;W[bk]WL[1334.203]C[My attack failed, as I have no way to kill on the left side.]
;B[gm]BL[1041.617]
;W[bh]WL[1330.161]
;B[cg]BL[1035.635]
;W[gp]WL[1319.03]
;B[fe]BL[1013.686]C[I realized the only way I'd win is to get a bunch of territory in the center. However, this and N13 are miai. White's going to be able to destroy my center.]
;W[mg]WL[1307.722]
;B[kg]BL[999.973]
;W[in]WL[1301.93]
;B[il]BL[960.145]
;W[kn]WL[1297.644]C[Oh, and now I have to worry about the M3 group.]
;B[mo]BL[917.411]
;W[df]WL[1291.683]
;B[eh]BL[912.975]
;W[ff]WL[1288.366]
;B[gf]BL[910.14]
;W[fg]WL[1285.201]C[I didn't see this move at all, only E14 or E15. Can't help but think about toothpaste.]
;B[ee]BL[890.201]
;W[dg]WL[1281.442]
;B[de]BL[882.521]
;W[dh]WL[1275.984]
;B[cf]BL[881.086]
;W[ce]WL[1273.532]
;B[cd]BL[824.617]C[I figured the only way I could win was to try to kill the D16/F17 stones and get a whole bunth of territory at the top.]
;W[be]WL[1270.525]
;B[cc]BL[820.826]
;W[dc]WL[1262.972]
;B[db]BL[817.665]
;W[ec]WL[1249.516]
;B[bd]BL[815.16]
;W[bf]WL[1245.996]
;B[eb]BL[813.541]
;W[fb]WL[1243.996]
;B[bb]BL[812.366]
;W[ib]WL[1240.043]
;B[lb]BL[806.329]
;W[jd]WL[1235.205]
;B[if]BL[786.768]
;W[jf]WL[1231.293]
;B[jg]BL[781.496]
;W[kf]WL[1223.609]
;B[lf]BL[775.138]
;W[ie]WL[1221.697]
;B[je]BL[761.473]
;W[hf]WL[1210.97]
;B[ig]BL[743.13]
;W[he]WL[1207.336]
;B[hg]BL[734.473]
;W[ge]WL[1190.159]C[And now I'm not going to kill those stones. I probably could have resigned here, but I played on for another several moves.]
;B[gg]BL[731.96]
;W[fh]WL[1159.186]
;B[gd]BL[723.09]
;W[id]WL[1156.145]
;B[fd]BL[721.554]
;W[hc]WL[1150.205]
;B[kd]BL[665.201]
;W[jc]WL[1143.713]
;B[gb]BL[652.424]
;W[gc]WL[1115.287]
;B[fa]BL[650.03]
;W[ea]WL[1112.216]
;B[da]BL[646.157]
;W[hb]WL[1107.631]C[kmaster [6k\]: thx
Fedya [6k\]: Thank you for the game
])
at B6 should work
which both lead to complicated fighting, but with White saving the group.
wrong unless it does not want to capture the White stones.
. Taking the corner is purely territorial and not really bad, but at this stage of the game, efficiency of stones is more important than territory. So locally the best move is Q14, keeping everything connected and making your thickness truly impressive. Try to appreciate that this move is at least as good as taking the corner.
. This was your worst failure of the game. Please play over this position and convince yourself that E5 is the only move. Even without reading, this is clearly the required shape move, and here it works well tactically. Fortunately for you, W returned the favor with
, blocking the wrong way. W should block at E5, paying attention to the important side, giving up one stone on a small scale. My version of Leela says your mistake cost 20% win rate, while your opponent's mistake cost 25% win rate. The game is still pretty even at this point.
was a similar position to
, Leela thinks there are half a dozen good moves to choose from with 80% win rate. Simplest is probably defending at P7.
. To me, that looks like the sort of move where, if I played it, I would get criticized for playing aji keshi. Indeed, I thought of that in your comment on move 103 up in the top left for strengthening White needlessly.